It feels like you've always been focused on self-feelings, and you have your own world to defend. I think your requirements for the object of love will be more specific, for example, you hope that the other party will have a material foundation, you may also hope that the other party is good enough for you, and I also hope that the other party has a greater charm, and I hope that there will be a soul level intersection between you. If you follow this mold to find, I think it may be difficult for you to connect with the right person, you yourself will have shortcomings, how can you ask the other party to be perfect? Probably the person you want doesn't exist at all. If you are already in a relationship, then I think you need to reduce some of the requirements for the other party appropriately, don't end up the other party leaves you don't know why, you can only recall the past alone. I think you believe in soul mates, you have high requirements for love, you have to know how to use intuition, but also to see the reality part, the most important thing is that you have to act yourself, otherwise you have no way to avoid the blind spots in love.
I see that there will be past energy among you, maybe you or the other party has not forgotten the past experience, the feeling is that you can't escape the shadow of the past, some things are over, but the energy does not seem to disappear, you are still trapped in it, it is not necessarily that someone has been pestering you, or there is no clean break between you, but you are unilaterally unwilling to come out, and you have not been able to forget the experience you have had before. This energy may also correspond to the other person's side, which is a pain that you or he cannot forget. I feel like some of my friends have started a new life and started to enter a new relationship, but you can't fully engage, always defensive, you are actually very worried about repeating the same mistakes. I see that when you are with each other, you can't see any problems at all, together is very harmonious, there is no emotion and no contradiction, that is, this calm always makes you feel that there is no sense of reality in love. It feels that the other party's feelings for you are a little different, he doesn't care about you as much as before, and the flower of love may not have opened for long to wither.
I think you need to find self-confidence, once you had the style of a king, I think you had a very confident stage, but now you feel ready in your heart, and when it comes to action, you find that something is still missing. If you don't know how to regain your confidence, don't know how to be your former self, I think you can come to me to talk about it, I will help you restore your energy, I think you can go back to the previous state. Whether it is in the face of love or career, you can take out the courage to move forward, but there are also some friends who show an attitude of not caring, and doing things also feels like an open-minded look, but in fact, the sense of uneasiness in your heart is more and more, and your heart is wavering. There are also some friends in the relationship, I want to remind you that you can see the old energy here, whether you or the other party's ex may appear, or it may be that there is a place in your heart that has been left to the former person, and that regret and loss have not disappeared.
Feeling that something may happen next, you have to see clearly what is happening in front of you, you have to face the person in front of you seriously, perceive it well, don't easily put into trust, you have to see the other party's sincerity first, and be careful to let yourself fall into the scam. If you rush into a relationship, it is likely that you will not be able to avoid the ensuing hurt. Or first go and manage yourself well, become more and more excellent, you can get what belongs to you.