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I am a divorced woman, named Willow Leaf, half a life, looking for, or did not find a person who can talk to each other, met my high school classmate Xiaoqi, he was a good friend when I was young, he cared about asking me if my life was good, for a long time did not hear such a warm sentence, instantly asked tears out of his eyes, poured out my failed marriage to him...
It was an unforgettable and most painful day of my life, my original husband Hu Si and I went through the divorce procedures, after the two of us walked out of the Civil Affairs Bureau, one of us held a divorce certificate in his hand, we looked at each other, I saw what Hu Thought said, his mouth moved, he smiled a little, and he didn't say anything in his heart.
I looked at him, it was a woman who has a kind heart, wanted to be married after all, and said to him, I'm sorry, I hope you live well in the future. Hu Si did not answer, directly turned around and left, did not expect that his heart was so disregarding the feelings of the husband and wife for many years, and he did not say anything and went away. As I watched him walk away from the back, I couldn't help the pain in my heart and burst into tears.
Hu Si and I are married to a young plum bamboo horse, and now I understand that it is easy to fall in love, it is really difficult to stay together until old, and contradictions will inevitably occur in life, depending on how you face and how you deal with contradictions. Our story begins in high school.
When I was in high school, he had a good feeling for me, because I studied well, the teacher often praised, we often studied together, helped each other to learn, so HuSi could catch up with each other diligently in learning, and over time, there was mutual admiration.
Hu Si was handsome, thin and tall, with a small flat head, big eyes, and eyes as pure as the blue sky after the rain, fresh and likable. When he made me laugh when he chatted, his heart was like a fawn, and he was overjoyed. Isn't this feeling of mine love? So the secret of loving him in my heart quietly took root in the heart of this young girl, and I liked him more and more.
As soon as the time came to the college entrance examination, the students were all nervous, this was a critical moment in life, everyone attached great importance to it, I often studied until late at night, thinking of Hu Si and me.
On the eve of the college entrance examination, the sunset was beautiful that day, the sunset was red, and Hu Si confessed his love for me. I listened to his confession and accepted him shyly. Since then, we have officially begun the happiest and happiest love in our lives.
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The power of love makes us very happy, but also very happy, fantasizing about ideals and happy visions of a future.
The years are like shuttles, the college entrance examination is coming, encourage each other, and have the confidence to meet the college entrance examination.
This time the college entrance examination, we are all very satisfied, in order to be able to meet often, agree together, apply for the same university, apply for the major that everyone likes.
In the four years of college, husi and I have a very stable relationship, often arm in arm in all corners of the school, during the university life is very happy, feel very happy, alumni are very envious, said that we are really talented women, a natural pair, hearing the praise of classmates and friends, I have never had a sweetness in my heart.
After we graduated, I asked Hu Si what he thought? Unexpectedly, he asked him what you thought, which made me laugh, and then I said, "I decided to go back to my hometown and develop in a small city, because I am an only child, and I must honor and take care of my parents."
Back in our hometown of the small city, Hu Si and I both found jobs. Hu Si studied science, applied to ZTE Co., Ltd. as a financial worker, I was a liberal arts subject, did a junior high school teacher, after having a stable job. He was going to take me to his house to meet his parents.
That day I went to HuSi's house, his parents saw me, very happy, also very warm, made a lot of dishes to entertain me, I feel very happy, his mother praised me beautiful, talented, is a generous and decent girl, to be a son and daughter-in-law is his honor, his father kept nodding his head in agreement. Hu Si and I laughed too.
Soon, I led Hu Si to my house, he was handsome, and his parents were very satisfied, saying that I had found a good son-in-law.
When talking about marriage, the real problem was in front of me, Hu Si's family was poor, his parents were from workers, the factory was closed, he relied on the laid-off allowance of Weibo to survive, his mother was not in good health, often went to the hospital to see a doctor, for his son to go to college, he had basically used up the money he had accumulated for many years, and he did not have much savings.
That night, Hu Si came to my house, said hello to my parents and then came to my room, and discussed marriage with me with a sad face, and now that I have just joined the work, I really can't afford to buy a marriage house, can I rent a wedding house in the city, but I have wronged you, and I will try to let you live in a new house. I said, "Agree, let's work together!" The hands of the two young men clasped together.
Just then, my dad went to the kitchen passing by my room and overheard our conversation. To tell the truth, my parents worked hard to raise me, and they were not embarrassed to let my parents pay for a house.
Later, I really did not expect that after my father listened to our conversation, he learned about the family situation of his son-in-law and actually bought me a two-bedroom and one-living room for me in full.
