Every place has its own customs, different regions, customs are also different, for raising a child, our parents' generation of people are always willing to continue to pass on these customs, but their ideas are very different from modern young people.
In the eyes of young people, they are more advocating scientific feeding, and it is difficult to accept the living customs of the elderly, which is also the most difficult to communicate between the two generations, who think that their way is more suitable for babies and are not willing to compromise.
Recently, a woman in Nanchang, Jiangxi Province, posted the way the elderly at home with children to her social platform, which caused heated discussion among many netizens.
It is reported that the woman is the baby's aunt, the baby has just been born and has not yet had a full moon, and the mother is in confinement at this time.
In order to let the mother make a good confinement, during this period the baby has been taken care of by the grandmother, and the grandmother is also very protective of the baby on weekdays, and the baby is reluctant to suffer a little grievance.
Perhaps because the traditional thinking is too deep-rooted, Grandma's original intention is actually for the good of the baby, so she feels that the pig hair on the body should be blown off after the baby is born.
What is Pig Hair Wind?
Every newborn baby will have a layer of soft sweat hair, according to folk sayings, the main symptoms of pig hair wind are manifested as infant restlessness, night noise, unprovoked crying, how to coax is not good, hold and sleep very soundly, but as soon as you put it down, you can't sleep soundly all night, and so on.
Scraping off the pig hair wind can solve this series of phenomena in the baby, but in the eyes of young people, these are inevitably empty winds, not only have no scientific basis, but also cause certain harm to the baby.
Grandma felt that Bao Ma would definitely not agree, so she took matters into her own hands and directly shaved off the baby's hair without the consent of Bao Ma.
In the video, we can see that the razor that Grandma uses to shave the baby's sweat is a razor that men are familiar with and often use.
And Grandma used a razor with a blade, not the kind of electricity, perhaps because she felt that the electricity would not be able to scrape off, so she chose to use a razor with a blade.
At this time, the baby's whole body is wrapped in a bag, but only one leg is exposed, and the grandmother holds the baby's leg with one hand to prevent it from moving, and the other hand holds a razor and constantly scrapes on the baby's leg.
It wasn't until all the hairs on the baby's legs were shaved that Grandma stopped and the hand holding one of the baby's legs was released.
We can obviously see a fine layer of sweat hair scraped off the baby's legs, and at this time the baby's legs are completely red, I don't know whether it is this color itself or after the grandmother took a knife to scrape off this color.
Netizens saw this scene helplessly sighed: it is so ignorant! In this way, not only will the baby's young skin be scratched, but the razor is so sharp that it is very dangerous for the baby, and it will be injured if you are not careful.
Lao Yu wanted to say
In fact, in grandma's heart is also for the baby's good, but she does not have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong, and feels that as long as it is a custom handed down by the older generation, it must be right, and it is precisely this kind of custom that will cause more harm to the baby.
I just don't know what Bao Mom will think after seeing it, whether she blames her mother-in-law for not making up her own mind, or whether she will remember that it is not easy for her mother-in-law, so as to have more respect for her mother-in-law?
Many netizens said: If it is me, I will never let anyone hurt the baby, even if this person is a mother, this is obviously an act of ignorance.
What would you be like if you were to encounter this? And how will this be resolved?