On September 7, 2016, actress Xu Ting left this world forever with a festering, blackened skin and pain.
Notice of Xu Ting's death
Her mother cried at the funeral, not knowing whether to cry for her deceased daughter or for the loss of a cash cow, after all, her daughter had just left, and she ran to the court to apply for an inventory of Xu Ting's inheritance.
Her sisters have also opened various social software, using her legacy of fame to eat her dividends.
Patriarchal preference, survival in the cracks
Xu Ting's original name was Xu Jiani, before she was born, her mother had already given birth to two daughters, for the so-called succession, her mother gave birth to her and then conceived four, five, and six children in succession, but they were all girls like Xu Ting.
After seeing her six daughters, her undead mother resolutely chose to continue to fight for seven children, and this time she really gave birth to a boy.
Xu Ting's family
Seven children made the already poor family even worse, and in order to reduce the burden, Xu Ting's parents even gave two of them to others.
In such a patriarchal family, Xu Ting and the other sisters all live a life that is diametrically opposed to that of their younger brother, they do not have the care and care of their parents, and they have to help the family share the housework, while the younger brother does not stick to the Yang Chunshui with ten fingers, a little young master's style.
Fortunately, Xu Ting was well-behaved and obedient from an early age, and she looked cute, so although her parents were unwilling, they still provided her with high school, but that was all.
At that time, although Xu Ting did not study acting, she was still admitted to the acting major of Sichuan Media College with the first good results in anhui province.
Xu Ting
If she had been born in another family, perhaps her parents would have been excited to see such good results, but Xu Ting was different, when her parents said coldly and firmly: "We have no money, if you want to study, you can earn your own money." ”
Although Xu Ting had expected such an ending, she still felt lost in her heart when she looked at her parents with a look of disgust. But loss returns to loss, and life goes on.
After being rejected by her parents, Xu Ting began her life of half-work and half-study. In order to continue her studies, she often travels to different places after class to do odd jobs, just to earn living expenses and tuition fees.
Although the time of college was hard, it was also full of joy, because Xu Ting's love and talent for acting, classmates and teachers were very good to her, and the free atmosphere in the school also made her gradually come out of the shadow of her original family.
In those photos taken in college, Xu Ting always looked optimistic and cheerful, looking sunny and energetic, perhaps it was one of the few happy times in her life.
Xu Ting thought that her college life would be spent in this hard and hopeful state, when she came unexpectedly.
Dropped out of school to pay off his father's debts
If Xu Ting had been a little more ruthless when she received the call from her mother, perhaps she would not have died so early.
In her sophomore year, Xu Ting suddenly received a call from her mother, it turned out that her father had lost a lot of money in business, and now the family was full of debt collectors, and she didn't know what to do.
Listening to her mother's cries, Xu Ting still softened her heart, but she did not expect that her soft heart would have to be repaid with dropping out of school and her entire youth.
Because her father was in too much debt, Xu Ting's studies, which should have been able to be completed, had to be declared over halfway.
In fact, at that time, xu Ting only needed to be selfish, she could completely rely on her own strength to finish reading, but blood is thicker than water, she could not bear to watch her family fragmented like this, so in front of her dreams and family, she chose her family.
In her early twenties, Xu Ting left the university gate with her luggage, and despite countless dissuasion from her teachers and classmates, she left the school and stepped into society.
At that time, she heard others say that Beijing is a place with many opportunities and can make money, and as soon as she heard about making money, Xu Ting immediately came to Beijing from Sichuan and started her own "North Drift" journey.
At first, because she had no money, Xu Ting could only rent in the cold and damp basement and eat the cheapest meals. Fortunately, her grades in school are good, and her image and temperament are good, so she is lucky to be favored by the crew and become a professional mass actor.
Although she is the most inconspicuous role in the crew, Xu Ting is still very happy to be able to contact her beloved profession and make money while making money.
Perhaps because of this optimistic and dedicated spirit, she soon stood out among the extras and was able to play some small roles with lines. Many directors and staff members have a good impression of her, and her opportunities are becoming more and more numerous.
2010 was a lucky year for Xu Ting, when director Lu Chuan was preparing to shoot a costume drama "The King's Feast".
In order to select the right role, he decided to release a press release throughout the country, and many people signed up just after the release, including Di Li Reba, Gulinaza, Xin Zhilei and so on.
Directed by Lu Chuan
Seeing the opportunity coming, Xu Ting also did not hesitate to sign up and achieved a good result in the top 20 in the Chengdu Division in the sea selection. What surprised her even more was that the success of this time seemed to open up the second vein of Ren Dou for her acting career.
