A person can be quiet in three situations, indicating that the state of mind is very high
Peace and quietness are the qualities of a wise man in dealing with others. In a noisy society, maintaining a calm mind and being cautious in words and deeds can often help people avoid many disputes between right and wrong and gain true inner peace.
A cultivated person will keep quiet in the following three situations, not entangled in his tongue, and resolve the incident with a peaceful state of mind.
First, keep quiet when you know someone else's privacy
The most precious thing in the world is not gold and silver treasures, but sincere friendship. It is a great blessing in life that friends can support and encourage each other. However, friendship is built on mutual trust and requires both parties to keep their mouths shut and never pass on each other's privacy.
A person of character will be careful to keep the privacy of his friends when he knows them. He will not use his friends' deeds as after-dinner conversations, nor will he regard his friends' privacy as eye-catching capital.
No matter how sensational the news is, as long as it involves the privacy of his friends, he will keep his mouth shut and say nothing.
Because one's privacy is like one's inner courtyard, which only oneself and those closest to you can enter. If privacy is spied on by others, it is like being stripped of the clothes of the body, making people shy and embarrassed.
Therefore, a person of character will respect the privacy of others, even if he knows the roots, he will keep his mouth shut, and will never pass on half a word. This shows a person's connotation and character, with static braking, and retreat as advance.
Second, when life is at a low point, remain silent
Life is like an unknown voyage, and it is impossible to be calm forever. Occasional storms are unavoidable. A cultivated person, when encountering headwinds and setbacks in life, will not complain loudly about the injustice of fate, but remain silent and focus on how to turn danger into a disaster.
Because he knows that complaining and complaining will not change the status quo, and will only passively accept the mercy of fate. On the contrary, only by maintaining inner stability and calmness can we take the initiative to control the direction of life and overcome one obstacle after another.
No matter how difficult the external environment is, keep the inner peace and calm. Face the hardships with a positive and optimistic attitude, cherish the present with a grateful attitude, work hard every day, and believe that the dawn is ahead.
Third, keep a low profile when you are proud, and don't talk about it.
As the saying goes, "Blessings are incomparable, but disasters are not singular." A wise person, when life is smooth and career is successful, will not be complacent, let alone talk about his achievements, causing strange eyes or jealousy from those around him.
Real achievements do not need to be boasted and proven by words, inner satisfaction is enough. A visionary person will maintain a humble and low-key mentality, and focus more on further improving themselves, rather than indulging in momentary joy.
Because he understands that every effort and struggle is for the next greater leap. Only by always maintaining a modest and cautious mentality and constantly improving oneself can we go further and further on the road to success.
In life, it is a manifestation of a high state of mind to be able to maintain a peaceful and quiet state of mind and avoid being swayed by the external environment.
A person with foresight and determination will keep silent when he knows the privacy of others, calm and calm when he is at a great time in life, keep a low profile when he is successful, and use his inner stability to resolve the external hustle and bustle. This attitude of seeing great wisdom in silence enables people to cope with all kinds of ups and downs calmly, and finally achieve balance and happiness in life.
