Half of the Analects rule the world, and those who love books must read it!
It took 70 days to copy the Analects word for word. From 2.7 to 4.22, there was a pause of about a week in between, and a page was copied every day.
At first, I thought it would be easy, but I knew that it would test my willpower. The book I bought 20 years ago, I finally copied it with a rolling belt!
The classics are indeed classics, and Confucius and his disciples more than 2,000 years ago have left countless essences for the world.
Today is World Book Day, share the 10 golden sentences in the book, and understand the philosophy of life.
1. Clever words, fresh and kind.
Rhetoric, flattery, and rare benevolence.
Wang Xifeng in "Dream of the Red Chamber" is such a character.
In the 65th time, Jia Lian's xiao WeiXing'er's evaluation of her was "sweet and bitter, two sides and three knives", "a smile on the top, a tripping under the feet", "Ming is a fire, dark is a knife".
Sweet words are loved by everyone, and loyal words are against the ears and dislikes.
The man of rhetoric often meets the source left and right in life, and the wind and water are smooth, and you are full of flowers in three words and two words, but the cold may fall into the pit he dug.
Try to overcome human weaknesses and try to stay out of the sweet trap.
2. Do not suffer from the ignorance of others, and do not know who they do not know.
Don't worry about people not understanding you, worry about not understanding others.
Many disagreements are simply because of their different positions.
To be a person and do things, we must consider problems from the perspective of others and seek common ground while reserving differences.
3. See why it is, look at its causes, and see what it is.
To understand a person, you can see when he does something, why he does it, how he does it, and how he feels when he does it. Man cannot hide.
Seeing people's hearts for a long time, the road knows the horsepower, and even those who can disguise will also show the horse's feet.
People-to-people interactions are still slow and hot. Don't open up to others at will, and tell the difference between friend and foe.
Love at first sight depends on luck, and flash marriage is even more difficult.
4. Don't say anything when you're done, don't advise you when you do it, and don't blame the past.
What has already been done is no longer explained, what has already been done is no longer to be advised, and what has already been done is no longer to be blamed.
Don't do things after zhuge liang, it will not help, and there is a little bit of schadenfreude.
Turn the page early in the past, live in the present, and look forward to the future!
5. See the wise and think together, see the unwise and introspect within.
Seeing the wise man, try to look up to him. When you see an unwise person, you reflect on whether you have the same mistake.
"Xunzi" says: Flying with the phoenix will be a handsome bird; walking with the tiger and wolf, it will be a beast!
Strive to be close to excellent people and learn with an open mind. With high people, it is easier to reach the top.
6. The number of things, the number of insults, the number of friends, the number of people.
If you serve the monarch too many times, you will be disgraced; if you treat your friends too many times, you will be alienated by your friends.
It is human nature to listen to good words, whether it is a stranger, a friend, or a family member.
No one likes someone to nitpick and blame all day long, so don't think that it is good to be outspoken and open-minded.
"A good word is warm in three winters, and a bad word hurts people in June cold", even if you are kindly advised, you should speak euphemistically.
Talking is not a brain, can not control the mouth, friends will also be estranged.
7. Listen to what he says and watch his deeds.
To see a person, in addition to listening to what he says, you also have to observe how he does it.
Well said, not necessarily done well. Many people who work diligently and earnestly do not like to be quiet.
Boasting about Haikou is not as good as being down-to-earth. Don't be giants of language, dwarfs of action.
8. Ji Wenzi thought twice. Zi Wenzhi said, "Again, Si Keyi." ”
Do you need to think twice about everything you do? Confucius said that it is enough to think twice.
Many things, if you hesitate repeatedly, you will miss the opportunity.
Don't do things impulsively, but don't look ahead.
9. Ran Qiuyue: "Not the way of displeasure, the strength is insufficient." Zi Yue: "For those who are insufficient, the middle way is abolished, and this woman paints." ”
Ran Qiu said, "It's not that I don't like mr. Li's teachings, it's that my abilities are limited." ”
Confucius said: "If you are not capable enough, then you will stop moving when you can't move halfway, and now you have drawn a boundary yourself and stopped moving forward!" ”
It is better to give up halfway than to move forward.
Whether it is successful or not, try to do it first. People who don't do it have no right to laugh at the people who have done the failure.
10. Rich and sought, though a whip is a whip, I am also for it. If you can't ask for it, take my favor.
If wealth can be obtained, even if I do inferior service, I am willing. If not, then I choose to do what I love.
Can't make money and has been silently insisting, there must be true love. Of course, if you stick to many things, most of them can make money.
May you run away for half a lifetime, and still be able to get from my good!
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