After Jackie Chan cheated on Wu Qili, he said the famous scumbag quote in front of the media: "I just made a mistake that many men will make." ”
And after Feng Xiaogang abandoned his ex-wife, he also did not hide his affection: "I feel particularly wronged by my ex-wife, but I just like the new and hate the old." ”
The implication is that while I know that my actions have hurt my ex-wife, it is my nature as a man to like the new and dislike the old.
Jackie Chan and Feng Xiaogang's remarks are the same.
Later, Lin Fengjiao "did not abandon Jackie Chan", and Jackie Chan maintained various ambiguities with female stars and enjoyed the blessings of Qi people.
Feng Xiaogang's ex-wife Zhang Di did not quarrel or make a fuss after Feng Xiaogang cheated on him and dragged him out for 6 years before letting him go, and Xu Fan should also be like a fish in the throat.
This can make Deng Chao not appear in his own movies for 11 years, and his talent and status in the entertainment industry should not be underestimated.
Perhaps, this is the biggest magic weapon for this unassuming man to attract women.
01
Feng Xiaogang and his ex-wife Zhang Di met at the end of the day, when Feng Xiaogang was not a famous director who later became famous in the entertainment industry, but only a cultural propagandist of a trade union.
Feng Xiaogang grew up poor, "Feng Snot" and "Hutong Skewers", these are the nicknames that the small partners gave feng Xiaogang.
At that time, Feng Xiaogang must have been humiliated in his heart, so he would try his best to jump out of the original circle and complete the class crossing later.
Compared with Feng Xiaogang, who only has a high school education, Zhang Di is a veritable college student, and after graduation, she went to the hospital to become a nurse.
After being introduced, Zhang Di met Feng Xiaogang.
After Feng Xiaogang first saw Zhang Di, his heart fluttered and he began to pursue her fiercely.
When she was young, Zhang Di was young and beautiful, with fair skin, tall and tall, and looked very quiet.
At that time, Feng Xiaogang's conditions were not prominent, his career was general, and he looked even more unusual, with a thin body, a sharp-billed monkey cheek, and a mouth of teeth that were even more uneven, and how to look like a malnourished look.
But Feng Xiaogang has a characteristic, he will come to things, and his mouth is also sweet.
Feng Xiaogang relied on this advantage and the little talent on his body to capture Zhang Di's heart soon after.
These characteristics of Feng Xiaogang not only allowed him to harvest love, but also allowed him to successfully open the door of his career.
Later, he relied on sneaking behind Wang Shuo and patting his horse, and after many years of being a younger brother, he finally broke into the Beijing circle.
For her daughter and Feng Xiaogang to fall in love, Zhang Di's parents are very opposed, feeling that people in the cultural circle are unreliable.
But even if his parents obstructed him in every way, Zhang Di's heart had already all poured into Feng Xiaogang.
Despite her parents' objections, Zhang Diyi married Feng Xiaogang without hesitation.
It's just how determined Zhang Di was at that time, and how remorseful she was many years later.
02
After getting married, Zhang Di and Feng Xiaogang rented a simple house of only 40 square meters.
Not only does he not have a house of his own, let alone a wedding.
According to today's words, Zhang Di and Feng Xiaogang were almost naked, and there was nothing to do.
But with the feeling of drinking water, Zhang Di not only did not complain about all this, but also enjoyed it.
However, Zhang Di was willing to be bland, but Feng Xiaogang was not.
Feng Xiaogang has never hidden his heart of fame and fortune.
He longed for fame and fortune, envied the powerful, and longed to enter their world.
Therefore, when he hooked up with Wang Shuo through various relationships, Wang Shuo was simply a nobleman with golden light in his eyes.
People like Wang Shuo have always been the object of Feng Xiaogang's envy from childhood to adulthood.
Unlike the chaotic hutongs he grew up in, Wang Shuo grew up as the president of the Beijing Military Region, with a high status and wide connections.
When Wang Shuo became famous in the industry with "Longing", Feng Xiaogang had just completed the transformation from art assistant to art designer.
Therefore, when the two people met, regardless of identity or social status, they were quite different.
Feng Xiaogang was a little brother in front of Wang Shuo.
Relying on being a younger brother for many years after saddle up behind Wang Shuo, Feng Xiao had just slowly received Wang Shuo's promotion.
In 1991, under the promotion of Wang Shuo, Feng Xiaogang became the screenwriter of "The Story of the Editorial Department".
Along with Feng Xiaogang, he served as the screenwriter of "The Story of the Editorial Department", as well as Wang Shuo and Ma Weidu.
Feng Xiaogang finally relied on his talent and hard work to get the recognition of the big guys in the Beijing circle.
