Liu Lili is Qiong Yao's royal director, who has made a lifetime of romance films, and finally directed his life into a standard Qiong Yao drama.
Falling in love with a married senior, living together for an abortion, and self-harm, are indispensable to "you are incomprehensible" and "where am I incomprehensible?" Qiong Yao's hysterical lines, and finally the same sister as the original love, love each other for 45 years, vividly acted into a warm comedy that even Qiong Yao did not dare to make up.
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The story takes place in 1969, Liu Lili, who has been 31 years old, graduated from college for many years, mixed in the film and television circle, starting from the lowest level of field records, working hard to sleep and forget to eat, and becoming an assistant director.
Because of the hardships of years of work, she has a dark and lean appearance, a frightening voice, extremely harsh on employees, and merciless scolding people.
Such a woman is doomed to have no marriage.
However, in fact, Liu Lili was once a beauty.
The melon face with the size of the palm is beautiful and longing, and the eyebrows are bent when they smile, which is hooked.
At the age of 18, with the dream of directing, she was admitted to the drama major of the Political War School. During college, she was tall, white and beautiful, and her smile was like a flower... More importantly, she is cheerful and outgoing.
Not only the school flower is also the backbone of the literary and artistic circles, enjoying the treatment of the stars and the moon in the university, and the suitors are countless!
Even, the school also launched a "pursuit of Liu Lili love letter contest", received countless love letters, but in Liu Lili's eyes, even a piece of toilet paper is not as good.
Among them, there was a senior named Dong Jinhu, who also rushed to the fashion, made bets with his classmates, and pursued Liu Lili. However, Dong Jinhu's family is well-off, and he is a brother who behaves as a prince, and even climbs the stairs with the servants carrying him.
The family conditions are not good, the father died early, and Liu Lili, who is dependent on his mother and siblings, naturally looks at this kind of clumsy child and will not be pleasing to the eye.
She focuses on her studies, and there is no favorite boy, whether it is the president of the student union with both talents or the sports athlete with a strong boyfriend, she can call anyone a brother, but she will not have a private affair with her children.
After graduating in 1962, with a lot of hard work, Liu Lili won the appreciation of Ding Shanxi, a big director in the circle, and was accepted as a closed disciple by him, with a bright future.
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However, Liu Lili was young and vigorous, his temper was fiery, and he offended people everywhere. Her contemporaries were promoted one after another, and she had to work as a field reporter for four or five years before she was promoted to director's assistant.
Dong Jinhu, who graduated two years earlier, is already a successful martial arts drama assistant director, the two met in the film and television circle, completely ignoring the rejection of the original pursuit, seeing that she was once the favorite girl, but also the sister's sake, Dong Jinhu took great care of Liu Lili.
Liu Lili was not willing to remember on the spot, Dong Jinhu looked in his eyes, as soon as there was a suitable new play, he ran to recommend to the director: "Let Liu Lili go up, she is very talented, she will definitely be able to shoot well!"
The eldest of 3 years old, has long been married, his wife is Wang Mei, an actor in the drama club in the circle, young and beautiful, and the two have given birth to a daughter.
At this time, Liu Lili was grateful to Dong Jinhu, and he and Wang Mei also got along well, like girlfriends, and even became their daughter's mother.
Soon after, Wang Mei became pregnant again, and at this time, Dong Jinhu's father was seriously ill and in urgent need of care. Wang Mei returned to the Dong family pregnant, while pregnant with the fetus, while taking care of the elderly, it is naturally very hard.
As for Dong Jinhu's side, because he grew up in a well-off family and had someone to take care of his diet and living, Wang Mei specially asked her good sister Liu Lili to take more care of her husband who had "extremely poor self-care ability" before returning to her hometown.
Unexpectedly, shortly after Wang Mei left, Dong Jinhu and Liu Lili were electrocuted and flinted and fell into an earth-shattering love. The two people love each other desperately, forgetting that one is a man with a family, and the other is a little three who pry the corner of the girlfriend.
Presumably, every night when it rains and thunders, Dong Jinhu is also afraid of being struck by lightning, and he has never returned to his hometown to see his father and his wife who is very pregnant.
Until Wang Mei gave birth to her second daughter, just after the full moon and did not feel the warmth of the family, she was diagnosed with congenital chromosomal abnormalities, and when she grew up, she would become a child with insufficient intelligence - cerebral palsy.
The night she received Wang Mei's complaint, Liu Lili finally regretted it, she wanted to quit this immoral relationship, so she secretly ran to the United States, how Dong Jinhu let the sick children at home ignore it, and looked around the world for a lover.
