#In the name of the book#"Li Yinhe on Intimate Relationships"
1. As the saying goes, there is still some truth to the fact that phases arise from the heart, and this truth lies in the interaction between psychology and physiology. For example, a person who often does good deeds to help others will hear more thanks and praises, and his mood will be more pleasant. Over time, he will become more confident.
2. From a psychological point of view, praising, appreciating, and encouraging such positive words will have a positive effect. If in the process of falling in love, you always have a special appreciation, encouragement, and appreciation attitude towards the other party, always give him positive words, and do not pick his faults, your relationship will develop better and better. Human relations are ultimately constructed in discourse.
3. Love must not be to forcibly suppress yourself, but to be yourself calmly. You have to be yourself, to live according to your own nature, you are self-actualized, not need to change yourself, suppress your desires.
4. I believe that a good relationship should not force one party to change themselves. The intimate relationship established by a good love should allow both parties to be themselves openly, and all nature, all desires, all nature can be freely expressed. That is to say, although he is in love and married, he is still a free person.