"You're too small"
"You are such a disorganized person!"
Do these words sound familiar and heartfelt?
There is a saying that goes like this: to see whether a person can achieve his wishes, it depends on whether he can overcome his desires; to see how big a person's ending is, it depends on how big the pattern is.
What is a pattern? How to be a big pattern girl?
Today Xiaobian stayed up late to sort out the secrets of improving the pattern for you:
What is a pattern
What the big picture looks like
Enhance the layout book list
Elevate the landscape documentary
Enhance the pattern list
Enhance pattern thinking
Improve the pattern ability
What is a pattern?
In short: pattern is the scope of cognition of things.
It can also be said to be the degree of a person's trade-off to immediate interests.
The more people can stand on the high side of the problem, the more they can put aside short-term interests, and the pursuit of small profits often do not look up into the distance.
In the vast sea of people, most people have become mediocre, willing to the status quo and self-anesthetizing.
It's not that they don't want to soar to the top, but the vast majority of people can't overcome the desires and setbacks in front of them, and are easily trapped by the inherent limited thinking and surrender in place.
What is the big picture?
- Don't be easily fooled by appearances.
- Can deeply see through the essence of things.
- Have a high-dimensional view of the world.
- Think big and think long.
- Know how to lie dormant in times of adversity.
- The trend of the times is to go with the flow.
- Broad-minded and informal.
- Independent and calm and not swayed by others.
How to train yourself to become a girl in the big picture?
Documentary Recommendations:
"Woman"
Positive Psychology
"Justice Ginsburg"
"Honey, Don't Boast Over that River"
"The First Time in My Life"
Seven Years of Life
The Truth About Beauty
"Raw Gate"
"We Dress For Bill"
Recommended Reading:
"Those Things of the Ming Dynasty"
The Twenty-Four Histories
The Six Tales of Floating Life
The Tea Sutra
A Brief History of Mankind
Origin of Species
The Biography of Zeng Guofan
"Human Fireworks"
Fifteen Years of Wanli
"Living the Meaning of Life"
The Moon and Sixpence
"One sentence top 10,000 sentences"
The Biography of Su Dongpo
"Life is Clear, Everything Is Lovely"
"Slow Cooking Life"
The Outsider
To Kill a Mockingbird
The Weakness of Human Nature
The Little Prince
Influence
Poor Charlie's Book
Walden
The Courage to Be Hated
Capital
Movie Recommendations:
"Angel Amelie"
Renoir
Atonement
The Princess Diaries
The Princess of Monaco
Black Swan
"Philharmonic City"
Summer in Provence
"A Beautiful Mind"
Flowers of the Desert
Truman's World
The Wolf of Wall Street
"Spring in the Cattle Herding Class"
"Before I Met You"
Mindcatcher
"Untouchable"
The Boy in the Striped Pajamas
Ways of Thinking:
Have a global view (height)
Not narrow.d.. You can't negate the whole picture because of a small problem. The whole cannot be denied because of certain individuals.
Big things are not confused, small things are not calculated, and they will not lose big because of small things.
Have a vision. (Far)
Don't give up on yourself because of the backfire and sadness and frustration in front of you, look at the distance, and start again.
Know how to plan the layout, do planning, step by step to achieve the camp.
Have insight. (Depth)
Don't be fooled by rhetoric or small temptations, but learn to observe the essence clearly and calmly through the phenomenon.
Only by reading more books and seeing people, long insight, and increase wisdom can we have the correct three views and a cool mind.
Capabilities:
1. Have a calm and calm heart. Don't panic when things happen, and take responsibility for things.
2. Have the concentration to be alone. Be able to learn to live on your own, think independently, learn, and love yourself.
3. Know how to help others in a timely manner, and can also skillfully refuse unreasonable requests with high emotional intelligence.
4. Know how to make long-term aspirations, and also know how to plan the path of each realization, and build a successful channel for yourself.
5, there is concentration, but also the ability to divergent thinking.
6, know how to be flexible. There is a mind to go with the flow and to fight back against the wind.
7, have the ability to execute, will not delay their goals, will not waste their time.
8. Optimistic and open-minded. Always positive, not preoccupied, looking forward in everything.
There is a saying that goes like this:
"Those who want to influence the world must first be able to influence themselves."
If we want to be a girl with a real big picture, we must start by enriching our own brains and insights.
Start by swaying your own habits of mind. From now on, being a girl in a big pattern will have no limits in your life.
-The end-