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When I told Hu Si the good news that dad had bought a house, he couldn't believe that his ears were wrong, and let me say it again, he said with tears of excitement: "Thank you Dad."
When I saw the house that day, I was so happy that I didn't think my father would do this, and I was so happy that I burst into tears. Hu Si was even more excited, and said: "Ye, in the future, I will definitely be good, I will not let you be hurt, and I will be filial and kind to our parents, so that they will live happily." I smiled and teased him, you have to fulfill the promise you said today "three musts", after saying that we both laughed so happily and embraced happily together.
Half a year later, we walked into the hall of the happiest and happiest marriage in life with a beautiful vision.
The happy life after marriage makes me happy, living in a large and bright new house, the mood is extremely happy and happy, and I think that this is the marriage house that my parents have spent many years of hard work to buy for me, and I must honor my parents.
I really did not expect such a life not long after, the father-in-law helped the mother-in-law into my door, I warmly received the mother-in-law, because the mother-in-law accidentally sprained waist, need to be treated in the hospital.
Father-in-law can not cook, every day I come back from work to cook, father-in-law comes back to take food to the mother-in-law in the hospital, waiting for the mother-in-law, sometimes I am busy at work, father-in-law buys food outside, I see that my father-in-law is also very hard.
A week later, my mother-in-law was discharged from the hospital and returned home to recuperate, and I had to go to work again, and I had to cook and serve my mother-in-law when I came home.
The mother-in-law is basically cured, the mother-in-law has lived for more than a month, there is no intention of returning to his home, I am displeased in my heart, a little resentful, and I should have gone back to his old house when I was well. This kind of thinking is also the reason why I am so tired!
My husband Hu Si saw the clouds on my face and knew where my heart disease was. That day he said very gently to his mother: "Mom, the neighbors and friends on the other side of our old house are very familiar, how good it is to chat, and it is good for your body."
When the mother-in-law heard her son say this, she understood what was going on in her heart, so she explained to her father-in-law that she would go back to the old house tomorrow, and the neighbors and friends would all want us.
The next day, it was a Sunday, and my husband Hu Si sent my in-laws back to the old house, and I said to my in-laws, "Pay attention to your body..." At night, I said to my husband, "You're so nice, I'm so tired." Hu Si said very gently, "Daughter-in-law, you can rest assured, I will protect you in this life." I listened to him and my heart was sweet.
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In the years to come, I understood whether the married life was happy or not, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was very important. For example, my mother-in-law seems to be a very kind woman, but in fact, she is very dissatisfied with me, that is, she has a lot of resentment during the period of living in my house.
That day, the husband HuSi traveled for more than ten days, called me to see how his mother's body recovered, I am a kind woman, bought nutritional products to see the mother-in-law, did not expect to overhear a few old ladies downstairs to see me coming, one of the old ladies pointed to my back to chat, said that the Hu family This daughter-in-law is very powerful, the family has money to make Xiao Hu his mother sick like that, the old two people were driven out of her home, do not want the old two to live in her home, really do not know how to honor the elders, will be punished later.
At that time, I listened to this, and my face was feverish in an instant, which must have been the in-laws who came back from my house and told the neighbors that they were not, so the neighbors made such an evaluation of me.
When my husband Husi came back from a business trip, I told him that the old ladies who had watched my mother-in-law hear that day were not talking about me. Unexpectedly, my husband's answer was unexpected, and the old lady said the truth.
I suddenly froze, how is it my fault, this house was bought by my parents, your family did not have a penny, your parents still want to live here for a long time, is it reasonable?
I reasoned with my husband, wept bitterly, and Hu Si hurried to comfort me. More aggrieved things are still in the years to come, making me miserable.
It was a year after marriage, and I found myself pregnant, and the birth of a new life made me very happy, and I didn't want to think about unpleasant things with my husband for the sake of my children, no matter what my in-laws were, as long as my husband was kind to me, he was satisfied.
Husband Hu Si knew the news of my pregnancy, more concerned about taking care of me, washing and cooking all kinds of housework he rushed to do, because we were busy at work, he was afraid that I was tired, and proposed to let my mother-in-law take care of me. When I heard that my mother-in-law was coming, I thought of those old ladies talking about me, and I was instantly creeped out. He said to his husband, "If my mother is not in good health, I will not bother my mother, and I will go back to my mother's house to take care of me."
My husband Hu Si looked at me and said, "Mother, she will serve you, and after giving birth to a child, she will have to be taken care of by the elderly." He saw that I was not happy, and calmly said, my mother is coming, let her wait for a while, if you are not satisfied, let her go back, so it will always work. Seeing that my husband's words had come to this point, I no longer insisted, nodded my head and promised my mother-in-law to take care of me.
