21 O, "Kan Kan", "Tread", "Hesitate" - speech is not only divided into occasions, but also depends on the object. The Analects of the Township Party, 10-2. （2022/03/17）
【Comment】 Chao, with the lower doctor, Kan Kan (kǎnkǎn speaks straight, not humble, gentle and happy) Ru ye; with the Upper Doctor, yín yín is upright, and can be blunt and eloquent) Ru Ye. Junzai, Ruye (cù jí respectful and uneasy) Ruye, and Ruye (cautious and moderately authoritative).
【Study】 Students record the attitude of the master in his speech at the imperial court: calm, relaxed, slow, and clear to the subordinates; the attitude toward the superiors is kind, respectful, and obedient; the monarch is cautious and solemn in the presence of the monarch, although sincere and fearful, but the manners are moderate.
Isn't it a bit of "united, tense, serious, lively"? This shows that the Master is a man of courtesy at every turn. This is also a kind of advocacy, true etiquette, the most important thing is to be sincere in the heart, to interact with people with heartfelt emotions.
And what we see more in life is: speaking to subordinates with nostrils up, pretending, and being arrogant; not daring to come out of the atmosphere toward superiors, bowing down, flattering and flattering; and even more trembling in front of the king, scared and.
[sic] Chao, and the lower doctor, Kan Kan Ruye; with the upper doctor, The Shang Dafu said, and the Shangdafu said, and the Shangdafu said, and the Shangdafu was also spoken. Jun is there, hesitating as well, and with ruye.