Boys who have chased girls have encountered situations where girls do not reply to messages. But some people can continue to open up leisurely, some people start to chat awkwardly, and some people just give up. In fact, it is normal for girls not to reply to your messages, and they must not ask for themselves, at this time, do not attribute the reason to the fact that girls are not interested in you, girls do not want to talk to you, etc., but to think about whether they have not shown their own interest? Is your topic too boring?
Optimistic people see hope in crises, and pessimistic people choose to sink from favorable circumstances. The girl does not reply to your message does not mean that you have no drama, but that there is a problem with your sister-in-law method, how can you answer the question correctly with the wrong method, and how can you unlock the heart lock with the wrong key?
Adjust the sister-in-law routine
Thousands of faces, different people have different personalities, she has to talk with her temperament, an introverted girl, you pull some yellow strips all day, a big grinning girl you discuss philosophy with her, this is obviously the bull's head is not right for the horse's mouth, so the sister is also different from person to person.
So chat with the girl you like, she does not reply to your message, you have to adjust the sister routine, your topic, point of view, way of thinking to make changes corresponding to her personality. If you keep your true colors, then sending more messages may not help. Girls are reserved and emotional, sometimes a few sincere compliments, can make her happy for a long time, in the chat do not forget to use some indirect praise, as well as some topics that arouse her curiosity, often can smoothly start the dialogue.
Flip through your chat history
Girls are not like boys, so when chatting, we should pay more attention to their soft hearts, some things can be talked about, some things girls are very annoying, and your relationship is not very deep, she will not say it directly, you said something that makes her unhappy, directly do not reply to your message.
So when you are chatting and not replying to your message, the boy should go through the chat history to see if he said something wrong, or talked about some sensitive topics, or should not ask privacy. If there are these situations, it is necessary to adjust the chat content in time to resolve the embarrassment harmoniously.
Adjust the contact progress
Once a straight man likes a girl, he very much wants to talk to the girl until the sky is crazy, but at this time your relationship is not clear, you suddenly intervened in her life, and the girl who can talk openly does not matter if she thinks you are OK, but some slow and hot girls have a backward psychology to deal with this situation.
The more active you are, the farther away she is from you. So the frequency and progress of the chat should be weighed according to your relationship, at the beginning of the girl to you love to ignore is a normal phenomenon, do not be too anxious, too eager to chat with her, of course, can only be exchanged for her no reply, this time should slightly reduce your contact progress.
In fact, silence is also an answer, and no reply is also a reply. Many times, not responding is also a polite rejection.
There are many problems and embarrassments that people have to face in their lives, which is more severe than not receiving a WeChat reply. If you don't receive it, you don't have to get it, don't bother. It is nothing more than a friend, and since it is useless for a friend to ask for it.
There is no need to comfort herself, to deceive herself, that it may be that she did not see the message, or that she is too busy to reply. This can only mean that you are too fragile psychologically.
People meet and know each other, and breaking up and leaving is also a fate. It can only be said that this is the end of the fate. You can't bear the share you once had, and you can treasure it in your own memory.
To be a person, you must understand a truth, you think it is difficult to give up, others have no obligation to approve, and the idea is consistent with you. There is no need to tear up the face and scold, what thin affection, what ungrateful, what to see different thoughts, to make a bloody and then separated to be willing.
The more you cherish the past, the more politely you have to accept the end. What's so bad about making a good memory beautiful forever?
I heard a passage from a man at a court trial. When the judge asked him what he had to say about his wife's past.
He said that she used to be my wife, and even if she had more than that, we could scold each other. But I wouldn't count on any occasion that she wasn't. All I can tell the court is that our relationship has broken down.
I don't understand what kind of a man this man's past was. But I agree with and praise him for his remarks. Once since the wife, you have proved that you have loved deeply, and when you break up, it is a flogging of your personality to publicly count the people you have loved deeply.
Husbands and wives are like this, friends should be like this, you were once friends, indicating that you have been imprinted on each other. There is no need to say that both parties are useless in a breakup. What you once had should be cherished.
When I say this passage, I want to talk to you, I say that it is more difficult for people to be good and disperse than to be good. Respect for the past is also respect for oneself.