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After the mother-in-law came, she took good care of me, Hu Si and I were at home, she behaved very satisfactorily to me, asked me what she wanted to eat, she made it for me, often asked her whether the food she cooked was delicious, paid attention to the body at work, did not get too tired and so on. I wondered in my heart, was it because I had misunderstood my mother-in-law before, and I was still blaming myself in my heart.
I never expected my mother-in-law to be such a harsh and unreasonable person. That time, the husband was on a business trip, and the mother-in-law revealed her true face. I came home from work, went to the kitchen ice pot cold stove, she sat on the sofa and watched TV while saying, the other day you are not comfortable, my son bought you so many nutritional products, now look at you is not good, go cook, I have not eaten it, after saying that she watched her TV.
I was very angry, thinking about the day's work, very tired, wanted to eat a hot meal, and said to the nasty mother-in-law, today I have no appetite, I don't want to eat.
This time the mother-in-law got angry and pointed at me, which woman is pregnant like you.... Before she could finish speaking, I brought up my tears and went back to my mother's house.
I stayed at my mother's house for a week, and my husband came back, and I told my husband what my mother-in-law did after your business trip.
Unexpectedly, Hu Si was angry, he came back and listened to his mother-in-law complain to him, a handful of snot and a handful of tears to his son said how I was not good to her.....
I just entered the house, my husband he is full of anger, may have listened to his mother's provocation, with a harsh voice accusing me of not honoring my parents, my mother has only one, the daughter-in-law can remarry, you think this family is not good, then let's divorce it.
I really didn't expect Hu Si to become like this, and I actually said that I wanted a divorce for my mother-in-law, and I was pregnant with his child. It is really the saying that people often say, "The wife will always be an outsider."
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I almost fainted, did not want to pay attention to him, picked up the bag and mobile phone hurried out of the door, my mother-in-law hurriedly grabbed my arm, sat on the ground and cried, said: "Daughter-in-law, don't do this, it's all my fault, don't go well." Snot and tears all over his face. Hu Si told his mother to leave her alone and let her go.
With inner pain in me, I returned to my mother's house with tears in my eyes, wanting to stay in her house for a few days and give Hu Si a chance to let him come to me and apologize. After all, a husband and wife, and his children, he will not be so cruel.
But I waited for him for a Sunday, didn't see him make a single phone call, and didn't have a message of concern for greetings.
Later, I took the initiative to call HuSi for the sake of the children, we had a good talk, he said there was something to talk about, divorce.
I was worn away in my waiting, and there was no hope for him anymore.
My mom and dad comforted me, tried to convince him, let him change his mind, how you live as a woman in the future, how to raise children. I know my parents are for my own good.
After work that day, on the way home, I missed the phone to my husband, I was thinking wildly, I couldn't avoid it, I almost crashed into the passing car, the soles of my feet did not stand steady, I fell to the ground, the driver of the car was a good person, very kind, he did not escape, hurriedly sent me to the hospital.
In front of the hospital operating room, my mom and dad waited anxiously... Finally, the operating room door opened, "Doctor, how is the patient?" Dad couldn't wait to ask the doctor. The doctor replied: "The child cannot be saved, the patient has lost too much blood, and after the operation, further observation is needed." Mom almost fainted after listening to the doctor's words...
In the hospital bed, my mother looked at my miserable white face and shed tears of pain.
My dad called my husband Hu si and scolded him. My mother comforted me that without the divorce of the child, there would be no worries, and everything would be fine.
Listening to my mother's words, I covered my face with the quilt and cried bitterly, and my mother kept crying at the bedside.
I came home from a week in the hospital and wrote the divorce papers.
Husband HuSi knew that the child was gone, hung his chest and cried, looked at the divorce agreement, knelt in front of my parents and cried bitterly, slapped him, said it was all my fault, regretted that he did not answer my phone, and asked me and my parents to forgive him.
That's how my marriage came to an end. Shortly after the divorce, Huss moved out of my matrimonial room. When I returned to my marriage room, lonely and lonely, I was extremely sad and kept crying.....
Unconsciously after my divorce, a year has passed like this, leaving different traces on everyone, all the way through the disturbances, deep and shallow, no matter good or bad, whether sad or happy, has become yesterday, no need to investigate further. In the face of the future, as long as you have a dream, you are not afraid of a long way. Wait for the return of The Strange Spring and meet a person who loves him better.
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