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Liu Lili only stayed in San Francisco for a month, and Dong Jinhu found her residence: "In order to find you, I have turned the whole of Taiwan over, you are so cruel?" (The style is really qiongyao)
In a foreign land, the two cried and hugged each other tightly and vowed never to be separated.
Back in Taipei, he rented a cottage on Zhongxiaoren Road, but she stipulated: don't come often, can't be common!
He was stunned: "How is this like a prison visit?" ”
"Originally, I was in prison, a prison of the soul. The day I am with you, the day of guilt. I'm sorry for her! "The two men lurked underground with a heavy sense of guilt, like a pair of wild Mandarin ducks.
Wang Mei, who is far away in her hometown, has long heard about Dong Jinhu's cheating through the phone, and she returned to Taipei from her hometown with her two children and filed for divorce from Dong Jinhu. But he disagreed, stating that he still loved Wang Mei, and even more loved the child and the family, but he could not do without Liu Lili and was willing to split himself in half to complete the two women.
Wang Mei drove Dong Jinhu away, unwilling to see him betray his own and still vibrant face, and returned to his empty home, raising two children silently.
But full-time mother Wang Mei, who has no income for a long time, needs a family, needs money to treat her daughter's illness, and only wants from Dong Jinhu. For the world's well-known infidelity, she can only endure silence.
In 1970, Qiong Yao took a fancy to Liu Lili's talents and invited her to direct her own films, replacing the male directors she had previously appointed. I don't know if Qiong Yao saw Liu Lili's courage to desperately do anything for love, it turns out that Liu Lili is the soul of Qiong Yao's film and television series, and her long-term cooperation with Qiong Yao can better interpret the essence of her original work.
When Liu Lili decided to be with Dong Jinhu, Qiong Yao once asked her: Li Li, do you think that Dong Brother is? There are so many men in the world, and there will be better in the future.
Liu Lili replied without hesitation: "In this life, I have identified him, no matter what, I will be with him!" ”
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Dong Jinhu was tired of running between the two women, he wanted to support the family, but also wanted Liu Lili. Wang Mei also bore him his only son. In order to make more money, I rushed to work day and night to make films, and finally exhausted my body, got a serious stomach disease, and could hardly engage in hard work, and my career stopped.
Without income, Wang Mei swallowed her anger to maintain this home, and the wind and rain drifted to zero. The second daughter's illness needs to be cured, and the younger son is still waiting to be fed, but Dong Jinhu, in order to be happy for himself, threw away everything to play in the mountains and rivers, and called it recuperation.
One stormy and rainy night, the younger son was suddenly ill, and Wang Mei could not find Dong Jinhu everywhere, so she had to break into Liu Lili's home alone and seek help.
Liu Lili didn't say a word, picked up Xiao Sihai and sent him to the hospital, yelling and asking the doctor for treatment, all the way exhausted, more anxious than he was sick. The four seas were seriously ill, and the hospital issued a critical illness notice, and it was Liu Lili who hugged Wang Mei, who was dizzy, to give her comfort and confidence.
Wang Mei could not come up with the medical expenses to save the four seas, and Liu Lili did not have much savings, so she hurriedly sold the valuable electrical appliances in her home and used this money to save the lives of the four seas.
After this incident, Wang Mei completely changed her attitude towards Liu Lili. Who can spare no effort like her to save other people's children, even the father of the child can't do it.
After being discharged from the hospital, Liu Lili worried about the health of the child every day, but he could not visit until one day Wang Mei proposed: Think of the child, you move to my house to live.
Liu Lili thought about it again and again and really lived in dong jinhu and Wang Mei's home.
Just in response to the classic line in Qiong Yao's play: I did not come to break up this family, I came to join this family.
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One for love, one for children, two women chose to serve a husband.
For such a decision, Dong Jinhu was naturally happy. Although Wang Mei was full of grievances in her heart, for the sake of her children, she chose to be patient as always. Living under the same roof as Xiao San, such a thing, on any woman, is difficult to do beautifully.
Liu Lili, on the other hand, seems to be grateful for Wang Mei's fulfillment, and from the initial guilt, he derived pity and responsibility for her.
Dong Jinhu no longer works to support his family, Wang Mei still has three children to raise, only Liu Lili is working hard outside, handing over every penny earned to Wang Mei to take care of, not seeking fame, and willing to be as good as food.
Wang Mei is responsible for taking care of all the big and small things in the family, raising children, and voluntarily sharing her husband.
In this way, Liu Lili and Wang Mei are shaped like sisters, Wang Mei calls Liu Lili a "Sister Liu", and the children call Liu Lili a "good mother". More precisely, it's a "twosome." This home is maintained by two women, and the man is only a connection between women.
Two women, sharing a husband, no matter how peaceful the family looks, in fact, has always been shrouded in clouds.
