Since ancient times, beautiful women with heroes, and now beautiful women with directors.
There are many well-known directors in the contemporary era, not only brilliant in their careers,
Emotionally, it is also a blessing in disguise, and the wives are beautiful like heavenly immortals.
Speaking of this, I have to mention You Xiaogang, not only has three feelings, all of them are beautiful women, and three women are not simple.
The difference between 30 years and the third girlfriend has made many netizens ridicule "grandfather and grandson matching".
It is undeniable that he is very talented, and the once popular "Secret History of Filial Piety" is from his hand,
As the founding father of costume dramas, his life also has a lot of controversy, what kind of story is there in between?
In 1952, You Xiaogang was born in Nanjing, Jiangsu Province, and was born from birth.
If you look at it according to his birth, then his fate is very good.
He was born into a military family, his father was a military official, and his mother was a middle school teacher who taught and educated people.
Such a rich family background makes him grow up in a honeypot since he was a child, and all the knowledge resources are at hand.
In that era when ordinary people were still worried about food and clothing, he grew up with countless toys.
But just like the plot of the TV series he directed, life is always so unpredictable, and fate is always so impermanent.
Let this originally happy and prosperous family suddenly fall off the altar and fall to pieces.
His father had a problem that shattered the family's good life.
Under such a blow, the family has also reached the point of poverty and destitution.
He lived on the help of his relatives and was often ridiculed by his neighbors.
Every time he heard other people's cool words, he would be very angry and fight with others, and he would not stop until his nose was blue and his face was swollen.
But this did not change their lives, nor did it make everyone shut their mouths, but the more they talked, the more fierce they became.
Later, they had to move away and live with their grandfather.
Grandpa saw that he was always breathless and very grumpy, and in order to dispel his mood, he found him a book to read.
The first book he read was The Sherlock Holmes Detectives, and he was quickly drawn to the book's storyline.
One look is a day, shouting can not shout out, slowly he fell in love with reading.
Grandpa will also meet his requirements for reading books and find him a lot of books to read.
Gradually, he found that as soon as he read the book, he became very calm, no longer grumpy, and he also liked the way he looked when he read the book.
Originally, I wanted to change my fate by studying hard and using knowledge, but due to my father's reasons, I couldn't go to high school.
It didn't take long for him to be assigned to the countryside.
Just arrived in the countryside, the conditions are very bitter, he is not used to it, there is no way, can only find fun from the book.
Every day as long as he has time, he will hold the book to read, which also makes many people look in the eyes, everyone knows that You Xiaogang likes to read.
In addition to reading books, he occasionally writes articles and reads them with his big guys, and everyone says he writes well.
Soon the news reached the ears of the commune secretary and was appreciated by the commune secretary.
When he was 19 years old, he loved to write, and with the encouragement of the secretary of the commune, he applied for the literary troupe.
During the interview, the judges did not want him because of his family lineage, and it was the commune secretary who said good things for him.
In this way, You Xiaogang entered the literary troupe and became a choreographer with a good writing level.
At that time, he was very humble and hardworking.
In addition to the choreographer's work, he did all the chores in the troupe, and sometimes helped the actors write scripts.
Later, by chance, he wrote and directed a drama that won the award.
I naturally became an actor, and this acting was a few years.
After a few years, as he grew older and more experienced, he would often think about how a play should be made.
Slowly he found that the director was more suitable for him than an actor.
At the age of 27, he wrote and directed a work that won the first prize.
It was also this work that made him famous, and by chance, he met his first wife, Tian Ge.
At that time, Tian Ge was young and beautiful, 10 years younger than You Xiaogang, and he was also a director.
The host and actor can be said to be a "talented woman" who combines talents.
Such a talented woman is also very strong in personality.
Although there are many suitors, there are not many who can enter her eyes.
As soon as two people know each other, they have a lot of common topics,
From the discussion of the work to the planning and development of the future, the two chatted happily.
They often ask each other for professional knowledge in filming, and after many contacts, they are becoming more and more familiar.
There was also an unspeakable affection between the two, and it wasn't long before they were together.
The newlywed couple are sweet, and You Xiaogang also takes care of Tian Ge in every way, pampers her, and listens to her in everything.
This also makes Tian Ge, who has a strong personality, even more powerful.
Slowly past the new marriage period, there will be occasional discord between the two,
But when You Xiaogang faced his strong wife, most of the time he dared to be angry and did not dare to speak.
With the rapid development of his career, You Xiaogang's fame also grew, and Tian Ge began to feel insecure.
