When we reach a certain age, we gradually become reluctant to talk. It's not that there's nothing to say, it's just that I understand a lot of things, and it's useless to say it.
Not everyone can be lucky enough to meet two or three confidants. Most of the time, your pouring words are like a wisp or two of green smoke in other people's ears, and they are blown away by the wind.
Except for your parents, no one will care about you for no reason, and too many things in this world need to be exchanged equally. Even husband and wife are families formed after measuring each other.
When we were young, we never understood what silence was golden. On the contrary, I envy those who have social and can navigate among classmates.
After reaching middle age, people try their best to learn to calm down, afraid that they will fall to pieces and become the laughing stock in the eyes of others.
"If the mind is quiet, it will be determined, and if it is determined, it will be wise", people who have a vast galaxy in their hearts will never bluff and mouth like a river. As Shelley said, shallow water is noisy, while deep water is silent.
The best cultivation for a person is to learn to be "silent and taciturn."
Life is alive, up and down. Life is impermanent, and we must learn to be gentle with everything in the world.
The water is silent, and the people are steady.
The taciturn man has a good heart, and he will not fall into the strange circle of the world. Many people try to be quick-talking for a while, but they have already hurt the hearts of others without knowing it.
The things that you know well, the things that embarrass others don't need to be said, the facts are there pale and weak, why stir it up again, make the water more turbid.
The unforgiving man is not a skill, but an instinctive, self-paranoia.
Taciturn people often seem to be cold, but in fact, they are rich in connotation and pure in heart, and they can look at the world with a peaceful and calm attitude.
The taciturn person does not know anything, nor does he understand anything, but he understands what to say and what not to say.
People with real great wisdom will turn their words into good words, and those who play small and clever will talk endlessly and have no mouth.
Taciturn is a "sharp weapon" for a person to achieve his own achievements.
Zeng Guofan once said that if you talk less, you can nourish your qi, nourish your spirit, and nourish your spirit. Silence can help you avoid jealousy, denigration, and danger.
When a person is more incompetent, the more he will pay attention to using words to prove himself, and when a person is capable, the facts will prove themselves.
Taciturn often indicates a person's self-confidence, independence, and strength.
No one likes to be a supporting role in life, but whether or not it can be centered is not won with words. Obscurity is the peace of guarding a heart, striving to fight for it, and becoming the protagonist with its own actions.
Taciturn people may seem less gregarious. But at the same time, he also learned to rely on himself for everything. And that's the root cause of making it even more powerful.
Taciturn people know how to see the world from the perspective of a bystander, and even look at themselves from the perspective of a bystander. In this way, we can find our own advantages and see our weaknesses.
The stronger a person's heart is, the more things that can be understood and tolerated. They will not be like those who are shallow and fluctuating, but they have a sea in their hearts, in order to cope with changes, they are all fierce characters who live quietly.
People who look down and understand life have long since lost their mood.
Silence is an attitude to life that can help you be patient and see the world. Silence is also an attitude of being a person, it makes you not blindly happy with things.
Growing up is bitter and helpless. Silence is the practice of a person, who can really be spoiled. Just let yourself live a clean, simple, and comfortable life.
But in fact, it is extremely rare.
Truly powerful people do not need to be entangled with others to explain; truly powerful people do not need to argue with people everywhere; truly powerful people do not try to correct others.
Only the weak live in other people's worlds, looking into the eyes of others, longing for the approval of those around them.
People who know how to be silent are really smart people, they will not easily confide in others their weaknesses, will not arbitrarily discuss the rights and wrongs of others, and will not treat everyone as a garbage bin for their emotions like Xianglin Sister-in-law, making people afraid to avoid it.
Be a man, proud of nature, silent and taciturn and do not follow the waves, compassion for the embrace of all things in the world, to be a great success.
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The world is so big, thank you, you can see me!
[Wen | Wei Wei'an: the pen has temperature, for the voice of emotion, an atypical writer who loves words, invites you to perceive life together]