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Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

author:Cowhide Entertainment

In 2007, Pu Shu and Wu Minfei had just been married for less than two years, and it should be said that the two were still in the fresh period of marriage, but their performance made people look very lame.

This year, the couple participated in a variety show, thinking that a couple who had just been married would show their affection at the show site.

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

But what is embarrassing is that Pu Shu's performance makes his newly married wife Wu Minfei eager to find a mouse hole to hide and never appear in public with him again.

Why?

First, because in the chorus of the husband and wife, Pu Shu almost never looked up at his wife, only caring about himself playing the guitar with his head bent, Wu Minfei looked at him many times, but could not catch his eyes.

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

Second, when it came to the interactive session, Pu Shu not only did not express his love for his wife, but also evaluated his wife with an expressionless face and was quite indifferent.

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

Yang Lele couldn't look at it, and felt sorry for Wu Minfei, who had been laughing awkwardly on the side, so under the coaxing of everyone, he forced Pu Shu to kiss Wu Minfei in front of everyone.

Park Shu kissed, but his expression was very reluctant.

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

What makes people feel even more distressed about Wu Minfei is that after Pu Shu kissed, he actually made a disgusting action of frowning and wiping his lips.

Lao Pu's wave of "commotion" operations immediately made his wife Wu Minfei on the side even more embarrassed, making her have to stand there and laugh, purse her lips, and be disappointed.

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

This is not acting, nor is it two strange actors cooperating with the work of the program team, but a real couple, and have just been married for less than two years.

With such a performance, netizens immediately exploded on the Internet, and they all held grievances for Wu Minfei, thinking that Lao Pu did not love his wife at all.

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

But even so, Wu Minfei still did not divorce him, after all, when the two were together, they were Pu Shu that Wu Minfei took the initiative to pursue.

In the 17 years of marriage, Wu Minfei has wanted to have a child many times, but based on Pu Shu's reasons, she has not been able to do so, and finally missed the best period to have a child.

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

So, Wu Minfei, who has been unsatisfactory in her marriage, is her marriage successful?

01

Before Pu Shu married Wu Minfei, he had already been in love with several girls, but there were two that impressed him the most, one was his first love girlfriend Huang Zijia, and the other was "Zhou Gongzi" Zhou Xun.

When she fell in love with Huang Zijia, Pu Shu was not famous in the circle, but Huang Zijia was different, and she was already a very famous screenwriter in the circle at that time.

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

They met in 1998, when Pu Shu, under the support of Gao Xiaosong, was recording his debut album, trying to earn his first pot of gold through this album.

Pu Shu makes music differently from others, he makes his favorite music exactly according to his own ideas, and this style has continued from the beginning.

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

He only finished college until his sophomore year, for the simple reason that college life was too boring to fit his depressed temperament at all.

As university professors, the parents listened to Pu Shu's reason for not wanting to continue studying, making them cry and laugh, even if they were so angry that Old Man Park wanted to whip him, it was to no avail.

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

After school, Pu Shu began to gnaw the old people, did nothing all day, just nestled at home to eat and wait for hunger, when he was really bored, he took his brother's broken wooden guitar to spend time.

A year later, Pu's mother tentatively said to Pu Shu: "Son, you have been at home for more than a year, and it is time to go out and find a job from time to time." ”

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

Only then did Pu Shu realize that he was no longer small, no longer the ignorant teenager, it was time to find a class to make money to support himself, but what class to take.

After thinking about it for many days, Pu Shu couldn't figure out what he could do, after all, at that time, he had no education, no skills, and no strength.

Finally, one day, when he returned to his brother's broken acoustic guitar, he found a way to support himself, and that was to make money by writing songs.

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

So, he found Gao Xiaosong under the introduction of a friend, and at that time, Gao Xiaosong had already become popular all over the country through his song "You at the Same Table".

After Gao Xiaosong read Pu Shu's works, he felt that this old brother had two strokes, and when he learned about it, he found that he not only could write songs, but also sang well.

Subsequently, Gao Xiaosong moved smartly and smelled a good time to make money, so he quickly pulled his good buddy Song Ke to set up a record company called "Wheat Field Music" for Pu Shu.

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

The company's initial signed singer was only Pu Shu, and later there was another Ye Bei, and after the two were introduced to the market, they were very popular with the post-80s and post-90s.

In 1996, Pu Shu released his debut single "Train to Winter", followed by the single "The Long Lost Sea", but the response was mediocre.

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

In order to make Pu Shu quickly popular, Gao Xiaosong found Huang Zijia, who was very talented in the circle, and tried to change Pu Shu's star fortune through her.

In fact, Huang Zijia did have two strokes, and after the release of her "Carry Love to the End", it sold 200 million at the box office that year.

Not only that, she is also the host and producer of "Entertainment Search", and the planner of many programs, and her ability is quite strong.

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

But what she didn't expect was that in the process of cooperation between her and Pu Shu, they gradually developed mutual affection and launched a sweet journey like glue.

During that time, they enjoyed the romance under the moon before the flower while engaging in creation, but over time, the shortcomings of strong women and weak men were completely exposed.

So the people around him began to talk to Pu Shu, saying that he ate soft rice and relied on women to feed, which made it difficult for Pu Shu to accept such a statement for a while.

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

But this was indeed the case back then, and in the end, this beautiful first love ended in a gust of wind.

02

In 1999, Gao Xiaosong found Zhang Yadong, a "musical talent" for Pu Shu, and Zhang Yadong's eyes lit up with gold after listening to his "Those Flowers".

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

So, with the help of Zhang Yadong, Pu Shu's "I Go to 2000" album was born, and the song "White Birch Forest" in the album made Pu Shu popular overnight.