The husband's fame is great, and he is always afraid that some "flower butterflies" will automatically fly to his husband's side.
In this state of mind, when You Xiaogang was filming "Kyoto Chronicles",
Tian Ge ran to the crew at two ends for three days, saying that it was a visiting class, but it was actually surveillance.
Once he found a hint, he accused You Xiaogang in front of everyone to declare his sovereignty.
Such an approach made It really difficult for You Xiaogang to accept, and for the first time he had the idea of divorcing Tian Ge.
Although they have been married for many years, they have not had children because both of them have developed careers.
Just during the filming of this play, an actress came into his sight.
She is Wu Qianqian, a Hangzhou beauty,
Born with a pair of big eyes that are tender like water, he has the gentle temperament of a Jiangnan woman.
Looking very gentle and gentle, when he thought of the "mother night fork" at home, the balance in You Xiaogang's heart instantly tilted.
You Xiaogang, who has Wu Qianqian in his heart, has no intention of going home at all, and occasionally returns home, which also ends in a quarrel.
Seeing that her husband seemed to have lost interest in himself, Tian Ge thought of using the child to keep it.
But at this time, You Xiaogang was already completely fascinated by Wu Qianqian,
Even his wife Tian Ge took it to him to bear a child, but to no avail.
After a fierce quarrel, You Xiaogang gave it all up and wanted to divorce Tian Ge without hesitation.
After ending their ten-year marriage, they plunged headlong into Wu Qianqian's gentle township.
Because of her identity as a director, she also has immeasurable help to Wu Qianqian's career.
You Xiaogang soon ushered in his second marriage.
Compared with Tian Ge, Wu Qianqian is more empathetic, gentle and lovely, speaking softly and softly, and the pear blossom brings rain if she is not careful.
This made You Xiaogang arouse a strong desire to protect her.
It is also The ideal type of You Xiaogang, the image of the wife of dreams.
Life after marriage is naturally very sweet, and in the following years, Wu Qianqian has also become You Xiaogang's royal heroine.
The two were inseparable all day, and for a time the title of "model couple" followed.
The two also swore that they would never abandon each other for the rest of their lives, and they would grow old.
Wu Qianqian, who understands You Xiaogang's last relationship, understands in her heart that the husband and wife love each other again,
Not having children is also the biggest regret of a lifetime.
She offered to give You Xiaogang a child, but the world was unpredictable, and the two were looking forward to a happy life for a family of three.
Wu Qianqian was found to have physical problems and was not suitable for having children.
This made the two of them feel like a thunderbolt on a sunny day, both sad and regretful.
They have nothing to do, and they can only hide this regret in their hearts.
Perhaps this incident also made the relationship between the two people have an unspeakable gap.
A talented director, there are naturally many "warblers and swallows" around him.
In the filming again, there is a beautiful woman Dai Jiaoqian, who is very much valued by You Xiaogang.
Subsequently, the two had a close relationship, and because they were many years younger than Yu Xiaogang, they recognized him as "dry daddy".
This also allowed Dai Jiaoqian to get the role of the heroine of many plays, and at the same time, the two also spread a lot of gossip.
Wu Qianqian saw more and more "flower butterflies" around her husband, and her heart was very anxious.
But there was nothing she could do, not even to give him a child.
Wu Qianqian, who knows that she has no way to keep You Xiaogang, can only treat her husband more gently, hoping that her husband will not abandon her.
However, Wu Qianqian, who was once young and beautiful, and who was as tender as water, is now tasteless in You Xiaogang's eyes.
At the same time, You Xiaogang, who is filming "The Secret History of Xi Shi", met the actress Zhou Tingyi, who is 30 years younger than himself.
Her appearance is somewhat similar to Wu Qianqian 20 years ago.
The same tenderness is like water, what fascinates him even more is the worship and dependence of this big beauty on herself,
It made him feel a sense of accomplishment like never before.
Even if wu Qianqian, who was once a good country, has already exhausted the red face and old age,
How to compare to Zhou Tingyi, who is just in bloom.
In the face of her husband's determination, Wu Qianqian is powerless, and their marriage relationship has reached the point of extinction in name only.
Until 2015, You Xiaogang and Wu Qianqian officially divorced, hindered by the pressure of public opinion.
They didn't marry Miss Zhou right away, but they both wore the same ring.
The works of this great director who are not shallow are also getting less and less,
At this time, he was 70 years old, and he had reached the age of ancient rarity.
Still alone, without children,
I don't know if he will be old enough to make up for his regrets?