现代社会，离婚率越来越高。 People's perceptions are changing, and it seems that you are embarrassed not to divorce the second marriage. So what is the reason for the increasing divorce rate?
(1) The pace of society is too fast
1, modern society, the pace of life is too fast. People go from acquaintance to love to marriage very quickly. Good as fast as it will spread out.
2, the pace is too fast, resulting in a lack of patience. People don't have the patience to explain the misunderstandings, nor do they have the patience to give them the opportunity to make up for their mistakes.
3, the pace is too fast, but also will lead to pressure, the heart will be lonely. I always feel that no one understands me, I always feel that no one cares about me, and I always feel very wronged.
Fast coping is slow, start with love, don't be too anxious, you can run more. The pace of work life is too fast, then slow down, try it out and it will not be good. If you are too stressed, you can release the pressure, travel, listen to music, and watch movies. It is not wrong that society is fast-paced, what is wrong is that it makes marriage casual because society is fast.
(ii) Desire is too high
1, modern society materialistic, human desires are constantly elevated. When desires are too high and unsatisfied, resentment arises.
2, there is a desire is easy to produce a sense of comparison. The one who constantly compares others is rich, powerful, loving or virtuous, considerate, and gentle.
3, people are desire-driven animals, people have physiological, psychological, spiritual needs at different levels. Solve the problem of food and clothing, want to belong, and have a belonging to comfort.
If the desire is too high, then restrain the desire and keep the pure heart. Satisfying the general eating, wearing, living and traveling, maintaining psychological peace of mind, the spiritual level depends on self-driving, rather than relying on the outside world. The root of life's suffering is also caused by endless desires. Without desire, that's not human. If the desire is too high and there is no restraint, it is a disaster.
(iii) There are too many temptations
1. There are more and more people that can be contacted in modern society, such as classmates, colleagues, friends, and strangers. A chance encounter on the road, or an inadvertent glance back.
2, the information developed society, people and people contact is very convenient. All kinds of social software, dating software, and beautiful live broadcasts are emerging in an endless stream. It has become easier for people to reach temptation.
3. Encouragement from merchants. Cars - beauty, movies - beauty, music - beauty, flight attendant - beauty, live broadcast - beauty... There are temptations everywhere, and even if you are a righteous gentleman, it is difficult to resist the temptations of society.
There are too many temptations for you to turn a blind eye to. At this time, what is needed is to improve the cultivation of self. Weak water three thousand, take only one scoop. No matter how good people are, they are not their own. Read more, study more, cultivate self-cultivation, control desires, and resist temptations. At the same time, discover her/his beauty with your heart. Beauty needs to be discovered, doesn't it?
(4) A change in the concept of marriage
1. The traditional concept of marriage and love, the words of the parents' fate and concubine, have long been outdated. But the new concept of marriage and love has not yet been established. It was an age of change, the old order was broken, the new order had not yet been established.
2, in the past, people treated marriage as a lifelong thing, from one end to the other. Nowadays, people think that marriage is like a car, and you always have to change several cars in your life. It seems that from the beginning to the end is incredible.
3, the effect of stars, the effect of the people around them. People have the habit of imitating, and there is also the habit of following the herd. When celebrities have divorced and cheated, and people around them have become popular in divorce, they will inevitably be wrapped up.
The change in people's concept of marriage is a difficult problem. This requires keeping one's beliefs, firmly believing that love should be cautious and final, and firmly believing that marriage should end from one end. This is not to say that you can't leave after getting married, but you should be cautious, cautious, and cautious. Instead of being bitterly entangled, it is better to break up and give each other freedom. But how do you judge the pain of being together when making a decision?
(5) Women's ability to be independent is enhanced
1) Once upon a time, women were financially dependent on men. Therefore, women belong to a subordinate position, so there is no way to say that there is suffering, and there is no way to divorce if there is grievance.
2) Now, women are economically independent and ideologically seek equality. Women find that they don't have to rely on men at all, don't care about men anymore, and women are free.
3, independence brings a good side, but also brings a bad side. The good side is that feminist awareness is strengthened, and the bad side is that a small thing overturns the boat of friendship.
Equality between men and women is an inevitable trend in social development and the embodiment of the progress of civilization. Female independence is undoubtedly a good thing. Women should be prepared to master this ability and not abuse it casually. And men should be prepared to always treat women with equal respect. Marriage is the interdependence of two people, and independence should not destroy dependence.
(6) Lack of responsibility
1. What is a sense of responsibility? Responsibility is the firm observance of contractual obligations. Both love and marriage require a sense of responsibility. Such as loyalty, such as love, such as not leaving. Without a sense of responsibility, people break up as casually as eating.
2, the change in the concept of marriage and love makes the sense of responsibility disappear continuously. When you think that the other person is your lifelong lover, the sense of responsibility will be stronger. And when you only think that the other person is a passer-by in life, then the sense of responsibility will be weak. Just like if you buy a house and rent a house, the attitude will be different.
3, the sense of responsibility is a two-way street. Love is a two-way rush, when one party actively strives and pours out their efforts, but the other party turns a blind eye and does not care, then rupture is inevitable. It's like if you build a wall alone and the other party keeps demolishing it, then you can never build this wall.
In modern society, getting married and divorcing are all too easy. Fraudulent marriages, abusive love, scumbags, and scumbags abound. Because people are not responsible for love and marriage, as long as I like it, then I can keep choosing and constantly changing. The consequence of this irresponsibility is that everyone is at risk, and everyone is like a hedgehog protecting themselves.
(vii) Freedom overflows without restraint
1. Freedom of marriage and love is the progress of society. But people only like freedom, not constraints.
2, sometimes people pursue freedom, just to show their personality. Mistakenly believing that divorce is a kind of personality and freedom.
3, people long for freedom but can not control freedom, and finally be wrapped up in freedom.
4) Freedom premised on constraint is true freedom. Without restrained freedom, it is like a river flooding.
For the flood of freedom. On the one hand, we should improve the legal system and protect the interests of the parties. On the other hand, through education and public opinion guidance, people's cognition is enhanced, so that people have a high sense of moral responsibility. The irresponsible view of marriage must be punished, otherwise more and more people will be injured.
Finally, don't follow the crowd and blindly follow the trend. Man still has to follow his heart. If you really can't get by, then it's better to settle down, don't let yourself regret it in the future.
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