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The persistence of adults should rise from the point of view to personality, and these three concepts are particularly important.
At least half of your charm has to do with it.
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clean
The value of mountains is not in the peaks and peaks, but in the geographical location;
The importance of water is not that it is deep, but that it contains all things;
The quality of a person does not lie in the class of birth, but in the cleanliness of the soul.
Talking cleanly is the best cultivation.
A cultured person often talks cleanly, and will always worry about the emotions of others before speaking, and will not embarrass the other party.
Speaking well is responsible for the emotions of others, but also responsible for their own words and deeds.
A person who talks cleanly naturally has an extraordinary temperament, always understands the hearts of others, and cultivates an intellectual atmosphere.
Clean character is the best reputation.
We always have inner perseverance, we always have the concept of not giving up and not giving up.
Even if the road ahead is vast, we must light a lamp in our hearts, grope in the dark, and move forward, and we will always meet the light that belongs to us.
Strive to be a person of clean character and spare no effort to move forward. People with good character are always the sunshine in life and the rain and dew in life.
A clean soul is the best practice.
Chekhov once said, "Everything about man should be clean, whether it is a face, a garment, a heart, a mind." ”
Clean, more importantly, both inside and outside, the unity of knowledge and action, and the sudden enlightenment of self in a complex world.
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self-discipline
Self-discipline is the cure for all confusion.
The biggest gap between people lies in self-discipline
There is a sentence in "The Road That Few People Take": "The so-called self-discipline is an important principle to solve the pain of life with a positive and active attitude." ”
Many of life's sufferings are not natural disasters that cannot be fought, but small obstacles that can be solved, moved, and changed.
If you always live passively, the days will not change at all, and after a year you are still the original you, but you are one year old, and the pain is still painful.
But when you are proactive in solving problems, the pain will become a small grain of sand in the pearl mussel, and one day, it will shine brightly and whisk away a sleeve of dust.
Long-term self-discipline in exchange for the achievement of getting brighter and brighter day by day and year by year. If you cannot bear the suffering of self-discipline, you will suffer the sin of mediocrity.
Self-discipline, there are no shortcuts
American psychologist Clark once said: The early stage of self-discipline is excitement, the middle stage is pain, the later stage is enjoyment, when you begin to enjoy self-discipline, you will find that life is less frustrated and confused.
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Cooked without overstepping
Don't overdraft your relationship with anyone.
Recently saw a sentence like this:
"Never put friendship on an incredible level, some friends are people who bring good things to themselves at a stage, enjoying each other without being tied to each other." 」
Yes, overestimating a relationship too much, to overdraft without a bottom line, in exchange for a painful lesson.
All your overdrafts today have already been secretly marked with a price tag.
When getting along with friends, they think that friends should understand themselves, so they never care about each other's feelings when they talk and do things;
When getting along with relatives, they feel that human feelings are better than everything, and they increase their demands and take advantage of others with righteousness;
When getting along with a lover, I mistakenly think that feelings are unconditional accommodation, so I never listen to the voice of the other party...
As everyone knows, while a person overdrafts others, he is also overdrawing himself.
Therefore, in order to maintain a good relationship, a sense of proportion is crucial. Familiarity is the best way to maintain a relationship.
In the final analysis, no one in life owes anyone, as long as they know how to cherish and be grateful, it is the longest way to get along.