On September 7, 2016, the post-90s actress Xu Ting died in the hospital after suffering from lymphoma and festering all over her body, at the age of 26.
If you want to ask what will make people talk about tiger discoloration, cancer is counted as one. Xu Ting suffers from T lymphoblastic malignant lymphoma, which is understood to be one of the malignant tumors that can be cured in contemporary times.
Why Xu Ting chose conservative treatment of Traditional Chinese medicine instead of chemotherapy, all this must start from her original family.
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Xu Ting was born on October 3, 1990, to a rural family in Wuhu City, Anhui Province. At that time, the idea of son preference in rural families was still very heavy, and Xu Ting's parents were no exception. After giving birth to 6 daughters in succession, she finally gave birth to a son in the seventh, due to family pressure, she had to send her two daughters to someone else's house for foster care, fortunately, Xu Ting was not sent out, but it also became one of the reasons for her later misfortune.
Because of her parents' idea of preferring sons to daughters, Xu Ting has not been loved by her parents since she was a child, but the strong Xu Ting still grew up healthy and happy.
In 2010, Xu Ting was admitted to the Acting Department of Sichuan University of Media with her own efforts and sweet appearance.
Because of her family's poverty and lack of popularity with her parents, Xu Ting's tuition fees were earned entirely by working part-time in her spare time.
Xu Ting was lucky, and in less than a year, she was photographed by a director from Beijing to go to Beijing to shoot a drama and became a member of the North Drift. Because all the time I have been playing supporting roles, the income is not high, and in a high-consumption city like Beijing, the salary is far from enough to spend. In the year she first arrived in Beijing, Xu Ting lived on a sofa at a friend's house. For a long time, Xu Ting could only live in a dark and damp basement for 300 yuan a month.
Although she has been doing group performances, Xu Ting takes each of her roles very seriously. Because I have to pay off the family's debts for my parents. Young Xu Ting, it is simply impossible to be like a girl of the same age, or to live a carefree life.
In order to have more opportunities, she worked hard to shoot, and even soaked in the water in order to shoot the big winter, so that she suffered from lumbar disc herniation. Despite this, Xu Ting still subsidized most of the 50,000 yuan she earned from filming to her family.
Kung Fu pays off, Xu Ting's acting path is gradually on the right track, and has successively taken over the role of the heroine, the treatment has also risen, and the cost of subsidies to the family has also increased accordingly. Since 5 years of North Drift, Xu Ting has contracted all the expenses of her brother's study, and even when her brother gets married, her parents ask her to take money out to marry her brother, and she has no complaints, and even feels a little sense of accomplishment.
Also in the 5th year of North Drift, Xu Ting took out her 6-figure deposit to buy a house for her parents. The family could not wait to live in, the result was that because the decoration was not long, the formaldehyde was not completely distributed, the family was poisoned, especially Xu Ting, the poisoning symptoms were the most obvious, that is, because of this poisoning, Xu Ting was found to have lymphoma.
After the diagnosis, Xu Ting did not feel sad, but felt that she was relieved. In the past five years, I have worked hard to make money to pay tuition for my brother, pay off debts for my parents to buy a house, stay up late to shoot countless times, and give money for more than a dozen plays to my family, which is really too tired.
Sister Xu Jiaqi said that her sister originally had a poor physique, plus she had to stay up late often when filming, and formaldehyde poisoning was only the fuse.
Even if Xu Ting poured out her heart and lungs to be good to her family, no matter how bitter and tired she was, she never complained. But they never cared about her.
Even after knowing that Xu Ting had lymphoma, her parents insisted that she receive traditional Chinese medicine treatment and did not let her receive Western medical chemotherapy. In fact, the real idea in their hearts is that chemotherapy is too expensive, it costs several times more than the cost of TCM treatment, and it may not be cured.
Xu Ting, who chose conservative treatment of traditional Chinese medicine, experienced more than chemotherapy, all the pain, in order to save money, she was looking for a folk Chinese medicine, cupping, acupuncture, eating vegetarian food, so that Xu Ting's already weak body is even worse. Especially eating vegetarian food made her malnourished.
And when Xu Ting was experiencing painful treatment, the Xu family should eat and drink like no one else. Even when Xu Ting cried in pain during cupping treatment, Xu Ting's sister still laughed at her and took a video and sent it to the circle of friends.
Although Xu Ting said it in a humorous and relaxed tone afterwards, how many people know about the hardships involved?
Because of the delay in the best treatment time, Xu Ting's condition became more and more serious, causing a serious infection of the lungs, and the skin began to ulcerate in a large area, and eventually died in the hospital due to ineffective treatment.
The family cried at her funeral, ironically not like losing the daughter, but losing a cash cow, because soon they were coveting Xu Ting's inheritance.
Throughout Xu Ting's life, she has been thinking about this family, and has dedicated her beautiful youth to this family on the road of making money. And her home did not bring her so-called warmth and love.
Maybe Xu Ting, who is in another world, can finally be her true self again. If she had thought about herself before she was alive, maybe her life would not be like this.
People, sometimes they have to be selfish, think more about themselves, and love themselves before they can love others.