This peach-colored news set off a crusade of social public opinion at that time, but Dong Jinhu could explain it in a tv program:
Liu Lili and Wang Mei do not live together and share a common man through one-three-five and two-four-six.
And said, "For three thousand years, China has been marrying little wives."
So: Liu Lili, is he just a concubine?
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Once it was supposed to be the time to spend the night at Liu Lili's place, but there was an emergency in Wang Mei's room, and Dong Jinhu wanted to rush over, and as a result, the emotional Liu Lili took a knife and cut off his arm.
(Brain supplement Qiong Yao drama, the extreme heroine roared: If you leave me tonight, I will die to show you)
As a result, Dong Jinhu sent Liu Lili, who had a bloody arm, to the hospital for treatment, but returned to Wang Mei's home.
That's the man — huh.
How much love Liu Lili still had for Dong Jinhu after that, I don't know, but she really loved Wang Mei and Wang Mei's children. Because of the guilt and the grace of the encounter, it evolved into love for the original partner and the family.
In the 45 years that she and Wang Mei shared their husbands, they never quarreled once, and even if there was a contradiction, the two always dealt with Dong Jinhu.
She was so kind to her children that she didn't want her children to split the whole family's love. When Liu Lili became pregnant, without anyone' knowledge, he went to the hospital alone and beat up the child with a full moon in his abdomen.
Before the operation, she called her mother and choked up until it was difficult to pronounce.
Wang Mei said: Although our family is not rich, but every day is very happy, mainly Liu Jie has a good heart, really a good person. Filming for our family day and night is really the fate of the previous life.
Think about it, a woman who took your husband and destroyed your family, the original match can still be evaluated by "a good person", then how much effort does she have to pay in exchange for this good person?
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This continued until 2010, when Liu Lili was diagnosed with "cerebellar atrophy." This condition can gradually incapacitate people to live, eventually leading to paralysis. It is even more unfortunate that the condition deteriorates rapidly. Finally, because the condition was so severe that it could be needed at any time, doctors had to issue a critical illness notice and require family members to sign the notice.
However, the family members who are legally qualified to sign are not Dong Jinhu or Wang Mei.
To this end, at the suggestion of her son Dong Sihai, Wang Mei agreed to divorce Dong Jinhu and give Liu Li a name.
On October 3, 2010, Liu Lili was 72 years old and Dong Lihu was 75 years old. Liu Lili and Dong Jinhu, who were bedridden, held a simple wedding in the hospital.
Finally, in the near final stage of his life, he married the love he had pursued all his life.
Liu Lili was ill for ten years, it was Wang Mei who took care of her for ten years, Dong Jinhu died first, and liu Lili followed him three years later. The aftermath of both of them was handled by Wang Mei.
When Liu Lili was dying, he could not speak, but just took Wang Mei's hand and gently shook it three times.
After Qiong Yao knew about this matter (of course, Wang Mei said it), she understood that Liu Lili meant "I love you".
Did she say that to Wang Mei? Dong Jinhu was already an ancient three years ago.
So Qiong Yao took the name of "Hold Three, I Love You" to shoot this deformed threesome story.
Unfortunately, even though the film caused Rainie Yang's acting skills to explode, after all, it showed this kind of love story with three views of injustice, and the Douban score was 6.5, and it seems that most of the audience still did not recognize it.
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I personally think that as a latecomer, it is difficult for us to evaluate the choice of these three people, the "threesome" of 45 years.
Feelings are like people drinking water, cold and warm self-knowledge.
However, what is not recognized is Qiong Yao's understanding, appreciation and admiration for this matter. After the wedding in the ward, I specially sent a Weibo message to express my blessings. And for them filmed the real movie "Three Shakes, I Love You"
Perhaps in Qiong Yao's eyes, only "love" is the most precious in this world, after all, it is Qiong Yao who can write lines such as "What ZiLing loses is love, what you lose is only a leg".
She often borrowed the mouths of her characters to preach: "Love, no conditions, no age, money, status, people and all my restrictions." It fully expresses her idea of the supremacy of love.
After all, she is also with her husband Ping Xintao and the original threesome, and after more than ten years, due to the withdrawal of the original match, she has completed the "Ping Shimei" and "White Lotus".
The relationship between Liu Lili and Dong Jinhu is actually a derailment from a moral point of view.
From a legal point of view, it is illegal, because "monogamy" occupies a central position in the mainland marriage system.
In ancient times, it was possible to marry a little wife, which was a concubine. It is a crime for a concubine to mention the position of a wife; in modern times, it is a crime of bigamy.
In this story, the most painful and admiring is Wang Mei.
Yang Dai said:
"Don't touch a married woman, that's a man's face;
Don't touch a married man, that's the rest of a woman's life. ”
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