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When reading, the teacher came up with such a reading analysis question.
Former British Prime Minister Lloyd George, wherever he went, would close the door behind him.
One day he went for a walk in the yard with a friend, and every time he passed a door, it would be closed. The friend was puzzled and asked, "Is it so important?" ”
He said: "All our lives, we have been closing the door behind us. When you close the door, leave everything in the past behind, and then you can start again. ”
Perhaps, it was George's spirit that led him to success. What do we think of from this?
As the saying goes, "When God closes one door for you, he must open another window for you." ”
People over sixty, began to enter the old age, how to spend time, you need to learn the "on, off" know-how, do not worry about the past, only want to laugh for the rest of your life.
02
First, close the door to the workplace and retire calmly.
My fourth uncle, in the second year of retirement, quarreled with the original unit. Because when he was in office, some bills were not handled well, and he could not tell the specific situation, and some banquet expenses had no basis. The fourth uncle could not argue.
There is a very difficult saying in the countryside: "After going to the pit, everyone must wipe themselves clean." ”
That is to say, a person has worked hard in the workplace for most of his life, and before retiring, he must deal with all the troubles, withdraw cleanly, and do not leave any "sequelae".
Being a person and having a clear conscience is what you should be sober. However, there are always some people who are not safe at night, thinking that before retirement, do some bad things, make a profit, and when they retire, everything has nothing to do with themselves.
As long as the interests come to the right path, sleep steadily, if not, then we must know how to "return", take the initiative to admit mistakes, and assume due responsibilities.
The day you get your retirement certificate, it's as comfortable as unloading the stress of your body, and you can smile and say "goodbye" to your colleagues, which is the best start for older people.
03
Close the door to emotional grievances, and do not owe or owe.
On the road of life, everyone will meet someone they like, and there is more than one. We often think that the person we don't love is the dream of this life.
We need to remember a sentence – if you choose the person you love, then create a scar for yourself; if you choose the person who loves you, choose an armor for yourself.
Loving and being loved are two sides of the same sword. If you are not good at using it, you will hurt each other.
Smart people know how to put the knife into the sheath, so that it is the safest. When a person is sixty years old, the family is your "sheath".
Once upon a time, we didn't love ourselves enough, but we tried to love others and cling to it. In the end, we are gray-haired, only to find that the people who can take care of ourselves are not others, but our own families.
"Love has passed, not that it is not love, but that it has passed." Always learn to let go, shut all your grievances out of the door, and then go home with a smile.
Finally, don't look at other people's faces to do things, and don't bear the anger in your heart and bury your head in hard work. Be relieved with your enemies, say thank you to your benefactors, say goodbye to those you have loved, and your emotional world is simple.
Nothing, we will all become "people who come over", as long as we live without entanglement, the mood will become better.
04
Close the door to drama and be yourself.
Actress Lin Qingxia once said: "I have filmed 100 plays and played 100 roles, but the most difficult thing is myself." ”
No matter how high your acting skills are and how strong your self-control is, you can't be someone else. At some point, you'll be a character in a play, but you can't empathize with "him."
If you've ever acted in a tragedy and can't get out, then you're truly tragic. How can life be like this?
Acting for too long, people will be particularly tired, but also lose themselves. After all, living has become a life that others do not want. More realistically, the people around you will not accompany you to act, they need to live a life.
The writer Mader wrote in the article: "A person's soul, only in solitude, can see its own clarity and brightness, in order to enjoy the life of the leaves and vigorous." ”
When people are over sixty, throw away all the opportunities to make a scene. Tell the truth, treat everyone with your true face, even if you are hated, you must have the courage to be hated.
The mask of hypocrisy is no longer needed, the words of flattery, can not be said, eat and drink the meal, do not go, whisper the way to ask for people, do not care. Even if you can only be "lonely" for the rest of your life, it doesn't matter, after all, you have found "yourself".
True, is the character that an elderly person should have. Only by doing so can people be trusted and can they have the truth, goodness, and beauty of human nature.
05
Close your own door and be less nosy to cultivate your spirit.
Nietzsche said: "Even if people walk in the crowds, they actually walk in new wilderness, and even if they eat at the same table with others, they actually have a thick wall between them." ”
Think about it, even your own family can't be 100% empathetic, let alone an outsider?
Idle, clean up the things in the house, so that the family becomes clean and tidy, and the space becomes larger.
The environment at home has become better, close the door, the impetuousness and prosperity of the outside world, so as not to interfere with themselves. Even if there is noise outside the door, don't bother.
There is a saying: "Each sweeps the snow in front of the door by himself, and the frost on the tiles of the others." "The old man needs to be quiet in order to be at peace.
In ancient times, in some circles of interest, there were often people who "cleaned the door". Only by clearing out those who cannot share weal and woe can those who remain be more united.
Therefore, if you have the opportunity to meet a few like-minded people, know each other, and be able to taste tea and enjoy food at home, it would be perfect.
06
Closing the door behind you, not to put everything down, but to open the front door at the same time, so that the spring of life can pour in through the door.
After the age of sixty, you can learn a little bit, painting, reading, dancing, reading, writing... All good.
Closing the door is a kind of learning and a skill of doing things.
There is no real "terminal" in life, unless you lock all the doors.
May you, knowing the trade-offs, open your heart to hope.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
The illustrations in this article come from the Internet.