Love seems to be easy, but in fact it is difficult to understand.
There are still many women who can't tell if a man's love is real or not.
So much so that many women fall into this meditation:
"Whether he really loves me or not, and how can I tell if a person really loves himself?"
In fact, love is not as difficult to distinguish as imagined.
The person who really loves you, you must be able to feel it.
He will not only say that he loves you, but also prove his feelings for you with practical actions.
When a man encounters true love, he will willingly give you the following 3 things.
His time
Suzen once said such a sentence;
"The most extravagant person in the world is the one who is willing to spend time with you;
Whoever has time is valuable, and giving time to you is equivalent to giving your own world to you. ”
Seriously.
Nowadays, people are very busy, busy with work and life, and there is very little time for themselves.
In such a limited amount of time, if a man, he is willing to spend his time on you.
Your importance to him can be imagined.
In the eyes of outsiders, he is a very busy person, and even often refuses to meet with friends.
But the exception is for you, whenever you need him, he will never tell you that you don't have time.
It was as if everything was just right, and I don't know how much effort he put in.
In the world, there are not so many coincidences, and behind most of the 'coincidences', there are unknown painstaking thoughts and efforts.
So, in the process of heterosexual interaction, you must cherish the person who always has time for you.
It's not that he's idle, he's just free only for you all the time.
And the subtext behind this is naturally like, is a steady stream of heartbeat and love for you.
His patience
I have read such a sentence on the Internet, which impressed me deeply:
"The greatest tenderness a man has toward a woman is his patience."
If you think about it, you'll think it makes a lot of sense.
Although everyone's personality is different, people's patience is limited.
I have brushed such a warm video on the Internet:
The man is the planner and operation of a certain company, and his personality is somewhat urgent, so his temper is not very good.
His subordinates all respected him, and in his work, he was even more conscientious and diligent, and did not dare to make mistakes.
Over time, he became the 'devil' in the mouths of employees, inhuman.
But such a 'devil' changed his appearance when he returned home.
In his work, he is very strict with his subordinates and has little patience.
But in the face of his girlfriend, he was extremely patient.
I have to admit that people will behave very double-standard in the face of the people and things they like.
What others can't do, you can.
Perhaps, this is the so-called power of love.
The deeper a man's love for you, the better his patience and tolerance for you will be.
His concern
Boys are actually very smart, as long as he likes you enough, he will remember all your preferences and will be careful to protect your sensitivities.
He understands every subtext you say and will go to great lengths to do everything you expect.
He can see through the disguise behind your strength, and he can also see through the sadness behind your smile.
The person who likes you will always show up in time when you need him.
Even if it's just a shoulder or a hug.
When you are wronged and a person is sad, he will hold you in his arms.
When you are scolded by your boss, he will unite with you and share the enemy with you.
When you are sick and uncomfortable, even if he can't come to your side in time to take care of you, he will ask the rider to send you medicine.
The person who loves you will infiltrate the love for you into the bits and pieces of your life.
You don't need to ask him if he loves you or not, he can feel it naturally.
His constant concern for you will make you feel at ease and steadfast.
Men like this who will take the initiative to care for you and do not need you to ask for love and care are really touching your true feelings.
He is ready to be with you for the rest of his life to know and care so much about you.
If you are lucky enough to meet, please cherish this happiness in hand.
Because if you miss it, you will never meet someone who loves you like this again.