In the selection of "The Secret History of Xi Shi" at the end of the year, Xu Ting entered the national finals, and although she failed to get the final script in both competitions, it also greatly improved her acting experience and fame.
Unfortunately, the lights on the stage could not illuminate the corners of life after all, Xu Ting's years of work and frugal living habits caused great damage to her body, so she suffered from many diseases at a young age.
Whenever the pain occurred, she gritted her teeth and endured it, just to save money to see a doctor to supplement the family.
Xu Ting, who has never felt the warmth of the family, will only get a greeting after sending money to her parents, but it is because of this greeting that Xu Ting still feels that the day of sending money for her family is the happiest time for herself.
Xu Ting Weibo
He died young in a small name
Why is it that for Xu Ting, leaving this world may be a relief?
In 2012, Xu Ting finally ushered in the spring of her career, in the TV series "Daddy Comes Home" starring Yang Zi, she had her own close-up for the first time, in which she played the role of Yang Zi's girlfriend, which was also welcomed by many people.
Yang Zi and Xu Ting
Since then, Xu Ting has partnered with Liu Yan and Zhang Yishan in the movie "The Little God Is Coming", and her salary has become higher and higher, but most of the money has been remitted to her home.
Xu Ting's contention was watched by her family, watching her make more and more money, and her family's attitude towards her was much better.
Zhang Yishan and Xu Ting
The price of such a good for Xu Ting is that she not only helped her father pay off a huge debt, but also helped several sisters pay the rent, and even the tuition of her brother fell on her.
Those film remuneration would have been enough to wash away Xu Ting's hard work over the years and let her live a less tiring life, but she did not expect that because of the drag of the family, she was not only not relieved, but more tired.
She has become accustomed to relying on Xu Ting's parents and relatives, and feels that she is very easy to make money, so they have more than before and have higher requirements for quality of life. But they didn't know that every penny they spent was earned by Xu Ting with her life.
Filming is often day and night, regardless of season, Xu Ting's fame is not big enough to refuse some dangerous actions, so in order to live in this circle, she can only endure the pain and obey all arrangements.
Xu Ting Weibo
In this way, the high workload and old injuries made her health worse and worse, but she still did not dare to give up, and she was still trying to change a bigger house for her family.
The greedy Xu family moved in for this house before the decoration was completely completed, because formaldehyde was not scattered, and after living for a period of time, they were all poisoned by formaldehyde to varying degrees.
Xu Ting and her father
And Xu Ting because of poor physical foundation, poisoning is more serious, in order not to delay the work, she had to go to the hospital for treatment, but did not expect this investigation, so that she received a sunny thunderbolt message - she suffered from lymphoma.
Xu Ting, who learned the news, said words of encouragement on the social platform, but she was still a little disappointed in her heart, after all, she was only in her twenties, and there were so many beautiful things waiting for her.
But at the same time, she felt relaxed, because because of her illness, she finally had time to relax and not have to work hard.
But the Xu family did not think so, they did not want to lose this well-behaved "cash cow", and did not want to spend too much money on her treatment, so they persuaded her to give up going to the hospital for chemotherapy and turn to a weaker and cheaper Chinese medicine.
Xu Ting Weibo
Every time the treatment and examination results, Xu Ting went alone, and her family rarely accompanied her, and even if she accompanied her, she had to be hyped up on social media.
In this way, under the care of her family who did not forget to suck blood when she was sick, Xu Ting's illness became more and more serious, and her lungs and skin began to produce bacterial infections.
Xu Ting Weibo
The deterioration of her condition caused Xu Ting's weight to drop rapidly, and at one point it was only more than seventy pounds, and the whole person became dry and thin and haggard. At the same time, her body began to fester, and her lungs became vulnerable to infection.
Seeing that she was so serious, the Xu family sent her to a regular hospital and began chemotherapy, but it was already too late, and Xu Ting's illness was already serious enough for doctors to sigh.
Sure enough, it didn't last long, and on the afternoon of September 7, 2016, Xu Ting, whose whole body was festering, passed away forever.
Before leaving, Xu Ting posted a confession book on social networking sites, which detailed what she had experienced over the years and what her family had done.
Xu Ting Weibo
It turned out that she was not stupid, she had always understood that her family's feelings for her were only based on money, but she still did not puncture these lies. Because her family is the most precious existence for herself, she always deceives herself with the mentality that she will get better.
Death may be a relief for Xu Ting, if there is an afterlife, I hope she can be born in a happy family and live for herself all her life!
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