Today's middle-aged men are more or less involuntary because of such and such things, perhaps because of work or because of their marriage and family. But in fact, middle-aged men should have more life experience than young men, and they should have their own basic judgments about those things that occur in life.
After all, I have been working hard for so many years, I should adhere to my own set of living habits for life, and I should have certain achievements for my work. Some time ago, a middle-aged man who is about to enter 50 years old told us about his own feelings about life, and now Zhou Yi wants to share these with everyone, and also hopes that this article can give you a little direction that is confused.
For middle-aged men, when doing certain things, they may not only consider themselves, but should consider more for the people around them. Men don't stay in these places too much when they reach middle age, it won't be good for yourself!
The first: a business liquor store
Men must inevitably drink with customers and talk about business in their work socializing, but everyone knows that drinking hurts the body. You may feel that your body is strong and able to hold up in your youth, but by the time your body is in decline in middle age, you should understand that the overeating diet is time to change. Don't always exchange your physical health for some unnecessary social interaction, maybe one day when your body reaches a certain limit and can't support it, you will feel that your life is meaningless, then it is too late, even if you want to change it is too late. Therefore, middle-aged men should not go if they can't go to the liquor store, and they must not stay for a long time!
The second: the entangled world of feelings
Now many couples have begun to have such and such crises in middle age, because the two parties have been together for a long time, and in this process, there will definitely be feelings of boredom and disgust. If you add a little outside temptation at this time, then for men, cheating can be said to be a matter of minutes. But in fact, the feelings that come from cheating are distorted from the beginning, and there will be no good results in the development. In real life, there are many men who choose to abandon their families for their extramarital affairs, but this is very dangerous for middle-aged men. Because you can't predict whether the woman is approaching you sincerely or not, and may leave you after getting your money, then at this time the man can only be left alone in the sad scene. The complex emotional world can not be mixed without mixing, cherishing their lovers, living a good and stable life is already very satisfied,
The third: a place of fame and fortune that fights with each other
The reason why men work so hard is not to gain fame and respect from women, people's needs are always slowly expanding, maybe they already have a lot of things that others can't get, but in their hearts they always feel that they are unhappy. Fame and fortune may have a double-edged sword effect on a person, and the key is to see how you use him. But what we see more in the actual situation is that men lose their original intentions in the pursuit of fame and fortune, and eventually go astray. In the process of fighting between the open and the dark, there will definitely be many pairs of eyes staring at you, and if you are not careful, you may bury yourself in the sea of fire. Maybe you wait until you have nothing to do and still don't understand how you were defeated.