Editor / Little Love Letter
"He was an indispensable person throughout my life"
When recalling her last marriage, Hang Tianqi, the queen of the Northwest Song, described her ex-husband Zhang Zemin in this way.
When the two people got married, almost all the people in the outside world were not optimistic about this marriage, after all, Zhang Zemin was more than ten years older than Hang Tianqi, plus Hang Tianqi had just gone to college at that time, and the parents at home were all unanimously opposed.
But the two men still got married by the impulse of their youth.
As a result, three years after marriage, this incomparably sweet relationship at the beginning finally ended with Zhang Zemin's cheating.
Hang Tianqi left with a special determination, although the divorce was first proposed by Zhang Zemin, but in the relationship she is definitely a woman who can't rub sand in her eyes.
Regardless of whether Hang Tianqi is busy with her career and neglecting to take care of her family, Zhang Zemin's derailment is already a foregone conclusion.
For Zhang Zemin, he has always been ashamed of Hang Tianqi.
But many years later, when Zhang Zemin was seriously ill, Hang Tianqi, as an ex-wife, was busy with him.
01
When Zhang Zemin met Hang Tianqi, he was already a mature music producer, but Hang Tianqi was still a pure college student.
Because of the common topic of music, coupled with the charm of a mature man in Zhang Zemin, the two soon fell in love.
Even the nearly twenty-year-old age difference did not stop the two from falling in love.
At the beginning of a relationship, it is romantic and sweet after all, and in the face of this innocent little girl who is more than ten years younger than himself, Zhang Zemin naturally puts her in the palm of his hand like a treasure.
But love is a matter of two people, marriage is a matter of two families, after talking for a while Zhang Zemin also wants to settle down with Hang Tianqi, but Hang Tianqi's parents have always been very opposed.
On the one hand, I feel that Zhang Zemin is too old, and the age difference between the two people who are nearly twenty years old is almost two generations.
On the other hand, Hang Tianqi is still too young, plus her parents are more traditional, so for this love of too big an age gap, first of all, it is impossible to pass the pass of the woman's parents.
In order to hide from their parents, the two can only carry out an "underground romance", so that the "invisible" love will make the feelings of the two people heat up rapidly.
Sneaking to talk about love is really too exciting, although for Zhang Zemin, Hang Tianqi is not his first love, but Zhang Zemin is indeed the first time to talk about such a young girlfriend, for this relationship he is also very precious.
Therefore, he incarnated as an affectionate male protagonist, and he had to wait until the day when Hang Tianqi could open his relationship with the two.
Later, Hang Tianqi became famous overnight with a song "The Hometown of My Love", and she finally achieved certain results, and Zhang Zemin also thought that it was time for the two to talk openly about marriage.
However, Hang Tianqi's parents always held an opposing opinion, no matter how Hang Tianqi said good things for Zhang Zemin, her parents just did not agree to the marriage between the two, forcing Zhang Zemin to even plan to elope with Hang Tianqi.
Seeing that her daughter was so dead set on Zhang Zemin, the parents were helpless, and finally they could only agree to the marriage between the two.
But marriages that are not blessed by their parents most of the time do not go to the end, and even though it may begin to be very beautiful and romantic, everything in front of you may be as brilliant as fireworks but a short-lived bubble.
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Although Zhang Zemin is a music producer, his fame is certainly not as great as that of Hang Tianqi, the queen of the Northwest Song, and sooner or later there will be problems in this relationship between strong women and weak men.
In the past few years after becoming famous, Hang Tianqi has almost devoted herself to her career, participating in major programs and business performances, and establishing art schools to help more children with musical dreams learn music.
She makes money everywhere and performs everywhere, but only forgets the man who has been silently supporting her behind her back, Zhang Zemin.
It was not until 1994 that Zhang Zemin finally married Hang Tianqi, and soon after the marriage, Hang Tianqi became pregnant and gave birth to a daughter.
Although for the sake of her family, Hang Tianqi has slowly faded out of the music scene and no longer appears on the stage, but she still has to take care of the industry behind her, including her own school and the KTV she invested in.
Watching Zhang Zemin's career flourish, Hang Tianqi taking care of the family, everything is developing in the best direction.
But one day, the accident happened.
Zhang Zemin has been engaged in the work of a music producer, and the people around him are even more diverse, on the one hand, the temptation of work, on the other hand, the negligence of his wife.
No matter how sweet it was when you were in love before, after getting married for a long time, your feelings faded, zhang Zemin gradually lost himself.
Zhang Zemin spent more and more time socializing to the later night, hang Tianqi always lied to himself that her husband was just busy with his career.
However, one day in 1997, she still found out the truth of the facts, Zhang Zemin cheated, and the object of the cheating was a building in front of the neighborhood where she lived.
After being discovered by Hang Tianqi, Zhang Zemin woke up like a dream.
