If you want to say which period of time is the happiest time in life, I believe most people will answer that it is the student era, in the student age, we do not have all kinds of pressure after entering the society, there is no complex interpersonal communication, every day in addition to class, is to play, live happily and happily.
But happiness is always relative, and whenever we lose it, we will feel precious, just as when we were students, we longed to grow up every day, so that we no longer had to study, no longer had to be nagged and disciplined by our parents.
Boys, in particular, are eager to become adults and want to be able to live independently, so at some point they act very rebellious as a way to show their maturity.
I know that there is a hot post, is about what they have done in junior high school is more crazy things, many netizens have left messages on the above to tell the crazy things they did in junior high school, many netizens sighed after watching, it turned out that everyone's youth is so similar.
About the 3 things that junior high school boys will "secretly" do, the school bully usually does not do, how many things have you done?
Listen to the teacher's "hypnotic" class and lie down on your desk to sleep
I believe that many people in junior high school, have the experience of sleeping on the desk, some students will stand up to block their heads, it seems to be a serious reading and listening to the lecture, but in fact, they have already entered the dreamland, and some students are listening to the "Heavenly Book" told by the teacher, and can't stop nodding.
Maybe some students think that they are secretly sleeping in class, and the teacher is completely blinded by himself, but in fact, as long as you stand on the podium and look down, you will understand that the teacher can actually see the state of each student very clearly, and sometimes just don't bother to care.
Speak quietly in class with your table mates
For boys who have just entered junior high school, the world is very new, and they encounter all kinds of interesting things every day, students will also exchange information about games and their favorite stars, and even some students will have hazy feelings for a classmate at this stage.
After encountering this situation, they often share their "thoughts" with other students at the same table or in the class, whispering in class, telling about their adolescent troubles.
Go to the Internet café with your classmates to play games
If you want to say what is most attractive to boys who have just entered junior high school, then it must be a game, especially for boys who have just entered junior high school, the impact of novel and exciting computer games is very huge.
Many junior high school boys will go to the Internet café to play games together after school, sometimes a play is several hours, over time, it will form an Internet addiction, all day long to use their minds on playing games, the results will naturally have a serious decline.
Respect, encouragement, and communication are the best ways for parents to discipline their adolescent children
Give your child more space and let him feel the respect of his parents
Adolescent boys are in a very awkward stage, in this stage they aspire to become adults, have adult maturity, get the recognition and respect of others, but in essence, they are still children, and their cognition of many things is still in a very naïve stage.
Then in the face of this situation, those of us who are parents should give our children more private space, no longer treat children as children, do not casually turn over children's things, or enter and exit the child's room at will, so that children can feel the respect of their parents for him, so that it is conducive to establishing a friendly parent-child relationship.
If you want your child to become a man, you should give your child more encouragement
Cracking down on education is the most commonly used education method for many parents to educate their children, because in their view, only by hitting children more can children reflect on their own shortcomings and develop good habits of modesty.
But in fact, the impact on education is very harmful to children's self-confidence, especially for mao children who have just entered junior high school, they are at the age of desperately wanting to prove themselves.
At this time, if parents still blindly hit them, it is easy for children to deny themselves, thus forming an inferiority complex.
Therefore, as parents at this stage, we should encourage children to dare to try, so that children have the confidence to face new challenges, so that children can grow into small men.
Communication is a good medicine to enhance the parent-child relationship and a bridge to educate children
In fact, many times the conflict is caused by the lack of communication, before my neighbor broke out with his own child, which caused his child to run away from home, and finally with the help of the police, the child was found.
The reason for the quarrel was because my neighbor mistakenly thought that the child returned every night because he went out to play games on the Internet, so he indiscriminately reprimanded him, but he did not expect that the reason why the child returned late every night was because the school asked him to stay and rehearse the program.
The child is reprimanded for no reason, and naturally feels aggrieved in his heart, and it is inevitable that he will make some radical moves.
Sometimes a lot of quarrels can be avoided, as long as we have a little more patience to understand the causes and consequences of things, and listen to the children's ideas.
Therefore, as parents, we must learn how to communicate with boys who are in adolescence, do not indiscriminately blame children, learn to understand children, let children understand that parents are reasonable, and will respect their ideas.
epilogue
Boys who have just entered junior high school are in the stage of adolescent agitation, in this period parents should pay attention to ways and methods in educating their children, do not blame and educate children with a lofty attitude, and try to put down the parents' shelf and communicate with the children equally, so that they can understand the true thoughts of the children's hearts.
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