There is no standard answer in the world, and if there is, it is to spend your life the way you want.
Speaking of Li Na, many people think of her legendary experience and glorious achievements
。 And then everyone envied Li Na's point, that is, her sweet and dedicated love life with her husband Jiang Shan.
After Li Nagong retired, she lived the two-person world she longed for.
subsequently
Gave birth to a daughter, and then another boy
。 They have lived a happy and happy life with their husbands and children for more than 20 years.
It's just that in the past two years, Li Na has been on variety shows, so her exposure is relatively high.
In a variety show, many people are questioning
Li Na's alternative married life can still live so sweetly
, it really feels like there is something unimaginable.
I have not officially seen my in-laws since I got married
This is a reality show for couples to observe, and from the show, you can see what their daily married life looks like.
But after watching a few episodes of the show, everyone found that
Sure enough, Li Na, who is domineering on the field, is also the dominant player in the family.
In the process of getting along with two people, even though they have been married for so long.
Neither of them has yet met formally with each other's parents
This kind of situation really makes many people not understand.
So Xie Na also asked this question on the show, she wanted to know when they will officially meet their parents?
Hearing this question, Li Na actually denied it directly. Jiang Shan also said,
Neither of them introduced each other to their parents.
Such an operation is even more confusing, after all, two people have been married for so long, how come they have never seen each other's parents?
No wonder it is said that the feelings of the two people are pure, after all, in their view,
Getting married is really just a matter for the two of them, and there is no need to notify both parents.
See the surprised expressions of the other couples on the show. Jiang Shan was also very surprised, why did he think everyone was surprised? Maybe they don't think it's a big problem for each other.
But in the eyes of ordinary people, knowing for more than 20 years,
Married for 16 years, both have children, and neither of them has met each other's parents
, it's a little hard to understand.
Is there some origin and story among them that they don't want to mention? The real reason, we don't know.
Modern people have different views on marriage and love
Li Na and Jiang Shan's marriage relationship,
It also makes many people think of papi sauce.
She also has a modern and unique view of marriage and love, in a variety show, she revealed that although she has been married for ten years,
However, the two people went home for the New Year or went back to their respective homes and looked for their mothers.
They go from falling in love to getting married,
Neither parent has met
。 Just when she said this, it caused an uproar on the Internet at the time, not to mention Li Na and Jiang Shan.
This view of marriage makes many people feel strange, but in fact, in addition, the attitude of life they show in the show also makes many people feel surprised.
Li Na said that she never cooked after marriage.
They basically do not cook in their daily lives, even if friends come to the house, they also go out to eat or eat some takeaway.
Moreover, in the program, Li Na said that the two of them actually communicate very little in daily life.
Even at home, they are alone to find a sofa and play with their own mobile phones.
At the end of the day, the two may not be able to say a few words. This mode of getting along made many people not understand, and even other guests at the time thought it was a kind of cold violence.
But Li Na felt that as long as they got married, it would be okay.
Many people feel that since two people have reached such a point where they have nothing to say, why not try to change this state of life?
But this casual and free way of life,
But it makes many young people have a strong sense of identity.
Because life is like this, it is not necessarily the time when everyone will have the desire to talk, the desire to cook, and do what they think in their hearts.
Their way of getting along is indeed different from most couples, and the way of life of the two people is not stacked with some sweet words.
On the contrary, they especially like to hate each other in life.
Especially in the show, the two also talk about each other's shortcomings without a word, and this mode of getting along is actually very interesting and relaxed for them.
Complementary love
Although they have such and such views of marriage and love, and have such an attitude to life that we do not understand, even so, they cannot resist the fact that they have been in love for so many years.
In the show "Wife's Romantic Trip", they always reflect their complementary love from some small things in life.
Saying that having children is a test of whether a couple is truly in love. When she is vulnerable, of course, the wife hopes to be cared for and cared for by her husband.
also
Be able to witness their sweet moments of affection.
But did not expect,
It was a hilarious drama for the two of them.
When Li Na decided whether to take anesthesia, she had not yet spoken, and Jiang Shan said next to her:
She doesn't have to take anesthesia, she can give birth to herself.
When others hear this sentence, they will definitely feel particularly angry,
But Li Na would feel that he understood her very well
, I will also find it very funny.
In fact, the feelings of the two of them are very good, but because of the reasons of personality, the expression is not the same as others.
Plain is really good
Their ordinary life is the true portrayal of their lives.
Li Na, who was once an athlete,
Her personality is relatively strong, and Jiang Shan is very delicate and gentle
Such complementary couples are indeed very comfortable to get along with.
Regardless of whether Li Na has seen her husband's family or not, Jiang Shanshan's family has not reprimanded Li Na, has it?
Such mutual understanding is the best blessing for this couple.
Moreover, the thing of love is originally like a person drinking water, cold and warm self-knowledge.
Independent side by side is a kind of love, that kind of bird-by-person love is also a kind of love, which kind of love you are suitable for, what kind of love is suitable for you, all depend on personal choices.
There is no only standard for love, only what suits you is the best.
No matter what kind of mode of getting along, lifestyle, marriage and love concept, as long as the husband and wife can gladly accept, it can help them better maintain their feelings.
That's enough,
This is a successful love.
After all, every family has the characteristics of each family, and each couple has their own unique mode of getting along.
Instead of pointing fingers at the marriages of others, it is better to live the life in front of you, what do you think?
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