In early April, Canadian singer Lavigne announced on the social platform that she was engaged to her boyfriend Mod Sun.
The picture shows her boyfriend kneeling under the Eiffel Tower in Paris, kneeling on one knee to propose to her.
Not only that, Lavigne also showed her love on social platforms and sunburned diamond rings.
As soon as the news came out, many fans were very worried, saying that they were not particularly optimistic about this marriage.
Because this is Lavigne's third marriage.
Fans' feelings are very mixed, because it is said that this Mod Sun has a bad track record before, and it is hard to believe that he will change his mind. Some have even said that she is "looking for men in the garbage heap, disrespectful and unblessed".
However, no matter how the outside world talks about it, Lavigne is a happy and satisfied look,
"I want to be myself clearly, I write my feelings, and I never care what other people think." This is her attitude towards life.
That's what she said and that's what she did.
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I believe that people who like punk and rock and roll should be familiar with Lavigne.
In the hearts of many post-80s and post-90s generations, Lavigne is the representative of punk and rebellion.
Rock is synonymous with her.
This punk girl with smoky makeup and long blond hair left too deep an impression on everyone.
In 2002, a song "complicated" turned out, and Lavigne instantly became an idol.
But in fact, Lavigne's musical talent was shown at a very young age.
Lavigne was born in Canada in 1984 to a country music singer.
At the age of 2, her parents discovered her musical talents. At the age of 5, he entered the church choir to learn vocal music and piano.
In school, Lavigne is simply a tomboy, belonging to the type of person who does not go to the house for a day to reveal the tiles.
She doesn't like to read, is laissez-faire, and is often kicked out of the classroom for fighting with other students.
But she was not at all vague about what she loved.
When she was 12 years old, her father bought her a guitar. Since then, she has been going to the community theater to sing her own songs for others.
Talent is important, but without opportunity, nothing will work.
Finally, at the age of 15, she got an interview in New York.
Antonio Reid, general manager of Alista Records, after listening to her live cappella, excitedly said:
Oh, my God! I was in a bad mood today, you are like a light that breaks through the dark clouds, and my world lights up in an instant.
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On her second birthday, she signed her first contract and moved to New York to begin her music career.
In 2002, Lavigne released her first album "Let Go", which sold more than 20 million copies worldwide.
It was the first album ever to feature three U.S. Billboard pop chart-top singles.
Lavigne exploded overnight!
For many Chinese fans at that time, it was she who led the beginning to pay attention to European and American music.
Some people praise, some people question.
In an era when Britney's sweet wind swept the world, Lavigne's punk rock style seemed out of place.
At that time, there was a "Britney" wind blowing everywhere, and everyone wanted to tie two small braids and wear a short skirt as a pure hot girl.
The company hoped that she could continue that sweet and sexy style, hoping that she would wear a tighter, shorter and more shiny little dress.
But who was Lavigne, and if she obeyed, she wouldn't be called Lavigne.
Continue to put on smoky makeup, wear t-shirt jeans, carry the guitar on your back, and carry the punk to the end.
It is precisely because of Lavigne's choice that the European and American music scene has blown up two completely different winds of Sweetie and Lavigne.
Lavigne's success in going out has inspired many punks.
Too maverick, easy to be jealous. Some media that don't think it's too big to look lively have put an "Anti-Britney" hat on Lavigne's style for eyeballs.
Soon, she became a negative teaching material for parents, described as "untrimmed" and "dirty".
But so what?
Accept criticism and resolutely not change.
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Although Lavigne looks unique, she has something in her heart that she wants to protect. That is love and kindness.
"I know I'm really lucky. Because many talented people do not have the opportunity to show their musical talents and show them to people all over the world. And I had this opportunity, it was really incredible, and I was really grateful. ”
In 2008, when the Wenchuan earthquake occurred, Lavigne immediately donated 3.2 million yuan after learning about it, and in that year, most of the artists who could be named in the mainland donated 100,000 yuan.
In addition, Lavigne also invited two small fans from the disaster area to watch their performances for free at the Beijing concert a few months later.
Lavigne, whose career has always been smooth, has been emotionally frustrated repeatedly.
In 2006, at the age of 22, Lavigne married early to singer Deryck Whibley.
She has always liked punk dark dresses, and she put on a white wedding dress for her lover at the wedding.
Unfortunately, the marriage lasted only 3 years and ended in divorce.
At the age of 29, she married rock singer Chad Kroegerzai, who sold her Canadian house for him and moved to France.
This time, she insisted on herself, wearing a punk dark wedding dress, and once again entered the palace of marriage.
This time, the relationship also ended in failure.
If you can't fall in love, try to make a career.
In 2013, Lavigne's fifth album, Lavigne Lavigne, was officially released, which reached the fifth place on the Billboard Albums Chart with 44,000 copies sold in the First Week of the United States, and in December of the same year, Lavigne embarked on her fifth solo world tour, "The Avril Lavigne Tour".
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Just as Lavigne was standing at the peak of her life and emitting light, fate gave her an incomparably heavy blow.
In 2014, after a new round of world tours, Lavigne suspected she was overworked and went to the hospital. At first, the doctor thought that she was just weakening her immunity, and after a year of treatment, Lavigne's health was getting worse and worse, and she had a variety of life-threatening complications.
She remembered that she had been bitten by mosquitoes and was eventually diagnosed with Lyme disease.
Lyme disease is the world's number one tick-borne infectious disease, lesser known but extremely dangerous.
At present, this is still a very difficult disease, and it often takes several years from diagnosis to recovery. During this period, patients may suffer from many complications and have a serious decline in quality of life, so Lyme disease is also called "second AIDS".
In order to save her life, Lavigne, who really could not support herself, had to interrupt her career and go home to recuperate.
Lavigne once posted during the treatment process that during her worst period, she had been bedridden for 5 months, when she often felt unable to breathe, her whole body could not move, and even standing up to take a bath was a problem.
Fortunately, the development of medical technology has helped Lavigne overcome this hurdle. After her health gradually improved and returned to health, Lavigne set off again.
Unexpectedly, during her illness, the news began to inexplicably come out: "Lavigne died."
Unexpectedly, Lavigne, who defeated the disease, could not escape the attack of rumors.
Some even say that she is now just a "fake" named Melissa. And there are also many loofah masses, giving so-called evidence that seems to be advantageous but is actually absurd.
Some people also said that when Lavigne was red, because she could not bear the paparazzi's follow-up, she hired Melissa, who was like her, and let her go out instead of herself to attract attention.
I have to say that some people who are full of food and have nothing to do have really big brain holes.
In the face of rumors, she didn't say a word, because she knew that it was useless to talk more.
The best way to break the rumor is to block the troll's mouth with the work.
On September 19, 2018, she re-emerged with her new single "Head Above Water" for the world premiere.
The name was given because the disease had tormented her to death, and she had even accepted death.
It felt like being trapped in a suffocating abyss, constantly struggling to surface and breathe, and like being on the edge of a dark cliff, with life hanging in the balance.
And now, she struggled to surface and was born again.
Although a long time has passed, the girl who painted the smoky makeup does not seem to have changed much, still loves to laugh, and is still full of love for music.
I hope that Lavigne can always maintain good health, create more beautiful songs, and live happily with her lover all the time.