In life, there are always people who constantly hit you, slander you, insult you, hurt you in the name of being good, and will constantly emphasize that this is to make you better.
Then, you begin to become inferior, sensitive, depressed, oligositive, constantly recalling every expression, action, language of yourself, and then self-doubt, self-reflection.
What's wrong with you? You're not wrong at all. The world is so big, it is required to reserve differences, and everyone is like a mold set, so what is the point?
Most of those who try to control you are cowardly and incompetent in life, unable to control their bad tempers, and have little sense of responsibility. Such an imperfect him, why stand on the moral high ground and duty is not so perfect you?
People get along with each other, and they need to respect, understand, tolerate, and care for each other, not hurt each other. Stay away from the people who consume you, stay away from those who make you unhappy, including your parents, husband, wife, children.
If you can't stay away, then choose to turn a deaf ear, the left ear into the right ear out, don't let others control their lives, people's greatest freedom is peace of mind, life is stable.
During the lockdown period of the epidemic, cultivating one's own mentality is also a kind of growth.