"Do you know how old your baby is to really recognize his mother?"
When brushing the video, I saw a new mother ask a new dad, and the novice dad said: The baby can recognize it when it is just born, you see, when I hold the baby, the baby cries, you hug, he will not cry immediately.
Yes, the baby has a very magical phenomenon when it is just born, others will cry when they hold it, but as long as the mother gets started the baby, it can stop crying immediately, just like knowing for many years.
How do newborns recognize their mothers?
Newborns are distinguished by the familiarity of the mother:
The baby lives in the womb for ten months, and is also truly connected to the mother's blood for ten months, during which the baby's hearing begins to develop at about four months, and then the baby can hear the mother's heartbeat, the sound of gastrointestinal peristalsis, and the sound of blood flowing in the blood vessels.
After the third trimester, the fetus can not only hear the sound in the womb, but even the sound outside the uterus can be heard, and the fetus unconsciously engraves the mother's voice in its own mind when the mother sings, reads, and chats outside the womb.
After birth, the baby relies on the familiarity with the mother and the advantages of hearing and smell, and easily recognizes the mother through the mother's heartbeat, the smell of the mother's body, and the mother's voice.
But in fact, we also know that although the baby can recognize the mother when it is just born, it is not really recognizable, because the newborn's vision is really "too poor". The baby's vision of about two months has not really been able to focus, and the image perception of what he sees is not very good, so he cannot recognize the mother at all by looking at the baby.
How old is the baby who can really recognize the mother?
There is a saying about the development of the baby, three months to recognize the mother, the original people have long known that the baby usually has to wait until three months later to really recognize the mother, because the baby's vision has made great progress when it is three months, and it can clearly see the items at close range.
And because it is often the mother who takes care of the baby, the baby also has more opportunities to get acquainted with the mother, to know the mother, especially the breastfeeding mother, the baby can recognize the mother may be earlier, after all, morning and evening are looking at each other.
Similarly, the person who often takes care of the baby, because he often meets the baby, even if the baby can't tell whether it is the mother or the father, the grandmother, the grandmother and other people, but the baby will also have a sense of familiarity, but for the time being, it is not clear who is who.
After the baby is seven months old, the baby will be able to distinguish between parents, other family members and strangers through what his eyes see.
Of course, after being "recognized" by the baby, the baby will be particularly dependent on the mother or the person who takes care of him every day, if you always take care of the baby alone, then the baby's dependence will definitely exceed your imagination, and you will find that you do not even have time to go to the toilet.
Anyway, lazy mothers have tried N times to hold the baby to the toilet, every time the baby takes a bath, the baby will clap outside the door and cry, hold the baby to stir-fry and so on.
How do you know if your baby can recognize your mother?
In fact, after being recognized by the baby, it is not all the above bad things, and there will be many exclusive benefits between the baby and the mother.
Babies prefer to smile at their mother
When the baby can accurately recognize the mother, he will prefer to smile at the mother, and some babies will stop when feeding, and smile at the mother, completely ignoring the milk sprayed on the face or dripping on the clothes, and then continue to feed.
Babies can giggle after three months, but babies don't laugh at everyone like this, and when others tease babies, babies laugh, but generally smile, and when moms tease babies, babies are more likely to giggle.
Babies like to stay with their mothers and will take the initiative to find their mothers
When the baby can recognize the mother, he prefers to stay with the mother, likes to be next to the mother when sleeping, and hopes to see the mother at first sight when he wakes up, and he also likes to let the mother hold it when he is awake. If you change a person to hold the baby, the baby will instinctively refuse, when the mother is not around the baby, the baby will also actively look for the mother's figure around, as soon as the mother is found, smile, the mother will laugh when she hugs, and will also look at the mother fixedly.
When "injured", I only want my mother's hug and comfort
As an adult, if you are unhappy or wronged, you will want to ask for comfort, for the baby, the mother is his whole world, but also the main source of the baby's sense of security, so the baby is more like the mother to sleep, no matter how much fun, as long as the eyes are sleepy, think of sleeping in the arms of the mother.
In addition, when the baby is uncomfortable or unhappy, the demand for finding a mother is higher, so when the mother holds the baby, the baby can quickly stop crying. When encountering something to be afraid of, as long as you feel safe around your mother, you can also quickly relieve your emotions.
Many babies can play with different people during the day, but as long as it is night, the baby is only willing to stay with the mother, no matter who can not leave.
Many mothers have a deep understanding of this point, the lazy mother's boss was also vivid at that time, during the day I went to work, he could play with his grandparents, how to do, but as long as it was around 7 pm, I must cry to find my mother, so that I did not dare to delay every day after work, and arrived home on time.
Of course, as a mother, I also enjoy this "needed" emotion, and once one day, the baby no longer needs herself, and the mother will feel very lost.
However, if the baby relies too much on the mother, the mother will also be very hard, just like many mothers, take the baby to the toilet, open the door to take a bath, etc., and do not have a little personal space, which is not a good thing for the baby's growth. Not to mention,
According to a Yale University study, children brought by fathers have higher IQs and are more confident.
Therefore, usually let the father and other family members help to take the baby, the mother does not have to work so hard, but also can make the baby's body and mind healthier.
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