In the face of Park Shu's "weird" personality, Wu Minfei, who "chased after and forced marriage" 17 years ago, ever regretted it?
In 2019, in the last issue of the variety show "Summer of the Band", Park Shu came to the scene as the finale guest with the new song "No Fear In My Heart".
After performing his own repertoire, Park Shu did not record the entire program in the guest seat according to the program team's plan.
After staying up for more than half an hour, Park Shu suddenly got up and said to the camera and the audience: "It's time, I have to go back to sleep." ”
Subsequently, Park Shu left the recording scene with his own words.
Other guests, contestants and spectators looked at each other.
Even the experienced host Ma Dong was confused by Park Shu's actions, and could only "laugh awkwardly" and ask Zhang Yadong: "Are the bands all quite that?" ”
This is not Park Shu's "big name".
All along, he has been a musical talent with a "weird" personality.
If it were not for Park Shu's wife, Wu Minfei, who used 17 years of tolerance and thoughtfulness to change Park Shu, this musical talent may not appear in the variety show today.
You know, when Park Shu received the invitation to the Spring Festival Gala, he refused, a variety show, how can he compromise?
If it were not for Wu Minfei (formerly known as Wu Xiaomin), Park Shu's personality might have been more "withdrawn".
01
Park Shu has been an introvert since childhood, and will blush when talking to unfamiliar people.
When he was in middle school, his older brother Pu Shi, who was in college, gave Park Shu a guitar, hoping that his younger brother could become more cheerful and confident through music.
Since then, guitar has become Park Shu's best friend and has started his musical path.
In 1995, after two years of college, Park Shu became more and more unaccustomed to the collective life of the school, and his heart was very depressed.
Seeing that their son's mental state was getting worse and worse, Park Shu's parents agreed to their son's withdrawal request and asked him to go home and do what he liked to do.
At that time, Park Shu only liked music.
He carried the guitar on his back and mingled with people who played music.
In less than a year, Park Shu's musical talent was discovered, signed into the Wheat Field Music Company, and in the same year he composed the acclaimed song "Train to Winter".
In 1999, Park Shu released his first album "I Went to 2000", which caused a huge response.
Even if this album is viewed today, the tracks are very good, and each capital can stand alone.
With the popularity of songs such as "Birch Forest" and "Those Flowers" in the album, Park Shu appeared on the Spring Festival Gala stage in 2000 and became extremely popular.
But after becoming popular, Park Shu's personality became more withdrawn, and the complexity around him seemed to have nothing to do with him.
However, with the intrusion of a woman, Park Shu's world has become, in the eyes of outsiders, at least more colorful.
This woman is Zhou Xun.
Zhou Xun, who has no immunity to musical talents, is quickly attracted to Park Shu.
Park Shu, who is 1 meter 8 tall and handsome in appearance, satisfies all of Zhou Xun's fantasies about her boyfriend.
After working on two film and television works, the two finally walked together.
However, Zhou Xun only likes Park Shu's appearance and talent, but his "weird and lonely" personality is unbearable.
In the end, the relationship between the two lasted less than a year and ended hastily.
And the most important woman in Park Shu's life also officially appeared.
02
Her name is Wu Minfei.
The first time I saw Park Shu was at a friend's birthday party.
After taking a look, Wu Minfei's gaze could no longer be removed from Pu Shu's body.
She was absent-mindedly chatting with her friends, glancing from time to time at the simple tree sitting alone in the corner drinking coffee, her eyes covered by long hair.
In the end, curiosity triumphed over reason.
Wu Minfei took the initiative to go up and chat with Park Shu, who was not good at talking, but simply made a "you ask me answer" type response, shy like a little girl.
The party ended quickly, but Park Shu's handsome face, which was slightly rosy because of shyness, occupied Wu Minfei's heart.
It seems that it is fate that Wu Minfei, who has just graduated from the theater and developed in Beijing, signed a brokerage company, and Park Shu is also an artist of this agency.
As a result, the two had the opportunity to meet again.
As the contact deepens, Wu Minfei discovers that Park Shu is actually a simple and introverted boy.
