Winter tree
Neighbor kid
Text | Liu Jingdong
On March 26, at four o'clock in the afternoon on Saturday, a little girl of six years old next door, Wei Wei, took her brother Hu Hu and her brother from the same yard to skillfully pedal the skateboard, and a gust of wind came to my house to play with my granddaughter Xiao Yun.
Cute and beautiful, she was quiet and shy, and she asked Grandma Yun, "How old is the little cloud?" ”
"I'm one year old in five months."
"That little cloud was born in August."
Hearing this conversation between the old and the young, I did not investigate how they could discuss the age of the little cloud in this way, but took out a paper and pencil for the first time to check whether the words "that little cloud was born in August" were correct. After I repeatedly calculated, I answered correctly. Grandma Xiaoyun exclaimed that the child's head was spinning fast, and she did not forget to despise my clumsiness, and her granddaughter's birth in August also had to be checked!
Subsequently, I gave several additions and subtractions within 100 to the mental arithmetic, all of which were seconds answers, accurate. I was eight years old and in the first grade, and the final exam has a math problem 7+6=? I did it wrong, I remember it all my life, and I often use this computing power to measure the level of my current children, and it seems that it is not worse than me.
The crane and the bar saw the mats, strollers, and toy tableware at home, and they went crazy and immediately spread the toys on the ground. They roll, ride, "cook"... The enthusiasm of the children infected me and I felt that I had entered a "second childhood". It seems that the oriole is a little impulsive temperament type, the bar belongs to the lively type, and the side is biased towards the quiet type. Two five-year-old boys clash as they play. I was silent as a bystander, even if I saw them spilling water on the wooden floor, without squeaking, much less accusation. The sensible man found a rag to dry the floor.
Yan Yuan, an educator in the Qing Dynasty, said: "It is better to count ten children than to have a long prize." "It's the nature of children to be lively, active, and mischievous, and when they make mistakes, I mostly keep silent and don't count them." And such an active act as Wei Wei, I will not let go of the opportunity to praise and encourage. The praised guy showed a shy smile and was really cute.
When the bar teased Xiao Yun to play, he pinched Yun Duo's chubby face and made Xiao Yun cry. The crane seemed furious, and repeatedly accused the bar of not hurting his sister, which was quite narrow-minded. The crane also demonstrated how to coax his sister and made my wife and I laugh. The boy was quite gentlemanly.
When the three children left, Kai Kai and his brother cleaned up all the toys on the floor, and Didi did not forget to wipe the floor again. That's too sensible! The chocoons and cranes seem ordinary, but their love and good habits have left a deep impression on me.
Scientific studies have shown that a caring, self-disciplined child is more likely to achieve higher achievements. Loving, helpful, higher sense of value and dignity, the more motivated to grow; strong self-discipline, more persistent and effective action.
Two years ago, Liang Wei's mother, Liang Wei, was thirty years old and was introduced to our unit as an excellent talent as an English teacher and researcher. Liang Wei's father was three or four years younger than me, and she also called me "DongGe" like other colleagues, which filled in the generation gap between us a lot. When I was doing stress management for the exam, I had a small conclusion that was "combining dynamic and static to regulate pressure." Talk to yourself and cope with stress. Seek help from the outside world to relieve pressure. Take action and solve problems. ”
When I was talking about "Take action, solve the problem," I chose Nike's slogan "Just do it." Every time I read this English, it will cause the audience to laugh and be ridiculed as "Tucheng English". In order to improve my pronunciation, I asked Teacher Liang Wei on WeChat for advice, and she tirelessly taught me, demonstrating and correcting mistakes many times. The effect is very good, it turns out that I can also learn English well, subverting the inherent thinking that I think English is difficult to learn.
Liang Wei saw me holding my grandchildren in the yard, as long as I had time, I always had to help me hold them for a while, that kind of loving maternal nature is very infectious. At the canteen, this master's degree graduate from Beijing University rushed to help us add food and clean up the tableware. Kai Also consciously cleaned up the tableware. The canteen staff, Sister Liu, said with emotion: "If I have such a daughter or daughter-in-law, I will definitely wake up from a dream." ”
Liang Weilai unit in just two and a half years, in 2021 was rated as "excellent teacher", the unit only two people. Many people don't get a rating in their lifetime. Tucheng veterans commented that there is a famous saying in our unit - "those who come are not good." It seems that this "bad person" is a good positive word. Even Tucheng's "critics" who questioned everything, attacked everything, and denied everything also gave Liang Wei a thumbs up. Mr. Liang Wei is a key physics teacher at Lianyuan No.1 Middle School, with nearly 30 lessons per week, and also works as a class teacher. When he broke his leg, he did not stop working, and insisted on working on crutches. The couple always finds time to chat, exercise, study, and work with the cranes. In the cry of "please have a baby for the country", many young people choose to have only one child, or even Dink, and Liang Wei and his wife do not reject three children. What a responsibility!
As an introduction of talents, the people of Tucheng hope that Liang Wei and his wife can dedicate their wisdom and brilliant youth to their hometown. If one day, the couple wants to go to Star City, Peng city, and Sun City, we will also reluctantly send sincere wishes.
Neighbors Liang Wei and their children are not only other people's children but also like our own children!