It turned out how much they loved each other, but why did they come to this point.
Hang Tianqi's daughter
He knew that he was ashamed of Hang Tianqi and his daughter, so in the face of Hang Tianqi, who was devastated, Zhang Zemin proposed a divorce.
Zhang Zemin knows that his lover Hang Tianqi has always been a person who dares to love and dare to hate, and even more a woman who can't rub sand in her eyes, he promised Hang Tianqi to accompany her through this life but broke her promise halfway.
Even if he hadn't filed for divorce at that time, Hang Tianqi wouldn't have suffered all this silently.
So the three-year marriage between the two ended with Zhang Zemin's infidelity.
Hang Tianqi took his daughter to find a new life abroad, and Zhang Zemin also thought that he would not get Hang Tianqi's forgiveness in this life...
03
As the saying goes, "The heavenly path is good and the heavens have spared no one", maybe it is karma, Zhang Zemin actually fell seriously ill.
Diabetes caused him to have poor vision all the time, and he was bedridden for a while.
However, what Zhang Zemin did not expect was that his ex-wife Hang Tianqi heard the news and actually took the initiative to come back to take care of him who was seriously ill, and even helped him find a doctor after being busy.
For Hang Tianqi, he had always been full of guilt, but he could never have imagined that the woman who should have hated him to the bone would help him when he needed help the most.
In fact, after Hang Tianqi divorced Zhang Zemin, she would take Zhang Zemin's parents to her home for the New Year every year, and later when Zhang Zemin was ill, she also took Zhang Zemin to the family to take care of it, until Zhang Zemin's body slowly recovered.
For Zhang Zemin, the woman he owed the most in his life was Hang Tianqi, and the Sea Oath Mountain Alliance when he was in love said so well, but as a result, he was deeper and deeper flawed in the gentle township, and personally broke the promise to Hang Tianqi at that time.
No matter how much he regretted it afterwards, the fact of the infidelity had been formed, and there was no reason to justify him.
Zhang Zemin's cheating not only hurt Hang Tianqi, but also directly hurt his daughter, who was only a few years old when the two divorced.
The daughter has not had the company and care of her father since she was a child, and Hang Tianqi has also fallen into a low point in her life because of divorce.
For the daughter is even more neglectful to take care of, coupled with the later busy love and work, the care for the daughter is even less.
Without the company of her father and the love of her mother, Hang Tianqi formed a new family and gave birth to a young son, and the family loved this daughter even less.
Although Zhang Zemin did bring indelible harm to his ex-wife and daughter.
But for Hang Tianqi, Zhang Zemin is an indispensable figure in her life, after all, when the two people first entered the marriage hall, they were also very happy.
The failure of the marriage that year, Zhang Zemin had unshirkable mistakes, and Hang Tianqi also had certain responsibilities.
In Hang Tianqi's entire artistic path and life path, Zhang Zemin also played a very important role.
The girl in college met the romantic musical talent, such love itself is enviable, and Zhang Zemin at that time was also desperate to let Hang Tianqi be as good as he could be.
Perhaps the last impulse Zhang Zemin had when he was young gave it all to Hang Tianqi.
Now Zhang Zemin's health has also recovered, although Hang Tianqi has been taking care of him during his serious illness, but since his illness has recovered, the two people have not had much contact.
Coupled with the fact that Hang Tianqi has now formed a new family, what Zhang Zemin can do is not to contact or disturb.
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After many years of divorce, Zhang Zemin was cured of his illness with the help of Hang Tianqi, but after his body recovered, Hang Tianqi found his own happiness again.
In the short days of getting along after the divorce, perhaps Zhang Zemin and Hang Tianqi have the opportunity to reunite.
But the thorn of betrayal is always between the two, and as long as it gets close, it will stab the other.
Maybe no one on both sides is willing to take a step forward, so that the words that come to the lips cannot be spoken, just like the song written by Lin Junjie, but unfortunately there is no if.
There are many kinds of very good assumptions, but unfortunately there is no if in the world, some people can only miss it, and some people are destined to worry about it with guilt for a lifetime.
When he was young, he was always young and vigorous, and once some things happened, he would never look back, just like Zhang Zemin's derailment, Hang Tianqi did not give a chance to forgive, and Zhang Zemin did not leave any room for himself.
After the divorce, even if you still think about each other, eventually this feeling will be buried deep in your heart or disappear with the wind over time.
If life is only like the first sight, everything at first sight is sweet and beautiful, but it is a pity that people will not remain unchanged, and some things in the world are not human.
Just like Zhang Zemin's marriage with Hang Tianqi, if Hang Tianqi cared more about Zhang Zemin at that time, everything would not have happened later.
If Zhang Zemin resists the temptation, the subsequent tragedy will not happen, the marriage is still a marriage of two people after all, no matter how they leave in the end, the responsibility is ultimately borne by two people.