If you want to win, these five elements, none of them can be less

Everyone likes to win, but "winning" is not easy.

A "win" word has five parts, namely death, mouth, moon, shell, and van.

And if a person wants to "win", none of these five elements can be less.

01

Dead: Crisis awareness

How are people abolished? Many people answered: be content with the status quo and do not think of making progress.

Being content with the status quo and indulging in pleasure is a common weakness of human nature. Do you know that in the quiet years, there will be crises from time to time.

In the adult world, there has never been a quiet year, the world is stable, if people have been living and living, staying in the comfort zone, will never grow. It will only be when the storm of life suddenly changes, and the brothers and sisters are at a loss.

There is a cold trumpet bird on Mount Wutai, which is born with flesh wings but cannot fly. In the summer, it is covered with beautiful colorful feathers. In this regard, it was very proud and showed off everywhere: "The phoenix is not as good as me!" ”

When other birds are busy building nests, it does not care, saying that winter is still so far away, what is the nest doing now?

Autumn came, and the feathers on his body began to fall off, but he was still not worried: although a few feathers had fallen and the temperature was getting cooler, it was still passable to endure.

Winter is coming, the feathers are gone, it is very cold, but it still does not nest, and it is fantasizing: maybe this year's winter is very warm.

Deep winter arrives and snow falls. This frozen, bare bird of flesh, in a cry of "get by and get by," lived its short life.

"No one has far-sighted worries, but there will be near-term worries." People who are content with the status quo and carefree will be eliminated by this changeable world sooner or later.

"Thinking of danger in times of peace and preparing for the rain" is the wisdom that both the sages and Bai Ding admired, and history also tells us that only by being prepared for trouble can we have long-term peace and stability.

If a person wants to "win", he must maintain a state of "nothing as if there is something", and cannot covet pleasure and be too comfortable.

02

Mouth: The way of speaking

On any occasion in our lives, we cannot do without talking.

And the same is talking, some people speak like a knife, and some people talk like a spring breeze. This is an ability, but also a kind of cultivation.

Before his death, the writer and literary critic Xia Yan was very uncomfortable, and his secretary said to him: "I will call the doctor." Just as the secretary was about to go out, Xia Yan said with extreme difficulty: "It's not a call, it's a please." ”

It was this difference in words that made people see Xia Yan's cultivation and realm.

When I am sick and suffering, I still don't forget to respect others. After these words were uttered, the old man passed out and never woke up again, and this last word was incomparably pure, thick and thick, and awe-inspiring.

"The way of speaking is actually to see others in the eyes and put them in the heart", words are the voice of the heart, and words are things that flow out of the heart.

Have others in your heart, learn to respect others, in order to be comfortable to speak and get along with people.

03

Month: Good health

People's internal organs, liver, spleen, stomach, lungs, and kidneys all have a "month" word.

The moon evolved from flesh and referred not only to time, but also to the human body. "Winning" is important, but the body is a chip that cannot be discarded.

Health is "1", success is the next few "0s", there is no "1", and zero is useless. However, most people are exhausted for the "0" after the "1", and they do not know that the most precious and difficult thing in the world to keep is the "1" in front.

Schopenhauer said: "Happiness is based on health, and health is everything." "Only a healthy body has the opportunity to win more things, and a healthy body is inseparable from good habits."

Go to bed early and get up early, maintain a good mood; eat lightly, warm and cold self-knowledge; calm your mood, develop a good attitude, and stabilize the healthy rear camp...

How much time we put into our health, how much energy we spend, how much exercise we do, and eventually the body will give an honest answer.

04

BEY: There's a way to go

"A gentleman loves money and has a way to get it." We can make money, but we can't be deceived; we can ask for fame, but we can't do whatever it takes.

The Eastern Han General Liang Ji did not learn any techniques and ran the court for twenty years. During his tenure, he was insatiably greedy and went around scavenging for wealth. In the name of the king, he surveyed the rich households of the whole country, put them on false charges, extorted and raided their homes, and amassed wealth for themselves.

Later, Emperor HanHeng ascended the throne and sent elite troops to encircle and suppress it. Liang Ji knew that a catastrophe was coming and committed suicide by taking poison. Painstaking efforts to build a wealth empire that should not belong to oneself is a farce.

"Unrighteous and rich and expensive, like a floating cloud with me." How ill-gotten gains are obtained, they are lost.

In the world's affairs, there are some things that are done or not, and no matter what they do, they should not lose their character for the sake of calculation. Step by step, and hard work can make money and have a way.

05

Van: Normal mindset

Wang Yangming said: "It is normal to be unhappy about getting rich; it is normal to not worry about losing; it is normal to be not proud of reputation; it is ordinary to be slandered and not to be annoyed." "Do not rejoice in things, do not grieve with yourself." Powerful people, regardless of gains, losses, rewards and punishments, can maintain peace in their hearts.

Lin Qingxuan recounted such a story in "The Go of Xiaman".

Two old men in the park play Go, and they play very slowly. It made the onlookers very impatient.

One of the old men said interestingly: "You don't know, Go has to be played slowly, and if it is played fast, it is murderous, unlike a friend playing chess." Moreover, when the first chess piece falls, a game of chess begins to come to an end. When the Go is full, it is time to withdraw the board, so it is better to play slowly. ”

This seemingly meaningful passage made the people next to him think. Until the end of the game, no one rushed again.

There is a sentence in the "Book of Fu Lei's Family": "Success or failure should be ignored as much as possible, and only to do its best and be ashamed." "Chess requires us to play step by step, and the road of life needs us to go step by step."

You and I, as chess players, play against uncertain lives. Instead of suffering from gains and losses, it is better to face it calmly. There is no need to be complacent about temporary progress, nor is it necessary to be self-effacing for momentary twists and turns.

To be able to take it, but also to put it down, not to seek perfection, but to seek no regrets.

Adhere to the principles in your heart, learn to plan ahead, know how to adapt to changes, and look down on success or failure, in order to be at ease.

Indifference can be clear-sighted, and tranquility can be far-reaching. Don't be crazy when you are proud, and don't be depressed when you are frustrated. Always not humble, single-mindedly focused on the cause in front of you, you can go to the far side steadily.