Born in a family of the powerful, mixed feelings.
Compared with ordinary people, they have more resources and higher platforms, but the vision focused on them is also more demanding.
It is really difficult for a second generation to withstand this pressure and live out their own personality.
But Aria Shagieva, the youngest daughter of Kyrgyzstan's President Almazbek Atambayev, was able to live freely and freely.
The girl married her online boyfriend at a young age, a Russian programmer. After giving birth to the child, Aria "deviantly" published her breastfeeding photos online.
Every day that Arya is active online is accompanied by a large number of attacks, but her attitude is only three words "don't care".
01, the president's network love affair
Kyrgyzstan is China's western neighbor and has developed its economy half by growing cotton and raising sheep and half by exporting gold mines.
This model of relying on mountains to eat mountains and relying on water to draft water has made kyrgyzstan's economic structure very fragile, and the domestic political situation is also turbulent.
Former President Almazbek Atambayev, in order to protect his family, let his daughter follow her mother's surname and acted quietly from an early age.
But when she grew up, her youngest daughter, Aria Shagieva, became an independent artist. She loves painting, photography, fashion design, and free expression.
Arya married very early and entered into marriage at a young age. And her marriage partner is not a young talent in her country, but an unknown little programmer in Russia.
The two began their initial relationship online, and since 2012 Arya has been blogging a lot, with her own paintings and photographs in these miscellaneous caprices.
Aria's talent and creative ideas infected Konstantin, who was still in college at the time, and although the young man was Russian, he was studying in the capital of Kyrgyzstan at the time.
At that time, Aria only appeared on the Internet as an artist, and her background was completely a secret to Constantine.
After contacting for a while, the two formally met and established a romantic relationship. The relationship was very smooth, the two had been dating for a year and a half, and Arya confessed her family background.
Konstantin is a foreigner, he thought that exoticism is already the most legendary part of this relationship, but he did not expect that his lover was the president Qianjin, the "princess" of Kyrgyzstan.
And he himself came from an ordinary background, his parents were simple working people, working in the clothing market. Therefore, it is inevitable that when meeting the woman's parents, I will be nervous.
But to Konstantin's surprise, Aria's parents approve of the relationship. So in 2016, he proposed to Aaliyah.
In order not to frighten the southern parents, the young couple did not announce the identity of President Aria until a few weeks before their marriage. Not surprisingly, Konstantin's parents were still frightened.
The wedding of the two was held in the capital of Kyrgyzstan, which was an ordinary restaurant, the ultimate simple wedding. Wearing an ordinary dress, the bride entered the marriage in the presence of 30 relatives and friends.
02, the exotic love that caused a storm of public opinion
Life after marriage was very warm, and Aria soon gave birth to a son and a daughter.
Although she and Constantine are engaged in different professions, they share many common hobbies. Also a vegetarian, he also loves photography and travel.
Kyrgyzstan is a basin country with many mountains and valleys, and the natural scenery is very magnificent. The couple often traveled for photos, and their lives were very satisfying.
Once Aria posted a family photo online, the news that the president was marrying a foreign youth did not go away.
Aria has been fiercely attacked, and many people see transnational marriage as a betrayal of the motherland, especially Aria's special status and bad influence.
Aria notes that most of this bad comment comes from male netizens, and she is sensitively aware that this is a nationalist xenophobic idea. There are many men who see the women of the state as a form of property and believe that they have the right to define "what is the right belonging".
Aaliyah expresses the contradiction to the point, and is supported by many foreign marriages.
Since Kyrgyzstan was a member of the former Soviet Union, Russia still had a lot of influence in the country after the dissolution. The domestic economy is not good, and many citizens will go to Russia to work and earn remittances.
In Kyrgyzstan, many people speak Russian. So the proportion of exotic love affairs between Russia and Kyrgyzstan is also quite high.
This time the incident gained Aaliyah a lot of attention. When introducing her married life to the public, she never skimped on the praise of her husband.
She considered herself to be a complementary relationship with Constantine, and her husband was not only smarter than she was, but also had a more gentle and patient personality.
Due to her husband's low-key personality and emphasis on privacy, Arya rarely reveals the details of the two getting along, but it can be seen from her state of life that it is a happy marriage.
03. Public photographs promoting freedom of breastfeeding
In 2017, Aria uploaded a photo of her breastfeeding on Facebook.
In the photo, Aria wears only underwear and feeds her little daughter, and the photo is taken from top to bottom, and the style is more inclined to private photos.
While uploading the photo, Aria accompanied a text: female breasts are part of the body, and the important mission given to them is to breastfeed, not sexual characteristics.
Not surprisingly, this photo once again caused a storm of public opinion. The people of Kyrgyzstan want Arya to pay attention to her identity, as a woman and mother, you can emphasize your power, but you can't fail to pay attention to social influences.
The photo also caused resentment among the president's husband and wife, and at the strong request of her parents, Aria finally deleted the status.
Although Kyrgyzstan is a Muslim country, because it is a Turkic people, the people's customs have always been free and open. In this secular Muslim country, there are not many restrictions on how women dress.
But breastfeeding in public is clearly not a domain of women's power. Babies go hungry anytime, anywhere, and mothers have their own travel needs, so breastfeeding in public is a real problem that every country needs to face.
Emphasizing only the feeding function of the breasts and ignoring the social etiquette of body covering is also a partial behavior. People have individual freedom, but they also have social responsibility.
The promotion of nursing scarves, nursing clothing, and the construction of mother and baby rooms are all solutions to the problem of breastfeeding. In the eyes of the Kyrgyz people, things that can have the best of both worlds do not need to rely on sensationalism to show their difference.
Aria is undoubtedly an artist with a strong desire to express herself freely.
Although on some issues, she is too avant-garde and fierce, but she can have such a free and unrestrained personality, which shows that her parents have given her a lot of freedom to grow.
This may be the envy of many children of the powerful.