After studying Mr. Lu Xun's essay "A Chang and the Classic of Mountains and Seas" with the students, the teachers and students had a question: Ah Chang and his mother, who does Lu Xun love more? This is a difficult question to answer. When we look at Lu Xun's works, in addition to the family letter, it seems that we can't find an article dedicated to my mother, but there is an article dedicated to remembering Ah Chang. Teachers and students have a consensus, that is, to dare to judge, to some extent, Lu Xun loves Ah Chang more.
Why does Lu Xun love Ah Chang? Ah Chang accompanied Lu Xun through a full and happy childhood and poured all his love into him. Lu Xun is the young master of the feudal family, his behavior is greatly constrained, there is no opportunity to go out and know the world, he is full of curiosity about the world, eager to get new knowledge. In addition to reading, The Leap Earth brought him a short happy good time, and more time was spent growing up in the company of Ah Chang.
Although Ah Chang was of humble status and had an unfortunate life, he was happy and peaceful; although he had no culture, vulgarity, good deeds, and superstitions, he was simple and kind in nature, generous and loving. In order to enrich Lu Xun's "knowledge", she is superstitious and ignorant and does her best, and she does not hesitate to make up bulls and not to make up bulls, she is to open up a novel world to Xiao Lu Xun and do her best to meet Xiao Lu Xun's wishes. Out of love, she gave him a lot of restraints and rules, for which Lu Xun was dismissive and rude to her, and even resented. However, between the lines, we have never seen that Lu Xun, who has a sharp penmanship, has any excessive words about Ah Chang, no irony, only ridicule, at most it is a childish play without remembering revenge, and the "unreasonable demands" of Ah Chang are often "obedient and obedient".
Whether it is writing about her "hate" or writing about her "respect", it is portrayed in detail, which shows the weight of Ah Chang in Lu Xun's mind. Who can portray people who have nothing to do with themselves? Who would be able to cherish an unrelated person more than thirty years from now? All of Lu Xun's depictions of Ah Chang are full of respect, gratitude, nostalgia, and guilt. Lu Xun is an atheist who opposes superstition, and at the end of the article he prays" Generous and dark Mother Earth, may her soul be forever in your arms!" What an anomalous stroke this is, it is really amazing, and the love for Ah Chang is self-evident.
I did a little survey in the class, are there any classmates whose parents are away and live with grandparents or grandparents? Some of the students were nodding. I then asked: Are you hot with your (maternal) grandfather and mother, or are you intimate with your parents? Some students replied: And (outside) grandfather and mother hot, feel like parents like strangers, they say they love me, pay a lot for me, but I can't feel their love, and inexplicably resentful. Parents should not complain that their children are not close to you, and the feelings of people are all getting along.
The TV series "In the World" Feng Huacheng and Zhou Rong's daughter Feng Yue, who lived with her uncle and aunt since childhood, grew up like a stranger with her parents, calling her father "a man" and preferring to live with the strange old lady Jin Yueji rather than return to her parents. Without companionship, her parents loved her, she could not feel the slightest bit, she not only did not understand the love and difficulties of her parents, but also hurt each other all the time. She and her uncle and aunt had a true affection, and all the sorrows and joys were willing to communicate with them.
Finally, I told my students that in ten or eight years, many of my classmates here will also be parents. You must remember that if you want your children to have feelings for yourself, if you want them to open up to yourself, you must accompany them to grow up, otherwise everything is a luxury. Teacher Ping said that the warmth of parents is in the hearts of children, and this temperature will accompany them throughout their lives. A poet said, "Even on a three-volt summer day, when I think of my father, I think of a piece of ice." "Children who have not been warmed since childhood cannot warm themselves when they grow up. Good parents should let their children think of you at any time, just like the sun.