Jin Yong: Divorce is OK, you have to promise me a condition

When Jin Yong was 45 years old, he ran to a bar to drink after a big fight with his wife, but met Lin Leyi, who was only 16 years old, Jin Yong looked at her, was immediately fascinated, and went home to divorce his wife.

Wife: "Divorce is OK, you have to promise me a condition." ”

Jin Yong, together with Gu Long and Liang Yusheng, is known as the "Three Musketeers of Chinese Martial Arts Novels", and is known as "where there are Chinese, there are Jin Yong's martial artists".

In addition to the great righteousness of the family and the country, Jin Yong's novels also tell many touching and profound love stories, explaining what is "asking what is the love of the world?" Only life and death are promised."

The reason why Jin Yong can write such a touching love story is inseparable from his rich emotional experience.

Jin Yong had three marriages, and his first wife was Du Zhifen.

In 1947, Jin Yong was still working at the Southeast Daily in Hangzhou, and because of his work, he met Du Yeqiu.

It was also because Du Yeqiu knew his sister Du Zhifen.

Du Yefen, who is lively and cheerful and beautiful, instantly attracts Jin Yong, and Jin Yong falls in love with him at first sight.

Du Yefen also admired Jin Yong's talent, and with the help of his younger brother Du Yeqiu, the two were soon together, and it didn't take long for a wedding.

But this marriage came and went quickly.

After marriage, Du Zhifen moved to Hong Kong with Jin Yong because of work.

But after arriving in Hong Kong, Jin Yong was busy with work all day and had no time to accompany Du Yefen.

Du Zhifen left home and followed Jin Yong to Hong Kong, surrounded by unfamiliar environments and crowds, but her husband did not accompany her, she felt lonely, so she had an affair.

After Jin Yong knew, he naturally couldn't stand it and directly divorced Du Zhifen.

Later, Jin Yong wrote in "Smiling Proud of the Rivers and Lakes" that Yue Lingshan's empathy for Lin Pingzhi was influenced by Du Yefen.

After divorcing Du Yefen, Jin Yong fell in love with the female star Xia Meng.

In order to get close to Xia Meng, Jin Yong changed his name and surname, and used the name of "Lin Huan" to accompany Xia Meng.

He also created "Wang Yuyan" based on Xia Meng, but Jin Yong also seemed to have turned himself into "Duan Yu".

In Xia Meng's eyes, Jin Yong is more like a spare tire on call.

The spare tire is a spare tire after all, and Xia Meng finally married the rich businessman Lin Baocheng.

Jin Yong regarded Xia Meng as the dream lover of his life.

After Xia Meng got married, Jin Yong also met his second wife, Zhu Mei.

Zhu Mei is a journalist, young and beautiful, shrewd and capable, like Zhao Min, who gave Jin Yong a lot of help in her career, and the two soon got married.

After marriage, Zhu Mei quit her job as a journalist, sold her jewelry, fully supported Jin Yong to found Ming Pao, and gave birth to two daughters and two sons for Jin Yong.

Later, Jin Yong's career was successful, but his relationship with Zhu Mei had problems.

Jin Yong is a bit macho, Zhu Mei also belongs to the type of strong woman, these two marriages with similar personalities, if you want to maintain it for a long time, often need one party to make a compromise.

But neither Jin Yong nor Zhu Mei is willing to compromise with each other, and the two have been tit-for-tat, so they have not quarreled less.

After a quarrel, Jin Yong ran to the hotel to drink, so he met Lin Leyi, a 16-year-old waiter.

When Jin Yong was drinking, Lin Leyi recognized Jin Yong.

Lin Leyi especially admired Jin Yong, so she went over to help him pour wine and chat with him.

At checkout, Jin Yong wanted to tip Lin Leyi 10 yuan.

Lin Leyi said: "I don't want it, you are a literati, you make a living by writing, making money is also relatively hard, I can't ask for this money." ”

This made Jin Yong very moved, and later the two slowly became friends.

Compared with the domineering and powerful wife in the family, Lin Leyi is gentle and pleasant, and she admires herself very much, and there seems to be light in her eyes, which makes Jin Yong gradually develop affection for him.

Jin Yong then confessed to Lin Leyi, who blushed and did not speak, neither agreeing nor refusing.

Jin Yong was anxious, grabbed Lin Leyi's hand and asked, "Do you think I'm old?"

I'm older, but I'll spend all my time and energy on you in the future. “

Lin Leyi nodded shyly, which was considered to be agreed.

Therefore, Jin Yong filed for divorce from Zhu Mei.

Zhu Mei was surprised, but after she learned that Jin Yong was in love with someone else, she decisively agreed to the divorce.

But Zhu Mei made a request, not for herself, but for her four children.

Zhu Mei asked Lin Leyi to pierce the fallopian tubes and not to have children again.

I don't know if Lin Leyi has pinned fallopian tubes, but she and Jin Yong really haven't had children.

After marriage, Lin Leyi took good care of Jin Yong, and even Jin Yong's three meals a day were specially customized by Lin Leyi, and Lin Leyi was more like a gentle and intimate Xiao Zhao.

Zhu Mei became poor because of investment failures, and spent the second half of her life in loneliness and poverty.

Someone once asked Jin Yong: "How should life be spent?" ”

Jin Yong replied, "Make a big fuss and quietly leave." ”

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