It is certainly not difficult to let a boy with this personality take the initiative to confess.
Wu Minfei, who has a cheerful personality, decided to take the initiative and chase after Park Shu.
In the face of the pursuit of this beautiful girl who is 8 years younger than herself, Park Shu's lonely heart seems to be much warmer.
When Park Shu is in a bad mood, he likes to take the subway, from the beginning to the end, repeating back and forth.
Wu Minfei also took the subway to accompany Park Shu, and on the subway, the two ushered in the next stop - love.
After determining the relationship, Wu Minfei's friends were not very optimistic about the feelings between them.
Some people think that Park Shu is talented and so handsome, and can't give Wu Minfei enough security.
Some people also feel that Park Shu's personality is lonely and inappropriate for the cheerful and lively Wu Minfei.
But Wu Minfei felt that she had met true love.
Some of Pu Shu's practices are incomprehensible to outsiders.
For example, the matter of making money.
At that time, Park Shu was very popular, and the invitations to invite him to perform were constant, and the remuneration was not cheap.
But Park Shu just won't pick up, and the agents are crying and it's useless.
One year, Park Shu even refused the invitation to the Spring Festival Gala, and the owner of the company almost turned his face when he learned about it.
These behaviors that outsiders cannot understand are different in Wu Minfei's eyes - she feels that Park Shu is a person who has an opinion on her own life and is a passionate person.
Under the tolerance of Wu Minfei, the two spent three years in love.
03
In 2004, at the age of 23, Wu Minfei made a bold and important decision to marry Park Shu.
But this is just her own idea, the two have been in love for 3 years, park tree seems to have no intention of getting married.
Wu Minfei was very anxious in her heart, and from time to time expressed her desire to marry to Park Shu.
Just at this time, Wu Minfei's agent got married, and she took this opportunity to "force marriage" to Park Shu: "Let's get married, so that I can be steadfast in my heart." ”
Park Shu looked at the girl who had accompanied her for three years, and didn't think about it for long, then smiled and replied, "Okay! ”
Wu Minfei did not expect Park Shu to agree so cheerfully, and she was overjoyed and threw herself into Park Shu's arms.
In 2005, Wu Minfei and Park Shu were licensed to marry in Beijing.
Girls all dream of having a unique and romantic wedding, and Wu Minfei is no exception.
But Park Shu felt that the wedding was too troublesome, and he didn't like this "fake" hilarity, and he had never prepared for the "wedding".
This huge disagreement, if placed on the average couple, could trigger a violent quarrel.
But Wu Minfei's tolerance and love for Park Shu exceeded most people's imagination.
She respects Park Shu's ideas, does not have the dream wedding, and can live a happy married life.
Soon after the marriage, Park Shu's mental state was getting worse and worse, and after examination, it turned out that he was suffering from depression.
Wu Minfei began to accompany Park Shu at home and missed many performance opportunities, but in exchange for Park Shu's condition gradually improved.
Park Shu feels that living in the city is too noisy and wants to live in the suburbs.
Wu Minfei, who likes the bustle, did not hesitate to agree to Park Shu's request, and they sold their house in Haidian District and rented an apartment on the outskirts of Beijing.
Park Shu also has a habit of shutting himself in his room when he writes songs, and no one will see him.
He knew that this would snub his wife, so he said to Wu Minfei, "When I write songs, you go outside to live and gather with friends and family, it is better than staying at home alone." ”
Wu Minfei superficially agreed to Park Shu, but how could she be relieved to let Park Shu be at home alone.
Many times, Wu Minfei stayed in the vicinity of the apartment by herself, and called Park Shu on time every day to tell him to take medicine on time.
When it came to the meal, Wu Minfei ordered a takeaway and let people send it over.
Park Shu likes to travel, but he likes to go alone, even after marriage, Park Shu will not take Wu Minfei with him when he goes out.
Wu Minfei is completely tolerant of these strange personalities of her husband.
She did not make a fuss, and when Park Shu went to Tibet and Yunnan alone, she would call Park Shu on time every day to remind him of various precautions.