However, compared with the smoothness of his career, the birth of his daughter Feng Siyu has added a layer of gloom to his heart.
Originally, the birth of her daughter was a happy thing, but her daughter suffered from congenital cleft lip and palate.
Zhang Di was exhausted by her daughter's illness, and Feng Xiaogang worked more busily in order to get enough money for her daughter's surgery as soon as possible.
Whenever he returned home, every time he faced his daughter's crying, Feng Xiaogang was irritable, and the quarrel with Zhang Di was also increasing.
Later, although the daughter was cured of surgery, this year or so also brought the couple into a period of burnout.
Slowly, Feng Xiaogang got tired of married life and tired of Zhang Di.
The beauty of the original love has disappeared step by step.
Feng Xiaogang became more and more impatient with Zhang Di, focusing almost all his attention on work and often not going home.
Zhang Di on the other side not only has to take care of her young daughter, but also takes care of her mother-in-law who is sick and paralyzed in bed, which occupies almost all of her mental strength.
Feng Xiaogang and Zhang Di, one went all out to the cause, the other put the body and mind at home, and the two careers have been separated unconsciously.
Zhang Di's ending, from then on, has long been doomed.
03
In 1991, it was the beginning of the fate of Feng Xiaogang and Xu Fan.
In the movie "The Great Satan", Feng Xiaogang is the screenwriter, and Xu Fan is the heroine, playing on the same stage with Ge You.
At that time, Feng Xiaogang was watching the sample film in the studio, and while looking at the sample film, he said to Ge You without hesitation: "The film is good, but this actress is not well chosen." ”
At that time, Xu Fan just stood next to him.
For Feng Xiaogang's evaluation, Xu Fan was very dismissive in his heart, and felt that this man's length was so ugly that he was interested in evaluating me.
Compared with the impression of Xu Fan in the movie, Feng Xiaogang saw Xu Fan for the first time, but he felt that this woman was very beautiful and was thrilled.
It's just that Xu Fan had a boyfriend at that time, or the famous shadow emperor Zhiwen.
So even though his heart was throbbing again, Feng Xiaogang still suppressed this throbbing.
Later, Xu Fan had a scandal with director Tian Zhuangzhuang in the crew, so after a big fight with Wang Zhiwen, the two shot and scattered.
Feng Xiaogang and Xu Fan intersected again in 1993.
I don't know if Feng Xiaogang was obsessed with Xu Fan, once Feng Xiaogang suddenly dialed the phone of Xu Fan's dormitory on a whim.
Coincidentally, Xu Fan happened to be there that day, and the phone just happened to be not busy, and this call was received by Xu Fan very smoothly.
Later, Feng Xiaogang called this "Providence".
That day Xu Fan came out and had a meal with Feng Xiaogang, and he came and went to become friends.
At that time, Feng Xiaogang's mind was obviously not simple.
At that time, Xu Fan had just experienced the pain of breaking up with Wang Zhiwen, and Feng Xiaogang's booing and warm and gentle consideration made her slowly fall in love with Feng Xiaogang.
Later, Xu Fan commented on Feng Xiaogang: "He adopted my soul... He was my benefactor for the rest of my life. ”
Being able to say these words was enough to see how deep Xu Fan's love for Feng Xiaogang was.
Especially with the success of Feng Xiaogang, this love will only get deeper and deeper.
Xu Fan's love here has been unable to extricate himself, but this love is destined to hurt another woman.
04
After the two were together, Feng Xiaogang quickly went back to a showdown with his wife Zhang Di: "I have someone outside, let's get a divorce." ”
When Zhang Di heard the news, there was no doubt that the sunny day was thunderous.
But Zhang Di is also very personal, not noisy or noisy, Feng Xiaogang will listen to what he says, but what to do and how to do it, all depends on his own will.
Although she had already learned about the relationship between her husband and Xu Fan through the news, she still had a slight illusion in her heart.
She was gambling on her husband's sense of responsibility and the weight of this family in Feng Xiaogang's heart.
If this is a gamble, Zhang Di is doomed to lose completely.
In the face of Feng Xiaogang's divorce request, Zhang Di did not agree immediately, only saying that she would talk about this topic when her daughter grew up.
Zhang Di wants to "drag" the way to save this marriage.
At that time, she was still fantasizing, maybe men were just trying to be fresh for a while, and when they got tired of playing, they would return to the family.
This delay lasted for six or seven years.
During this period, feng Xiaogang and Zhang Di's marriage survived in name only.
On the contrary, Feng Xiaogang and Xu Fan flew in pairs and lived a life like a god and a companion.
And the marriage of Feng Xiaogang and Zhang Di has also become a thorn in Xu Fan's heart.
