There used to be a word called Dare to Love Dare to Hate.
Now the word is not mentioned much, because in today's society, people are not encouraged to hate.
Now in this world, those loud, magnetic voices teach people to tolerate pain, to tolerate setbacks, to let people express kindness, and then tell people that kindness can make you get a lot, can make your life very beautiful, very peaceful.
Now in this society, promote love, praise love, but you will find that in fact, many people are very lacking in love, because they do not feel the existence of love, the so-called love, more like a request, a demand that forces you to accept.
So, what about hate?
Hate has become a kind of irony.
Open the phone, you will see a lot of short videos promoting love, although these short videos are packaged in a variety of ways, in the end, what you really feel is that those proud Internet celebrities tell you with the tone of educating you, hate will make you degenerate, will make you lose your direction, in their eyes, hate seems to be a kind of evil, hate is like a kind of retribution.
This sounds ridiculous, someone has done something wrong, hurt you, you should not hate him, you can only tolerate him, to understand why he hurt you, if you do not do this, you will be considered stingy, will make people feel that you are not generous enough,
Yes, hating a person will hurt yourself, will let your emotions fall into an extreme state, will be excited, will hurt your heart and cerebrovascular, but all of this, will it be completely solved with tolerance and kindness?
In fact, no, not only will it not, but it will also lead to counter-effects.
People's tolerance has become the connivance of some ugly social behaviors, and those low-quality behaviors will be popular, because when low-quality behaviors are not punished, people will pay attention to what kind of benefits this behavior brings, at this time, no one cares about the profits of those low-quality behaviors, because they destroy and steal the interests of others.
There is no punishment, no accusation, only tolerance, only connivance, and low-quality behavior, which will be described as a kind of profitable model of "understanding life and understanding human nature".
People always try to find the true meaning of life from kindness, just like there is only one standard answer in the exam, and the other answers are wrong, because only this answer will give the "student" a corresponding score.
In this answer sheet of life, how many points the "student" scores depends on the "teacher" to judge "right and wrong".
So, in order to pursue goodness, in order to pursue the so-called love, in order to promote the moral correctness and correct behavior flaunted by love, even in the face of harm, in the face of slander, in the face of injustice and even deliberate attack, in order to make oneself live correctly, to live in line with this prescribed good, correct values, to forcibly accept those problems that should have been confrontation, conflict, and solved through strength and true justice, at this time, goodness became a force that was coerced, and not yielding was unkind, unkind, unkind, It is a dissident who "does not understand life" and "does not understand life".
When it comes to hate, talk about hate, as if hating a person, the other party is not wrong, and the person who hates is wrong.
Hate is like a self-destructive existence, those who do wrong things, hurt you, stand with those who condemn the undeserved hate, criticize you together, criticize your hate,
They laugh at your compromises, satirize your life, as long as you dare to resist, they will incite more people to attack you,
Distorted values breed more distorted humanity,
A story of black and white upside down,
It's been happening:
"Those who have wronged you know better than you how wronged you really are."