Opening Remarks:
Director Xu Zheng once told a story of his experience:
He used to be very distressed by his hair, and finally one day, he made up his mind to go to the master to shave a bald head, the master was very confused, why a young man should have a bald head, and then after he took off his hat, the master looked at it, did not say a word, immediately sharpened the knife, the knife fell in his hand, and he saw his shiny bald head.
The "hair" that had been bothering him, the "hair" that had been bothering him at night and unable to sleep, was solved in an instant.
Yes, if you have beautiful hair, of course you will feel very proud, but if your hair is making you uneasy, it is better to give it up, and the most important thing is: you are still you, or the confident you.
In this life, how many people care about the "trouble" in their hands, but forget that the long journey of life requires us to know how to choose and give up appropriately, so that we can take our own road and grasp our future.
Remember a few years ago there was a popular saying: Choice, is important.
Many times in life, we will be wonderful because we have made the right choice, but at the same time, the choice means that you have to "give up" first.
Life is like chess, there will always be a time to "abandon the car to protect the marshal", there will always be a detour, to the south wall need to turn back, so you can only avoid tripping your thorns and stakes, in order to find the fragrant flowers blooming all over the roadside path, in order to find your own "good luck".
So it can be seen that living a life, wanting to live more and more good luck, the word "give up" is the beginning.
Because, in this world, after all, fish and bear paws cannot be combined.
Giving up laziness can make yourself "change"
Peng Yuyan once said in an interview that running will reassure him, and the left foot is so simple than the right foot. If he does ten minutes of exercise every day, he will be very confident and satisfied.
He once said a sentence that is very striking: if you can't control yourself, then you can't control what the outside world can't resist.
Yeah, people, always the more self-disciplined, the more confident.
When you give up laziness, you will change more and more, and you will become more and more hopeful about the future of life.
After all, most people are born into ordinary people, everyone is working hard for life, and time is like Mr. Lu Xun said, "like water in a sponge, squeezing a squeeze, there will always be", so change, not an unrealistic idea, but from the fact that you can let yourself give up laziness.
Those who live better and better may be the same as you at the beginning, going out early and returning late every day, running and working hard, but you will feel that they have expectations for the future, there is light in their eyes, and there are few complaints in their mouths.
He will not attribute his life to the unfairness of fate, and he will not blame others for his mistakes, but he will understand himself, understand his own strengths and weaknesses, and he will profoundly know "who he is" and what he can "do".
In this life, what you want to live like, rich is a choice, poverty is also a choice, self-discipline is a choice, laziness is also a choice, and most importantly, you can not regret your choice.
But, believe, no one likes to be poor, allowing themselves to be a lot less enjoyable in life.
Therefore, giving up laziness and not waiting for the pie to fall from the sky is the beginning of changing your poverty and the beginning of your good luck.
Give up "impetuousness" in order to let yourself have "precipitation"
Actor Haiqing once went to a remote village to shoot a scene, because the environment was too bitter, the agent stayed for a day, because she could not stand the toilet, left.
She was the only one who stayed there silently, and even once when she went to the toilet, the mobile phone fell to the ground and stuck in the dirt, and she did not dislike it, took it out, washed it, and continued to use it.
She stayed there for two months, used to pasta, used to the toilet where goats would inadvertently appear behind her, used to limping when walking, and used to chatting with her fellow villagers about home.
She once said: I like to suffer because you go to the competition with time, you don't know what kind of answer there will be.
Originally, her appearance and the role she usually plays are very flamboyant, but you will feel the other side of her grounding in her real life and from the words she has said: very stable, very down-to-earth, very precipitated.
Man, once you have an impetuous temperament on your body, you will forget what you want to insist on, you will not be accustomed to seeing anything, you will not be pleasing to anyone, and even in your words, you will reveal disdain.
Those who "give their lives to time", he will move forward steadily step by step, he will not be shaken by a word from others, nor will he have doubts about himself because of a look from others.
Therefore, giving up impetuousness can make yourself truly precipitate.
People need to precipitate in order to empty what they don't need, to accumulate living experience, to have a better cultural background, to have more mature ideas, to be not afraid of the cold and warm time, and not to be afraid of the bumps of the years.
There is no shortcut in life, only a little bit of saving, a minute and a second of boiling, impetuous people, it is difficult to achieve things. If you want to control your life and usher in the sublimation of life, you need to seriously give up impetuousness and "precipitate".
Giving up the "past" can make yourself "have a future"
Remember that Guo Degang once said a passage to his son Guo Qilin:
"It is extremely difficult for people to live a lifetime, it is difficult to ascend to the heavens, it is even more difficult to seek people; huang lian is bitter, and it is even more bitter to have no money; the rivers and lakes are dangerous, and people's hearts are more dangerous; spring ice is thinner, and human feelings are thinner."
Therefore, we live, don't put too much floating world at ease, walk through, pass by, is the past, after all, there are not so many things, worth your mind, there are not so many people, worth your memories, eyes look forward, but do good things, do not ask about the future.
In this lifetime, the sun is new every day.
Don't put the frustration of the past, bad encounters, in the heart, and don't be proud of your achievements and glory.
People, want to live as much as possible, pay attention to their own present, walk well under their feet, is really smart.
Li Bai once had a poetry cloud: Life must be full of joy, do not make the golden bottle empty to the moon.
That is to say, don't be ecstatic, frustrated don't be lonely, it's all a natural, you're not a porcelain doll, don't fall on the rotten, enjoy the current time, is worthy of yourself.
A life without failure is a failure. Only by constantly improving yourself can you give up your mistakes, and only then can you know what is right and what is suitable for you.
Good luck never comes out of thin air, but cultivates it yourself, and you must believe that good luck is always in your own hands.
Conclusion:
When everyone is a child, it seems that they will have some dependence, such as encountering trouble and being bullied, and they will immediately go to their parents and teachers to complain and seek protection.
And the older you get, the more you will find that it is more and more difficult for you to find the person who shares the pain and pressure with you, and, except for your parents and relatives, your so-called suffering is actually nothing in the eyes of others.
Therefore, the so-called living the better is actually your inner satisfaction, your spiritual abundance, you live not humble, fearless and fearless.
However, all of this comes from your own efforts, you can be sad and happy, you can digest all the grievances and helplessness alone.
Good luck is not born, nor can money bring, nor is it that if you fall in love with someone, you will turn the fate around.
It is to truly live out your peace of mind, your independence, your ease.
So, let yourself be self-disciplined, don't be lazy, work hard, accumulate knowledge, accumulate wealth, and accumulate contacts;
Make yourself strong, don't be confused, don't be at a loss, some things, as long as you insist, time will give you a beautiful answer;
Let yourself be brave, don't live in the past, don't worry about the future, live in the present, and take every step of the way.
The road of life is long, good luck, not to say that you can come, but "do not accumulate steps, no way to a thousand miles", is "the road is long, the road is long, I will go up and down and seek", is "the sword blade from the grinding, plum blossom fragrance from the bitter cold"... In this way, you can "long winds and waves will sometimes hang directly on the clouds and sails to the sea."
So, choose your choice well and give up your abandonment.
Remember: in this life, the more you live, the better the good fortune, when starting from giving up laziness, giving up impetuousness, giving up the past, for the beginning.
Author, Frank Fox
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May you find in my words the ordinary years, a strong affection! Thanks for your attention!