In the blood draw room of the Hexin Cancer Treatment Center, a lean man came out, and it didn't take too much effort to identify him to know that he was "Li Ou" (real name: Weng Chongyi), 4 years ago, the doctor judged that the end stage of nasopharyngeal cancer, the survival rate was only 1%, so far, has not yet walked with God, 8/15 is ready to greet the 48th birthday, on the day of the interview, he is still in chemotherapy, facing death, he said frankly and humorously, "Life is like a phone call, there is always someone to hang up first."
▲ Li Ou, who has a strong body, after cancer, still continues to maintain a good figure, and the body fat rate is even only about 10% for a while. Image taken from Leo FB
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Li Ou was originally a nasopharyngeal cancer, and then quickly metastasized to the spine, and even the liver, lymph and lungs have cancer cells one after another, "I probably only have nails left in my body and no cancer cells." Many times of radiation therapy, chemotherapy, resulting in neck ulceration, left ear hearing loss, fatigue, dizziness, vomiting, swallowing difficulties, tinnitus and so on countless side effects, the most serious one is after chemotherapy mouth holes, pain to the point of complete inability to eat, a week of weight loss of 10 kg, take a taxi to the hospital, as soon as the door is opened, he fainted, let him himself be frightened, he knows that he can no longer go on like this.
With a change of heart, he began to force himself to take in enough nutrients when he lost his sense of taste, and protein foods such as fish and chicken asked him to eat as much as possible, "Every time I eat, it is as if I am eating a candle, my mouth cannot be opened, my salivary glands are damaged and I cannot secrete saliva, and every time I eat it is painful." Even if it is painful, for the sake of his belief that "I want to live and spend more time with my family", let him persevere, and now he is even healthier than before he fell ill.
▲ The side effects of the treatment have made him lose 10 kilograms a week, so he had to use the nasogastric tube to supplement the nutrition products, so that he can quickly recover his weight and continue treatment. Image taken from Leo FB
The only belief is "denial of destiny"
On the road to fight cancer, he only has one belief in "not recognizing his life", because he still wants to take his family to travel around the world, and "practicing jokes" is a good post that brings him positive strength, "Happy is also a day, sad is also a day!" 」 He recalled a while ago, prone to migraines, under the advice of the doctor to do a brain examination, survived the fearful waiting time, and when he returned to the clinic, the doctor said "Very good!" There's nothing in the brain." He smiled back, "It's good to be empty!" I didn't expect Taiza to make up another knife, "I don't have to read the report to know!" Make him angry and funny.
▲ Don't want to treat yourself as a patient, Li Ou is used to returning to the clinic by himself, and handling big and small things by himself.
Leo: I'm just an ordinary person
Li Ou, who was once the CEO and a muscular macho man, said that he was an "anti-cancer fighter", and he quickly refused" "I am just an ordinary person, and I have not succeeded in fighting cancer." Yes, he was still on chemotherapy the morning of the interview, "I really don't like being deified." He said that like him and other cancer friends, he couldn't be more ordinary, "I am a cancer patient who is not even favored by doctors." Even the patients in the latter class could ignore the call of the god of death and gamble to live, and he felt that there must be more people who could be reborn.
Actively waiting for the rebirth of Li Ou, in the circle of cancer friends is the object of many people to learn, when interviewed, in the corridor, Li Ou met the cancer friend K, K because of breast cancer after the metastasis, the day is anxiously waiting for the big report, worried K Even if the husband is around to comfort, can not suppress the fear of fear, Li Ou tried to chat with her to eliminate tension, to meet her head-on, K frustrated said: "I really don't want to have chemotherapy again, so painful." K said to Leo, "Can you hold it?" K is like holding a lifebuoy like hugging Li Ou, trying to find a safe shore, Li Ou gently patted K's back, helping K vent the worries that cancer friends will understand, and also helping K find the courage to fight against life, without talking much, the exclusive channel of cancer friends is on the phone.
▲ Li Ou made a simple hug to soothe the patient's fearful heart.
Treat cancer as a cold, things are better
After saying goodbye to K, Li Ou added, "I want to encourage cancer friends to give positive cases, and I don't need to be full of sadness or excessive concern, just be a normal person, and make the other party feel more comfortable." And when you are depressed, first deceive yourself, like treating cancer as a "heavy cold" thing will be much better.
Li Ou's "heavy cold", the wife also has a tacit understanding to pretend that her husband is still in the "heavy cold", in 4 years, about the "sick" and the wife have only discussed 3 times, so that the tacit understanding let them know each other, needless to say, Li Ou in order to adhere to the belief that he wants to travel around the world with his family, let him continue to fight cancer.
Ask him if he usually comes back and forth alone? He said, "Of course! My wife is going to work, and I don't like to be like a patient." Just don't want to be a patient, Li Ou is now happy to be a "tool man", laundry, drying clothes, mopping and other household affairs are all handled by him, Li Ougan is like a glutton, asked him if he has written a suicide note? He said, "I don't need it yet!" He also humorously added, "After I came from this world, I never thought of going back alive."
▲ Don't want to be treated as a patient, Li Ou is happy to be a tool man in the family, sweeping the floor, mopping the floor, washing the laundry are his responsibilities, and he is willing to eat it.