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Lewis once said: "Life is not like a train going through every station, going through every stage of life." Life always goes straight forward, never leaving anything behind. ”
Indeed, as human beings, we pursue and explore all the way, just so that we can leave something behind at the time of Xiao Suo. But the train of life cannot withstand so many stops, nor can it carry so many gains.
Whether it is wealth or status, family affection or friendship, when it comes to a special time, you will eventually find that you can't take anything with you. The glory and affection you think are just a passing cloud.
And what really belongs to you is nothing more than two things, look at it, and win.
One: The experience of life
There is a saying that the meaning of life does not care about the changes in the outside world, but about the inner experience.
Indeed, what is more important to life than the harvest that can be seen and touched is the experience of life, and what is more impressive than tears and sobs is the experience of life. At the time of parting, we may not be able to take anything away, but memory is eternal and will accompany us for a long time.
In the TV series "The World", Bingyi eventually died of stomach cancer.
But as early as the eve of he learned that he was ill, he realized that perhaps he was running out of time. So he seized every opportunity and completed the final work - to help the "photon film" complete the relocation.
Looking back at his life, as he wrote in his farewell letter:
"More important than the length of life is the quality of life."
A person who has requirements for life will often leave himself with the most unique life experience. They dare to experience everything in the world, and they grasp all the choices given by fate.
There is no doubt that such a life is of quality and desirable, and I believe that they will not regret it when they look back on the past when they are dying of old age.
In an episode of "Strange Story", Bo Bonnie once said:
"The most important thing about life is experience."
A lifetime is very short, like a white colt, but many things, if you have experienced, that feeling will be rooted in your heart, if you have experienced, that mood will continue.
That feeling is your treasure alone, and that experience is also your own unique memory.
Two: Wisdom in the world
In addition to the experience of life, in this life, there is actually one thing that belongs to oneself, and others cannot learn or grab it, that is, the wisdom of dealing with the world.
This wisdom is deeply imprinted in a person's conversation, emotional intelligence and treatment of others, and no matter how time passes, this wisdom will last forever.
A man who knows how to deal with the world can fellowship with the good and break with the wicked. You can be humble in the midst of the bewildering hustle and bustle, and you can find peace in the maddening silence. With the wisdom of the world, you can protect yourself from a little silence in this noisy world.
In the novel "Distant Savior", the author Doudou portrays a series of characters who are well versed in the way of dealing with the world.
Ding Yuanying can read people's hearts, and can also stir up authority in the unknown ancient city. Xiao Yawen's "double business" is superior, and he regrets that he does not climb the fate with fate, and eventually earns a lot of money. Han Chufeng had the means to fight righteousness and righteousness, and he sat on the first chair of the group at a young age.
Each of them is a wizard with unique wisdom in the world, and everyone can take a quiet and quiet brake in the middle of the chaos and write their own life legend. A person who has the wisdom to live in the world can maintain his composure in the middle of the city, and he can find the true scriptures in calmness.
Such a person is not afraid of the wind and waves, and can always fly against the wind.
Many people's life, seemingly busy and busy, for the cause and the future of hard work, for the future and hope to work hard, do not know, in fact, what people really have, is nothing more than the experience of life, as well as the philosophy of living in the world, the rest is just a floating cloud, a galaxy.
Life is short, and we always have to be with people who deserve it.
For example, to pursue some meaningful life experiences, do not regret. For example, cultivate some good philosophies of life and leave no regrets. In this way, life will always be on the right path, and those things you have pursued will eventually be grasped.
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