People who are really good to you will only point out your faults all day long
Text/Sun Xinhe
When I was a child, I had a pretty good relationship with my little friend Dog Egg.
The dog egg's academic performance is really not bad, and it is more naughty. Under his influence, I also unconsciously changed.
My father, who is a teacher, told me bitterly that the near Zhu is red, the near ink is black, and too much interaction with the dog egg will bring you great trouble in the future.
Mothers are different. Light scolding, hitting at every turn. Not to mention, this method really worked, and in a short period of time, my debauchery had converged a lot.
Another characteristic of dog eggs is that they would rather let go of their own family affairs than help others to work first. Of course, pull me in as much as possible. The devil sent God to the earth, and I never knew how to refuse.
My father was not at home, and my mother went to the coal yard to buy honeycomb coal, and asked me to go to help push the cart, so I resigned, and there was a lot of homework waiting to be done. When the mother heard this, she said nothing and went alone.
When my mother left, I happily went to someone else's house and beat the coal with a manual honeycomb coal machine. Half a day later, tired like a dog, sticking out his tongue and gasping.
The uncle next door who went the most always touched our heads, but praised us vigorously, really two good boys. That's all. However, the dog egg and I felt happy, after all, we had received praise from others.
Once, I couldn't resist asking my uncle if I could buy us two popsicles. As a result, the uncle was furious, one word, roll.
Interestingly, when I got home, my mother had already prepared the cold white rice that I loved to drink and the meals that I liked to eat.
I admit that I'm not very smart, but not stupidly breathless either. In a fit of rage, he broke up with the dog and egg and never went to anyone's house to help with the work.
Later, when the uncle saw me, he offered to buy me something to eat, but I was not interested. He even asked him directly, did he trick me into working at your house again?
After my mother learned of this situation, she said with a bitter smile that the family is lazy and diligent, and people praise you as a good person. Don't suffer losses, you will never grow up.
Over time, I gradually discovered that the best person in the world for you is your parents. They criticize and scold you all day long, but in their bones they are willing to take out their hearts and give them to you. Don't want you to make mistakes.
It is said that the father's love is like a mountain, and the mother's love is like water, which is very well described. With the protection of the mountains and the moisture of the water, we can be full of joy and grandchildren.
Today, I am middle-aged. Especially after wandering in Beijing for many years, I have experienced and seen too many strange people and things, too many. Enough to write a legendary book, proud of the red dust.
At the same time, I also fully appreciated the true meaning of giving nothing and being courteous, either adulterous or thief.
A person who is not related to you, has nothing to do with you, surrounds you for a long time, saying how capable and wise you are, you must be careful.
Either they want something from you and have to do it deliberately, or they are ready to dig you an insurmountable pit, replace you, and then fall into the well.
Believe it or not? Everyday politeness and shameless flattery are absolutely out of reach, and a little basic common sense can be seen clearly.
Really, we can accept praise, but we must have the courage to accommodate criticism.
Understand that people who are really good to you can't always say you're good, on the contrary, they will only point out your faults all day long.