During a phone call, Wu Minfei asked a lot of warm questions, but Park Shu did not reply for a long time.
Wu Minfei sensed something strange and asked Park Shu what was wrong.
Park Shu said softly, "I like to hear your voice and miss you." ”
Hearing her husband's confession on the other end of the phone, Wu Minfei's eyes were red.
Since marriage, Park Shu rarely said such direct "love words" to himself, and now he can hear Park Shu reveal his heart, on the one hand, to prove Park Shu's love for himself, on the other hand, it shows that Park Shu's condition is improving, and he has begun to have passion for life.
How could this not make Wu Minfei excited?
In the 6th year after the two married, 30-year-old Wu Minfei wanted to be a mother, and she wanted a child.
Park Shu is worried about this.
He knew that depression was genetic, and Park Shu, who was deeply affected by it, did not want his children to experience their own suffering.
Therefore, Park Shu refused Wu Minfei's request to have a child.
Wu Minfei inevitably regretted in her heart, but she still respected Park Shu's idea.
In the following time, Wu Minfei focused her mind on career and Park Shu.
Over the years, Wu Minfei has also starred in more and more film and television works, such as "Invincible County Order", "The Next Stop is Happiness", "West Yunnan 1944", "Operation Sharp Arrow", "Journey of No Confusion" and other well-known film and television dramas, Wu Minfei's performance is outstanding.
After filming so many scenes, Park Shu, as a husband, rarely came to the crew to visit the class.
Actors in the same crew sometimes ask Wu Minfei, "Why doesn't your husband come to see you?" ”
Wu Minfei would explain for Park Shu: "He is busy writing songs and can't leave. ”
The actual situation is that in addition to filming, Wu Minfei will also squeeze out time to go home and take care of Park Shu.
The only way to be able to accommodate her husband in this way is love.
Wu Minfei also said: "Everyone has their own way of life, I love Park Shu and can accept everything from him." ”
04
Wu Minfei's love has also been rewarded.
In 2014, Park Shu's condition was very well controlled.
He cut off his long hair, suddenly became a lot more energetic, and also created a popular theme song "Ordinary Road" for Han Han's movie "After Forever".
There is a renewed passion for life, and the friends around me feel this obviously.
In 2014, when Zhou Xun got married, Park Shu rarely sent his blessings on social platforms.
In 2015, Park Shu held a solo concert, and Wu Minfei also went.
What Wu Minfei did not expect was that on the stage of the concert, Park Shu took himself into his arms in front of the audience and the camera lens, and said loudly: "Wife, I love you!" ”
Tears came out of her eyes again, and Wu Minfei felt that marrying Park Shu was a very happy thing.
What surprised Wu Minfei was still behind.
Park Shu, who had never entered the kitchen before, actually began to boil porridge for Wu Minfei.
When Wu Minfei returns from work late, Park Shu will take the initiative to drive her home.
Park Shu has also become more responsible.
When the new song launch was held in 2017, Park Shu said something that surprised many fans - "I want to support my family, I can't grow up forever." ”
Park Shu, who has a little more fireworks, makes Wu Minfei even happier.
Men know how to raise a family, and it's always a good thing.
The fact is also that since 2017, Park Shu has been active in the music scene again.
He not only wrote songs for many film and television works, but also participated in many reality TV shows.
At the end of 2021, Park Shu appeared on the stage of Beijing Satellite TV's New Year's Eve Party again.
In the shot, he is still a short hair and full of spirits.
Park Shu can have such a big change, and the companionship and tolerance of his wife Wu Minfei have played a key role.
Wu Minfei is a woman full of positive energy, optimistic, straightforward and sincere.
She and Park Shu have been married for 17 years, and always use their gentleness and understanding to help Park Shu survive the torture of depression, rekindle Park Shu's enthusiasm for life, and make him become a more grounded man.
Marrying a man with a "weird" personality also reaps a "special" happiness.
After the wind and rain, you can see the beautiful rainbow.
I also wish this star couple in the entertainment industry all the best.
——EMD——