I love my home
Text/Shao Suide
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My family consists of three members: wife, daughter, and me. Although there are not many personnel, they have clear responsibilities, each performs his own duties, and is also divided into a clear number one, two, and three like the liangshan po hero ranking. I, as the head of the household, wanted to declare sovereignty, but after several battles, I repeatedly lost and had to lose. In order to take care of the whole thin face, he had to declare to the outside world: Because he was afraid of bothering to work hard and had no heart to manage discipline at home, he only took pleasure in idleness and freedom, and was afraid of being deceived and afraid of being weak and afraid of being hard, so he simply gave up the second number and took the initiative to give up the second number, and was willing to sit at the bottom of the table, and imprisoned the third number. The heroine is far-sighted, has a good plan, has financial power and power in her hands, loves to do it, no one dares to ask, naturally it is ironclad number one, indisputable. Then there is the small cotton jacket, the doctor is reading, the student is a piece, single-mindedly studying, do not ask trivial matters, although knowledgeable, insightful, but in front of the parents, it seems weak and weak, even the right to speak has to look at the face to act, and can only be relegated to the second seat.
Number Three: The free electron of the imagination
I was an old man, unrestrained and freewheeling, stupid, and spoiled, and I had nothing but school or school. However, after the adjustment of the first number after marriage, just like a change of a person, it has become versatile, washing and cooking with children, frying and cooking to do housework, everything can afford to put down, the dirty, bitter, and tiring work in the family, taking the initiative to contract, but enjoying it, fell into the reputation of a "housewife and man". The reason for this stems from the spirit of the no. 1 instruction: what art is not oppressive, what is the dedication of love, and then what is the responsibility to bear, to reflect their own value, and so on. Dizzy, happy, obedient, trying to be happy, why not be happy? Since I was a child, I have not had the elegance of piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, let alone the grace of playing and singing, in my spare time, I like to wander around, love to have fun, and from time to time I make a card game, drink five or six together, and play a lot of fun. Carelessly, drunk, or late, he was greatly intolerable to the number one, repeatedly posed as a political teacher, used the words of earnest teaching, tried to persuade him to return, but had little effect, and had to give up in sorrow, after all, he could not destroy the excellent situation of harmonious coexistence. Therefore, in the case of work and life, being in nature, flying in the sky, enjoying the body and mind, but also comfortable and comfortable, satisfied.
Number One: The chief designer of the strategist
Number One is weak and not sensual, hearty and not willful. My mind is super developed, and my every move, every word and deed, is under her control. As she said: I am a head-to-head, a mental worker, you are a manual worker, a laborer, a laborer who controls people, a laborer who rules people, can you escape the palm of the Buddha's hand? It is no exaggeration to say that he knows a lot of things without a teacher. Although I have been going to school and teaching after graduating from normal school, I don't know when I learned it, whether it is dismantling and washing and sewing, or making shoes and knitting. Many of our colleagues ask her for help when removing the laundry quilt and knitting clothes and hat accessories. In terms of cooking, it is not a problem, nutrition collocation, pattern renovation, and sometimes with the woman's unique sixth feeling, self-created recipes, taste really extraordinary. Number One is unambiguous in terms of family management, and big things and small things can be handled in an orderly and just right way. Although he was financially powerful, he was very simple with himself, and never bought a single piece of gold and silver jewelry, including rarely expensive clothes. But you don't just think that she is a miser, and her consumption for me and my daughter is much more relaxed, from buying a car and buying a house, to a small person's relationship, generous and impressive. In short, the first is a husband and son, thrifty and thrifty, stingy with himself, generous to others, thrifty in a small place, heroic in a big place, although he is a weak body, he has a chivalrous style. It is in this way that he is deeply respected, and the leadership position is firmer than Taishan, which is unshakable.
Number Two: The Star of Hope, the Intelligent and Intellectual
As a single seedling, the little cotton jacket naturally pins the hopes of the whole family, fortunately, she has been smart and clever since childhood, and she is well-behaved. Under the careful tutelage of No. 1, she has developed many good study and living habits, which has benefited her a lot. In terms of learning, the grades have always been OK, along the way, going up to middle school, entering the university, studying for graduate school, studying for a doctorate, step by step, step by step, growing every month, and harvesting every year. In life, although she is an only daughter, she is not spoiled, and she learns to wash and cook early, do housework, take care of herself, take care of herself, be strong and brave, be sober-minded and rational when things go wrong. Studying abroad since junior high school, I handle all affairs by myself and cope with them freely. What is particularly gratifying is that the daughter is filial and considerate, never provokes us to be angry, and if there is a disagreement, she will calmly deal with it. Since college, I've been calling or videoping us at least once a week to talk about campus life and exchange views on the problems we encounter in life. Whenever we have a birthday, he always sends blessings early, and often tells us to pay attention to the maintenance of the body, and ask for warmth. At home during the holidays, help us with cooking and housework. After the meal, the family sat together, talked about learning, talked about life, laughed and laughed continuously, and enjoyed it.
As the only male citizen in my family, I stand up to the sky, have the courage to take responsibility, and play the role of the needle of the sea god. The first is a high-rise building, establishing a system of rules and regulations, controlling the overall situation, and playing the role of a compass. The daughter is the future, is the hope, for this family to shelter from the wind and rain, play the role of lightning rod. We support each other, understand each other, and dedicate and invest in this home together, so that this home can become a more happy, happy and warm harbor of love.
【About the Author】Shao Suude, male, teaches at Weizhuang Town Center Junior High School in Xinxian County, senior teacher, member of the Communist Party of China, loves to write, and has published many works.