It was not until 1999 that Zhang Di could not keep Feng Xiaogang, so she agreed to a divorce by agreement and left the scene.
With Zhang Di's withdrawal, Xu Fan finally survived in this relationship and became Feng Xiaogang's righteous wife.
At that time, Feng Xiaogang's identity was different from before, and he was already a well-known director in the entertainment industry.
In recent years, he has participated in directing film and television dramas such as "Beijingers in New York", "Never Lose My Love", "Love Death", "Chicken Feathers in a Place", "Father and Son of a Wronged Family", "The Back of the Moon", "Not Seen and Not Scattered", as well as the first Lunar New Year film in the history of mainland cinema, "Party A and Party B".
In many of the film and television dramas he directs, Feng Xiaogang is the director, and Xu Fan is his royal heroine.
Under the support of Feng Xiaogang, Xu Fan's popularity has become higher and higher, and he has slowly climbed to the position of a first-line actress in the mainland.
At that time, Feng Xiaogang, career love double harvest, is the most proud time in life.
Only many years later, Feng Xiaogang often had an ambiguous message with female celebrities, and Xu Fan hid his hair and made a statement that "we are men, we do not suffer losses".
But whether you really don't mind, whether the marriage is happy or not, only Xu Fan himself knows best.
05
What made Feng Xiaogang's career take off began by joining Huayi.
With huayi's financial support, Feng Xiaogang also handed over an answer sheet that satisfies the capital and the audience, and the box office is higher than one.
Therefore, Wang Zhonglei, president of Huayi at that time, said with emotion: "Half of Huayi's world was laid down by Feng Xiaogang."
In 2006, Feng Xiaogang was preparing to shoot "The Gathering Number", but he made difficulties in the male protagonist.
"Assembling Number" is a group play, and Feng Xiaogang has put a lot of effort into selecting actors.
At first, Feng Xiaogang wanted to find an old partner Ge You to play Guzidi, but not only Ge You refused, but even the capital did not agree.
You know, Ge Youdu mostly acted in comedies, and he was not cold to such war films.
Compared with Ge You's resistance, Zhang Hanyu is very fond of the role of Gu Zidi.
In order to get the role, he even said that he could play it for zero remuneration.
After that, Zhang Hanyu went through some twists and turns, I don't know if it was his love for the role that conquered Feng Xiaogang, and finally got his wish.
In addition, in the selection of the role of Zhao Erdou, Feng Xiaogang also made it difficult.
At that time, Huang Xiaoming and Deng Chao, both small students who were popular with Huayi, were also in the take-off stage.
Huang Xiaoming has masterpieces such as "Han Tianzi", Deng Chao is not weak, and "Happiness Like a Flower" has also brought him high popularity.
It is said that the two bosses of Huayi Brothers have different preferences for these two.
The elder brother, Wang Zhongjun, likes the steady and loyal Huang Xiaoming.
The younger brother, Wang Zhonglei, prefers the jumping Deng Chao.
But there are so many resources, so the relationship between Huang Xiaoming and Deng Chao in Huayi is very delicate.
Giving resources to either party means that the resources of the other party will be reduced, so competition is inevitable.
At the beginning, Feng Xiaogang was also more optimistic about Deng Chao, and warmly invited him to star in "The Gathering Number".
In the face of Director Feng's invitation, Deng Chao certainly will not shirk, to know how rare such an opportunity is, at that time many stars tried to get a role in the film directed by Feng Xiaogang.
However, later Feng Xiaogang learned from other sources that it turned out that Deng Chao also took over "Sweet Honey" directed by Gao Xixi at that time.
After knowing this, Feng Xiaogang did not want to use Deng Chao, after all, he hoped that the actor could shoot his scenes wholeheartedly.
After that, Feng Xiaogang found Huang Xiaoming, who had previously collaborated on "Night Feast".
Only later, I don't know why, Deng Chao still successfully took over the role of Zhao Erdou in "The Gathering Number", which means that Huang Xiaoming is out.
When filming, because Deng Chao often ran in the two crews, this made Feng Xiaogang very unhappy.
If Feng Xiaogang knew that Deng Chao was not only rolling drama, but also talking sweetly with Sun Li in love, would he directly want to kick Deng Chao out of the crew?
But what Feng Xiaogang didn't know was that worse was still to come.
After filming the scene, Deng Chao was directly absent from the publicity activities of "Gathering Number", which made Feng Xiaogang very annoyed.
Although Deng Chao was absent because he was filming another film of Huayi, "Human Love", Feng Xiaogang was obviously very dissatisfied with it.
At that time, Feng Xiaogang held a fire in Deng Chao's heart, and there was a possibility of eruption at any time.
