This side will see that you and the other person have experienced a relatively short relationship, you have not been together for a long time and start to have problems, and now it may be a state of separation. It feels like you've barely been in harmony with each other after you've been together, and you're always arguing. One of you is very yearning for and pursuing freedom and does not want to be bound by anything, so when the other party in the emotional relationship has a request, contradictions will arise. As a result, the relationship has become a kind of torture, making both of you unbearable and understanding, and I have seen that you and he have actually tried to change the way they get along, but some ideas seem to be not easy to achieve.
Now it's as if you've reached a dead end, there's no way out, and the relationship has stalled. It seems that you and the other party feel very hard, and there will be a lot of ideas in your hearts, but none of you are willing to work hard, so separation seems to have become a more natural thing, even if you are not willing to accept, but there is no way to save it.
If you don't say feelings, other aspects of you are still relatively smooth, there will be some expected gains in your career, but you do not seem to be satisfied with this state, you are very ambitious, you are planned, have been tirelessly moving forward, is to achieve their goals. That is to say, you have been spending a lot of energy on running your own business, you can give feelings time is pitiful, and when you come to this step that you can't continue, in fact, you are very confused, you don't know what exactly happened to cause this result, and you have always wondered what you did wrong.
I feel like the universe is giving a hint that what is most needed in the relationship is fairness, that it is to find a balance of energy, and if you can't give more in this relationship, how can you get the same reward? Your inaction will also be perceived by the other person as not valuing the relationship, so the other person will treat the relationship in the same way. I always say that emotional relationships still have to calm down and think, but for your relationship, I don't think you can always calm down, so it becomes laissez-faire, and finally the relationship will end in inaction.
If you really want to get it back, I suggest you give each other a little more time first, but you can also choose to quit completely and stop consuming each other's energy. So then bravely make a decision, if you feel that you need to look at the situation again, or you don't know how to do it, I also welcome you to talk to me, after all, this is a divination for the public, if you draw cards in person can present more accurate details, after seeing this I think I can give you some helpful advice. I just want you to act, and there is no answer to keep waiting.
I can feel that there is zero communication between you now, and I have a worse feeling, that is, whether you and he have been impacted by some sudden things, and the relationship between you seems to have a big crack at once. It is very likely that a third party will intervene among you, you are very angry, there is also no understanding and doubt, it is difficult to accept this fact, if it is really an emotional betrayal, it will bring you a relatively large blow. When you and the other party first entered the relationship, I think in fact, there is a lot of pressure, you can see that the original family may have given you some resistance, it may be that the people around you do not want you to be together, this relationship is finally your hard work.
So now if you do face betrayal, I feel like you just can't accept it, and I can't figure out why this person treats you like this and why he gave up the hard-won relationship. You really have a lot of confusion in your heart, so why not communicate with the other party? If you are always unwilling to say how you feel, or don't listen to each other's voices, then you really lose the opportunity to face the future. Or first allocate your time and energy, learn to balance your energy, give yourself some time to relax, don't have pressure, and sort out your own thinking before you can better solve the problem.