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All human behavior is not without reason, it is actually a projection of the subconscious, that is, a reaction to mental states.
Behavioral psychologist Wahson once said that human character is the sum of actions and behaviors, the result of a combination of a situation or a multitude of habitual nervous system internalization. It is also for this reason that by judging a person's external wear, we can also see their inner condition.
In general, women prefer to chase external aesthetics than men, which is not only caused by the social environment, but also based on the pursuit of beauty in the depths of genes.
Observing whether a woman is willing to dress seriously, a woman's life state is usually revealed through "clothes", regardless of age, and a woman's dress has already exposed her level and nature.
Age may not show a woman's state of life, but clothes can.
First impressions
People in contact with other people often in the first few seconds before seeing each other can form a first impression, not only that, this first impression will also greatly affect the two people's subsequent mode of getting along, once formed it is difficult to change, this phenomenon can also be called the first cause effect (First cause effect).
If you want to amaze each other at the first meeting, good dress is inevitable, as long as the clothes are excellent, the first impression can definitely add a lot of points.
If a woman loves life, she will definitely attach great importance to her own dress, because such a woman will often show her best appearance in front of others through the halo effect, such as enthusiasm and cheerfulness, vitality and generosity.
When the clothes are neat and the colors are bright, the people who see her will also feel in a bright mood, so that the interaction with each other is naturally extremely smooth.
And the reason why some women don't care about the appearance of the outside is actually because they have long been full of negative attitudes towards life, and when a person's life is extremely gray, she naturally can't think of dressing herself.
Clothes can show the level of a person's clothing, but also reflect the person's current psychological state and emotional changes, of course, also contains the state of life.
The costume match can be seen in the attitude of life
Improving clothing is actually not difficult, now there are too many tutorials to improve clothing on the Internet, as long as you follow the learning, it is easy to make progress in wearing, plus the network is very developed, the style is simple and generous Cost-effective clothes are countless, and the transformation of the external image does not require too much cost.
If a woman pays more attention to the price and brand when choosing clothes, it means that her living standard is very high, but the price cannot reflect the mentality, after all, the meaning of clothing is not in value, but in whether it can give herself and others a visual sense of beauty.
The success of the color matching can make the matcher himself pleasing to the eye, and with positive feedback, she will become more and more positive about life and more confident in herself. Outward dressing is like a virtuous circle, the more positive you are, the brighter your attitude towards life will be.
Clothing style can also reflect a person's psychological state
When a woman dresses, her style of dressing will go with the inner feelings.
Black clothes are easy to look strong, white looks gentle, tight wearing will make people sexy and powerful, and loose clothes are more affinity.
Colors and styles can reflect people's dressing preferences, but also can see her inner personality and psychological state, how you like to wear how your personality is, these are the messages conveyed by clothes.
Clothing matching and self-awareness
Dressing style can also judge a person's self-psychological state, if you usually like to wear neutral clothes, or too shy when wearing jewelry, do not want to become the focus of the crowd, then from a psychological point of view, this actually means that the person is caught in psychological inertia and is not willing to make too many changes to things.
Neutral clothes are easy to hide in the sea of people, and this also proves that such people do not want to be too out of the ordinary.
Psychological inertia can reflect a person's excess self-awareness, if you make a change in the details of clothing, for such people, this may mean that they have made unprecedented changes, even like a change in style.
Changing psychological inertia will make people's nerves feel stimulated, and it is easy for everyone to feel that they are being watched by the eyes of others.
In fact, this kind of thinking is not necessary, because from our own point of view, we will not be curious or embarrassed that others have brought an extra necklace or added a hair card, and these details are the only changes that we pay the most attention to.
The style of clothing can also express certain information, such as wearing work clothes at work, which not only facilitates the unified management of the company, but also increases the clothing's hint of self, hard work, seriousness.
The middle-aged woman wears youthful clothes, indicating that she wants to face life with a young attitude, and the prominence that people wear in social occasions is also to show their self-advantage. In short, clothing can express a person's psychology, but also can see her life state, as long as you want, you can become the most confident person.
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Author | Tommy
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参考资料：Bruk, A., Scholl, S. G., & Bless, H. (2018). Beautiful mess effect: Self–other differences in evaluation of showing vulnerability. Journal of personality and social psychology, 115(2), 192-205