Soon after, the fuse that made Feng Xiaogang's fire erupt came.
At the MTV festival in 2007, Feng Xiaogang wanted to take this opportunity to promote the movie well, because "The Gathering Number" was about to be released, and it was a critical moment for the promotion of the movie.
I just didn't expect that a good publicity opportunity, Deng Chao used to confess Sun Li.
As a result, the emotional problems of Deng Chao and Sun Li replaced the film and became a hot spot for the media to report.
Feng Xiaogang, who had been robbed of the limelight, directly blackened his face.
Later, in the interview link, compared with the movie, the reporter was obviously more concerned about Deng Chao's emotional problems.
Faced with such a scene, an angry Feng Xiaogang shot directly at the reporter: "No one is interested in movies, you are only interested in your private life, then we don't waste time here." ”
Deng Chao, who reacted, hurriedly hit the round field.
But Feng Xiaogang obviously did not pay the bill, Deng Chao had not finished speaking, Feng Xiaogang directly left with a black face, leaving an embarrassed Deng Chao.
In this way, the 11-year-long feud between the two was concluded.
06
2008 was a bumper year for "The Gathering".
Many important awards have been given to "The Gathering Number".
Deng Chao also won the Best Supporting Actor Award for the drama.
However, when the reporter contacted Feng Xiaogang, he only asked: "Has Zhang Hanyu won the award?" ”
When the camera cuts to Deng Chao, Deng Chao laughs how embarrassed and embarrassed he is.
In Feng Xiaogang's heart, compared with Deng Chao, who is fully engaged in this play, Zhang Hanyu, who is fully involved in this play, is more eligible for the award.
But whether Feng Xiaogang wants to or not, Deng Chao has opened up his popularity because of "Gathering Number".
However, offending the big director, for many years after that, Deng Chao never had the opportunity to participate in the play directed by Feng Xiaogang.
So even today, Deng Chao's home field has always been on TV dramas and variety shows, and his performance in movies is very general.
Several films directed by Deng Chao are also difficult to say.
After Feng Xiaogang prepared to shoot "The Sound of the Wind", the male protagonist was directly replaced by Huang Xiaoming and Zhang Hanyu, and Deng Chao did not have the opportunity to perform in the film.
This movie is the one with the highest recognition of Huang Xiaoming's debut for so many years.
With this movie, Huang Xiaoming suppressed Deng Chao in terms of popularity and popularity.
So in the later "Chinese Partner", Huang Xiaoming is the first male protagonist, and Deng Chao is more like a match for him.
I don't know if Deng Chao felt that staying in Huayi could not see a way out, so he directly chose to leave Huayi in 2011.
After all, Feng Xiaogang in Huayi has a high right to speak, which is incomparable to Deng Chao as an actor.
Today Deng Chao left, tomorrow there will be Li Chao, Chen Chao to make up, but Feng Xiaogang is irreplaceable.
Huayi has also tried to cultivate a new generation of directors, but they have failed one by one.
However, Feng Xiaogang and Deng Chao's grudge did not stop because the two did not cooperate.
In 2015, the reputation of the movie "Villain Angel" starring Deng Chao collapsed.
Seeing this scene, Feng Xiaogang was overjoyed and directly praised a bad review of "Villain Angel".
Later, I didn't know if it was because Deng Chao felt that there was no hope in filming Feng Xiaogang's scene and decided not to put up with it anymore.
Here Deng Chao starred in the movie "Running Man" was released, And Feng Xiaogang directly implied some opportunistic scenes, and a play was only filmed for five or six days.
Deng Chao immediately replied to a post on "Chicken Thieves and Art", saying that art has no unique standard, as if he was fighting back against Feng Xiaogang.
After that, Feng Xiaogang and Deng Chao "competed" many times.
The feud between the two did not end until 2017.
At that time, the two of them played an important role in the entertainment industry.
That year at the Golden Rooster Awards, they both won their own awards, one won the best actor and the other won the best director award.
They blessed each other, embraced each other, smiled and hated each other.
Eleven years of enmity, although Feng Xiaogang's temperament has grown a little, he has to admit that deng Chao has something wrong with whether he is playing a drama or absent from publicity, as well as making a fuss in publicity.
And Deng Chao also paid a great price for this, if he had not offended Feng Xiaogang, perhaps he would have performed better in the film market.
The world is bustling for the sake of profit, the world is bustling for the benefit of going, and the entertainment industry has always been so.
It's just that now Deng Chao is still active in the entertainment industry, and Feng Xiaogang has been "incorruptible and old" and slowly faded out of the film market, which makes people sigh.
And such a change may also be what Xu Fan is happy to see.
After all, there is no need to worry about the husband and one female star after another having an affair.