A super big misunderstanding about Cancer is the Gu family, and then many people think that Cancer is very homely, all day around the housework. But the real situation is not at all, because the Cancer family refers to the family who cares very much, which is also their bottom line.
As a sign that is very insecure, Cancer tends to be very careful and thinks twice before making a decision. This is also the reason why many people think that Cancer is a good bully. But most Cancers are more assertive, and what they need is recognition from others.
Empathy may be common to most Cancers, and they can have a good judgment of other people's moods, ideas, and personalities. This is different from the critical examination of Capricorns, who judge the mood swings of the other person through their emotions and demeanor. They pay more attention to the changes within each other.
People who boast of Cancer are usually attracted to their outward personality image. The most familiar praise that Cancerians have heard from childhood to adulthood may be good personality, of course, those Cancers who have a ceiling level do not need this kind of praise. Therefore, most Cancers are polite to the upper and caring for the lower, and they have been good children in the eyes of teachers since childhood, and they are also good comrades who have eyesight in the eyes of leaders when they grow up. But every Cancer will admit that they have some dark side.
Cancer seems to be the yardstick for low-end humans
Why, if a person hates you even as a Cancer, you may have a really big, big problem. After all, in Cancer's view, everyone has advantages, and you can make them hate, or you step on their bottom line, that is, their family and close friends. Either you're really having a problem with the person.
In fact, Cancer's own temper is also average, but they really don't want everyone to be very stiff. Some things get by and don't care. If they tell you very bluntly that they hate you, then basically there aren't many people around who can see you, and you should consider a different environment.
Cancer's violent temper
It's hard for anyone to think that someone as gentle as Cancer isn't actually very good-tempered. Yes, Cancer's temper is indeed not so gentle, especially when they are mad, it is really not close to people, so as not to be injured by mistake.
Cancer, who is hot on the outside and cold on the inside, is often not as friendly as others think. The innate sense of alienation keeps most Cancers at an inexplicable sense of distance from others. It's hard for you to get close, and it's hard for Cancer to get close. So it's normal that their temper usually doesn't hit your head.
Don't compare to Cancer
Cancers are good, kind and pure at heart, but that doesn't stop them from quickly turning into a scumbag/woman who makes you feel frightened. Painting big cakes, cold violence, raising spare tires, stealing people, pretending to be affectionate, irresponsible, etc., only you can't think of it without Cancer.
But how to say it, Cancer will not be easy to slag, but slag is slag to the end. Some people think that Cancer has a thief's heart and no thief's guts, then I congratulate you, if they have the guts and hearts, you probably won't survive the ending song of the next episode.
Likes to listen to good words
Very good coaxing, many people think that Cancer has no temper, in fact, they are only like this to people who care. You don't have to coax yourself, after a while you will be fine, only those who make Cancer head do not want to go back will be left to the side as air.
Cancer eats soft and does not eat hard, you talk to them well, there is nothing unclear, but if you want to use a tough attitude to make them submit, most Cancers will not obediently obey.
Even sometimes when you have a bad attitude, Cancer will just turn around and leave. Turn on cold war mode, this time to immediately surrender, do not let them be infected by this emotion, otherwise you need to work hard to get them to re-interest in you.
It should be emphasized here that Cancer hates the Cold War, often injuring a thousand enemies and losing a thousand and two. But when it comes to the end, they will still choose the Cold War, don't ask why, ask them that damn self-esteem. The same thing Capricorn and Scorpio can do, but these two constellations value the cost performance and will not be too excessive, and Cancer even if there is a breath, it must fight to the end.
Cancer needs favoritism
Whether it is friendship or love, what Cancer wants most is the preference from the other party, and that blatant preference is something that Cancer cannot resist. What they need in love is that kind of very simple preference, the co-driver only allows him to do it, and the birthday is only spent with her.
The Cancer in friendship is actually more picky, what he needs is the friendship between two people, once a third person enters, Cancer is likely to be the one who is separated, and once separated, basically will not be integrated.
What's more, there are some Cancers themselves who are not very sociable, so once their only or only friends are snatched away by others, Cancer will fall into a very big panic and uneasiness. It can even go so far as to wreak havoc on other people's relationships.
Detail magnifier
A lot of little things are magnified here in Cancer. Then these magnified details affect Cancer's mood, and when you find that Cancer is unhappy or has mood swings, it's usually affected by the details. So remind those who have a heart for Cancer, take care of their little emotions, and you'll do more with less.
Most Cancers like to think wildly, but they are not as crazy as Aquarius, and they are not a very practice-oriented zodiac sign, just think about it. Of course, many people don't actually know cancer because they just want not to do it.
In fact, Cancer is not afraid of being misunderstood, they are afraid of people they care about misunderstanding themselves. Especially in front of people who like it, Cancer is basically the type of brain disease.
Self-reliance is the last word
Most Cancers only believe in themselves, and they feel that it is better to rely on others than to rely on themselves. To rely on oneself is to rely on one's own abilities, so many Cancers are actually very hard working. Like a very industrious little bee, tirelessly accumulating for itself.
They rarely rely on others, and more often they will carry some alone and silently, and then tell everyone with a smile that I can do it. Many Cancerians who have achieved all kinds of freedom have climbed up from the bottom step by step, even if it is sometimes difficult, but they still will not give up.
Say the most rational words and do the most emotional things
Rationality stems from their knowledge of themselves, and sensibility is the undisguised character of the real Cancer. For example, they know that it is wrong to do this, but they just want to do it, so it is right to do it. Their rationality exists in the face of sensibility, but seems useless.
Probably most people now know why Cancer is so calm when they make a mistake, because they know they're wrong from the start. But they still do it, so there are two kinds of results, one is to swallow the bitter fruit, and the other is to be lucky, no matter what kind of result they know. So there wasn't that much remorse, and there weren't so many tears.
Claims about Cancer
Emotional, pessimistic, empathetic, empathetic, empathetic are all true, but less obvious. Especially emotional and pessimistic, Cancer women tend to be more emotional, but less pessimistic. Cancer men have better emotional control than girls, but tend to be overly pessimistic.
Double standard and ambition, these two points vary from person to person. According to my observation, Cancer with strong personal ability is more likely to be double-standard, and the ability to speak here refers to the ability to learn and the ability to create value in society. Ambition is often a sign of a Cancer's maturity, and the more mature Cancer, the more purposeful, this goal is not necessarily in the career, but may also be some goals in life.
Home and stuffy, these two points so far I do not agree much with. The house itself is not a Cancer trait, but a very small part of Cancer's self-closure has no universal significance. Stuffy, in fact, it is not as serious as everyone thinks, acquaintances in front of the mode of talk, the correct way to open can also poke a hole in the sky.