Women do 3 things well, men will love her to the bone, it is worth trying

Text/Coriander

I've always believed that love is conditional.

Two men and women come together, it is impossible to not consider any conditions, and they are very much in love.

The so-called love does not need a reason, in fact, it is not true. If you fall in love with a person, he or she must have something for you to love, otherwise, how can you not casually love the people who ask for food on the street, or the sweaty workers on the construction site.

It is not that it is not possible to look down on such a person, if the same person who wants food, or the same person who works on the construction site, or falls in love, after all, it is also considered to be "the right door". But I'm talking about people at other levels besides these two types of people.

So, love must be conditional. Even if you don't care about his or her identity and profession, you definitely like certain traits in him or her. Just like a rich man who falls in love with a poor girl, then this girl should be kind and optimistic and open-minded if she is either too good.

Only in this way can love be established.

So, how can a woman make a man love it to the bone? In fact, if a woman can do three things well, it is unlikely that the man will leave her.

★ Don't rely on men

There is a saying that "men need to be adored and women need to be pampered".

Men are born with heroism and self-machismo, and many times, in front of women, men hope that they can protect women and become their dependence.

However, if a woman relies too much on and depends on men, it will make him feel uncomfortable. Over time, he will think that this woman cannot live without himself, because without himself, she cannot live.

With this realization, men will not pay too much attention or care about women.

Not living on men is one of the most basic factors for women to do their best. If a woman is willing to rely on men like a silk flower, she must also be prepared to be looked down upon or abandoned by men.

Don't live on men, use your own ability to support yourself. Even if your man is rich and willing to give you money to spend, you still have to have your own job or career, and you can be ready to live without a man at any time.

Only in this way will the man not look down on you, he will care more about your existence because of your independence, and even fear that you feel that he is dispensable because of your independence.

So, a woman's independence is really important.

★ Constantly improve your own connotations

In love, or marriage, women must constantly improve their connotations and pursue their own progress, rather than stagnant because of men or because of family.

Connotation is also one of the women's confidence. A woman with connotations, she must have rich knowledge and rich cultivation. She will continue to absorb new nutrients through continuous learning to enrich her life.

Age is what women care about the most, and a woman's youth does not have years. But the youth of those years was the most loved by men. After youth, a man's love may be indifferent.

A woman's beauty should not only stay on the outside, only stay in youth. A woman's charm should become more and more attractive as she ages.

Men love young women, just love her beautiful appearance, but if a man falls in love with an older woman, he will love her interesting soul. The love of these two is a completely different realm.

Therefore, if a woman wants to make a man love for a long time, improve her connotation, cultivate her own conduct, and enrich her cultivation, it is indispensable.

★ I pay great attention to how I dress

If a woman is beautiful and beautiful, but she does not pay attention to her appearance, dresses sloppily all day, and for a long time, men will not like it.

Whether it is a young woman or a woman whose youth is fading, it is very necessary to pay attention to her own dress.

Some people will say that all day at home with children, so busy that there is no time to sleep, where is the time to dress up? Besides, who is the dress for?

If there is such an idea, it is a big mistake.

Your dress is not for anyone to show, but for yourself. On this point, both before and after marriage, I have always insisted on this view.

Your dressing, not for whom to dress up, you have to please, always only yourself! You have to figure this out.

But many women will only dress up for men, and all her beauty is just for the sake of showing others, showing her men.

If you do this to please others, one day, you will lose yourself.

You don't have to dress up for the liking of others, because you have to know that no matter how well you dress, there will still be people who don't think that you are beautiful and beautiful.

But if you're dressing yourself up and you're just trying to please yourself, the meaning is different.

Pleasing yourself is because you have the confidence. Woman with confidence, what else is there to be afraid of?

Therefore, the more women who can pay attention to dressing up for themselves, the more often they will make men more sideways.

Dear female friends, do you think there is any truth to this statement? Are you willing to do this and let a man love you to the bone? Welcome to leave a message to discuss.