I can feel your contradictions, you are still trying to communicate with your partner, feel that you hope to crack the status quo in communication, but at present it seems that there is no agreement between you, the difference between you and him leads to you always quarreling, maybe the problem is not too serious, but it will cause you and him to continue to conflict, you feel a lot of pressure in your heart, but also feel very uncomfortable, very depressed, if you do not act to worry about this relationship will not be able to maintain, but the action does not seem to have a good effect. Now you may be a little pessimistic, that is, you feel that this person and this person will inevitably lead to a bad outcome.
Your mind is already very chaotic, you will think of a lot of things, that is, the energy can not be stabilized, always thinking about what to do, you act according to what you want to do and has no effect, which makes you feel very frustrated, and the pressure in your heart is getting bigger and bigger. Sometimes you don't dare to think about these questions anymore, but there are still problems in places you can't see, which can affect your emotions. When you see the other person's cold attitude, you will be desperate, and you will feel that the most feared result is not far away from you.
Your inner definition of life is stability and peace, the definition of feelings is the same, so you will take this as the goal to serve your emotional relationship, I feel that you are sometimes quite anxious, because the gap between the status quo and what you expect is too big, the more you want to make up for the gap, the more you will feel powerless, it seems that you want to grasp the end of the slip away. Or first ask yourself, do you really know this person?
Recently, if you and the other party are still together, the conflict between you will become more and more intense, some small things will make you go to great lengths, after each thing you will say to control yourself well, but when things really appear you will find that control is useless, and the other party will spend more time to pay attention to himself at this time, he will not respond to you according to your ideas and hopes, but will focus on his own world, and the enthusiasm you express will soon be extinguished by his basin of cold water.
It can be seen that you are still very good at interpersonal relations, and the gains in work are not small, only with this person you feel trapped, there is no way to change with all your strength, emotional problems have become a rope that traps you, you do not want to lose him, but you do not want to be so depressed. What I want to remind you here is that we are a divination for the public, when you see your actual situation and then substitute, do not casually define yourself. If you really can't do anything about it and want to know what to do next, I'd love to have a chat with me, the draw yourself will present more and more accurate details, and I can see how to help you based on this. Don't be disappointed, and don't feel like you've reached a dead end, the problem can be solved.
The current state is far from what you are pursuing, and sometimes you will tell yourself that the other party has no intentions and that he does not love you. The other party's attitude has become a benchmark for you to measure and judge the relationship, I think the other party is not unaware of this situation, he may be able to see your confusion in his heart, but his thoughts and expectations are different from yours. Or don't stick too much to your own ideas, you have fallen into a strange circle, this will be a bad cycle, but your final direction has not changed, the relationship between you and the other party will be maintained, or use a positive attitude to face this process and complete this topic well.