01
The annual Tomb Sweeping Festival arrives, when everything grows at this time, all are clean and clear, but it is also our deepest concern of the year.
The loved ones we loved were supposed to feel the beauty of spring with us, but now they are different.
Spring should be good, if you are still here.
It's just a pity that the precious companionship of the past can only be missed at this moment, we always think that the coming to Japan is long, but it is not as we wish.
Leaving is always a surprise.
Friends said that last year they could still hear their parents' urging for marriage, nagging, she was still impatient, always complaining, thinking that if she didn't go home, she could hear less of their rambling.
She never thought that the loved ones who loved her would quietly leave and never see each other again.
She thought she would always be with her to get married and have children, and the family would be happy, but there would be no more.
02
Thinking back on the last angry words with her relatives, it is really painful and regretful, if the time can be turned back, she will definitely talk to them well, do not collide, so that she has no regrets.
The previous heart and mind thoughts and thoughts came by hand, but now it has become out of reach, always thinking that coming to Japan is long, not wanting to come is an accident, and the pain of eternal separation of heaven and man is becoming more and more obvious with the qingming.
There is no longer a long day in the future, and from now on, no one may expect you to return, and there will be no one who loves you for the rest of your life, asking you whether you are warm and cold, knowing that you are well fed.
Seeing each other can only be in dreams, you sleep for a long time and I think about it for a long time.
Just like the song "One Meat and One Vegetarian" said that you have ever come to my dreams, you must be too careful when you come, knowing that I sleep lightly. The Qingming Festival is long, the mountains and rivers are hot, the deceased has passed away, the living are like Si, always think that the coming day is long, but the world is impermanent.
Coming to Japan for a long time, I used to think it was good, but putting it here will make us mistakenly think that time will overlap the future countless times.
However, today's happiness may not be felt tomorrow, after all, life is short, and where there is a long way to come.
03
If they have left, but as long as we have not forgotten, then they will not be far away, "Dream Quest" says that the real forgetting is that no one remembers again.
But we love them, even if we are not around, but the thoughts do not stop.
Nowadays, life is the best, life is impermanent, so cherish the time of the moment, more companionship is the best.
If you go to work in a distant place, you can rarely spend time with your family, so you can only use the free time after work every day, and short videos and small talk can ease each other's thoughts.
Use the limited vacation to run back and forth, make up for the time spent with each other, just so that in the future each other can have less regrets.
Cherish the present, cherish the people around you, and have more time to accompany them, which is why we should go back often during the holidays, because then you will have fewer regrets in the future.
We always ignore the present, dwell on the past, and worry about the future.
But forget that the present moment is what we can control and grasp, so do a good job in front of us, live every day well, you are safe, I am unharmed, it is the most beautiful time in the world.
04
Qingming is a festival of longing, an indelible sorrow, but perhaps its greatest significance lies in love and cherishing.
Life can be seen clearly, the years are not long, after life and death, you will find that time may take away a lot of pain, but you can't stop thinking about it.
Because time is just like the waves, the beach that washes away the memory over and over again takes away the sediment and blurs the details, but it also etchs the rocks and coastline, soaking into your bone marrow and soul, making the pain and nostalgia more profound.
Only cherish and love, when you are alive, love those you love, cherish the bits and pieces with them, play less mobile phones, and accompany more.
When people are in the past, they think that they have a chance to come to Japan for a long time, but in fact, after a certain age in life, it is subtraction, seeing one side, and one side less.
Goodbye do not know when, cherish the present.
May the heart be comfortable and quiet.