And relying on this song, Pu Shu also received an invitation from CCTV Spring Festival Gala, wanting him to sing this song on stage, but the premise is "lip-syncing".

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

As soon as Pu Shu heard that it was a lip-synch, he refused without saying a word, but the people in the company were immediately anxious, after all, rejecting the Spring Festival Gala means rejecting the opportunity.

No opportunity means that the company can't make a lot of money, so the people in the company began to launch "wheel lobbying" against Pu Shu, but Pu Shu was still unwilling to sing on stage.

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

In the end, his agent was forced by him, pointing at Pu Shu's nose and scolding angrily: "Do you know what respect is, if you don't go to the Spring Festival Gala, you will block the road for all our staff." ”

A sentence woke up Pu Shu, and only then did he realize his responsibility, and finally in the face of reality, he chose to compromise, and then appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala against his will.

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

After the Spring Festival Gala, Pu Shu became even more popular, and Gao Xiaosong took advantage of the victory to pursue and began to take Pu Shu into the entertainment industry, so Pu Shu and Zhou Xun met in the movie "That Year the Flowers Blossom".

When shooting this movie, Pu Shu had broken up with his first love girlfriend Huang Zijia for more than a year, and Lao Pu, who had not touched a woman for a long time, saw Zhou Xun, who was very aura, and immediately had the urge to love.

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

At that time, Zhou Xun had completely mastered the law of the jungle for men, and her relationship with Jia Hongsheng was on the verge of collapse, and the appearance of Pu Shu just gave her the courage to shake off Jia Hongsheng.

So, Pu Shu and Zhou Xun lingered from the play to the outside of the play, staging a love affair between you and me, but this relationship lasted only one year and then separated silently.

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

But one thing is for sure, when Pu Shu and Zhou Xun were together, he lived happily, and it was Zhou Xun who made his big boy, who was not good at laughing, become a chatterbox.

It was also Zhou Xun who made him change from a state of depression to a smile on his face, but with Zhou Xun's departure, Pu Shu seemed to return to his usual appearance.

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

As for the reasons for their breakup, the outside world is also divided, one theory is that the two are separated because they are too busy, one is busy writing songs, and the other is busy filming everywhere.

Even if they finally got together, they lost the little interest between lovers because they were too tired of each other.

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

Another version is that the personalities of the two are not very compatible, Pu Shu is the kind of slow-hot type of man who does not know romance, while Zhou Gongzi has a straightforward personality and dares to love and hate.

Therefore, it is okay for them to be together occasionally, but it is really not suitable at all if they live together.

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

However, although the two have separated, they still maintain contact in private, and occasionally get together to share each other's happiness.

For example, in 2003, Pu Shu released his second album "Birthday Summer Flower", in which the song "I Love You, Goodbye" seems to be written for Zhou Xun.

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

Later, Zhou Gongzi did listen to the song and was deeply moved by the lyrics inside, and when Pu Shu filmed the MV of this song, Zhou Gongzi also played the heroine of this song.

In the MV, the two are like princes and princesses, dressed in gorgeous clothes and dancing together, which also completely touched Pu Shu's fans.

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

Then, there was such a voice between them: compound, compound!

And they also cooperated with the fans' petitions, and at the opening ceremony of the Golden Eagle Festival that year, walking the red carpet hand in hand, Zhou Gongzi was even more smiling and happy.

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

However, two years later, a third person appeared beside Pu Shu, and this person was the woman who had been accompanying him to the present, Wu Minfei.

03

Wu Minfei, also known as Wu Xiaomin, Wu Daining, born in Shanghai in 1981, is a senior student in the Department of Opera Performance, 8 years younger than Pu Shu.

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

This sister is not very famous in the circle, and after graduating from college, she officially entered the entertainment industry because she starred in the TV series "Shanghai Love".

In the following years, Wu Minfei starred in many film and television works such as "So Many Jiao", "Western Yunnan 1944", "I owe you a hug in this life", "Operation Arrow" and so on.

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

But unfortunately, her works did not make her popular, even if she changed her name many times to change the star fortune, but to no avail.

However, her popularity is very good, and she is good friends with many big coffees in the circle, such as Mei Ting, Ma Yili, Reiza and others.

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

She and Pu Shu met at a friend's birthday party, and it is said that Wu Minfei saw Pu Shu for the first time, and she never took her eyes off Old Pu's body that night.

Subsequently, she took the initiative to chat with Lao Pu, but Pu Shu, who was not good at talking, and the conversation between her was like a police officer and a prisoner, you ask me to answer.

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

After the party, Wu Minfei asked for Lao Pu's contact information, and then the two began to communicate.

As the saying goes, women chase men with compartment veil, Wu Minfei's initiative and enthusiasm, quickly won Pu Shu, who is not good at talking, and it didn't take long for the two to start living together.

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

During the relationship, Pu Shu was troubled many times because of work, and Wu Minfei accompanied him silently until he became in a good mood.

In 2005, the two got a low-key license in Beijing and got married, but there was no wedding, no wedding dress, and no honeymoon.

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

It's just that the two families simply had a light meal and took a family photo together, even if they finished the whole process of the wedding.

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

After marriage, the two were busy as usual, Pu Shu still concentrated on his music, and Wu Minfei gradually retired from the entertainment industry and began to switch careers.

But what makes Wu Minfei headache is that she is often compared with Zhou Xun by the media, who call her a low-end version of Zhou Xun and call her a substitute for Zhou Xun.

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

For example, in the first year after marriage, Wu Minfei released her own solo single "Scarecrow", but when it was reported by the media, she was tied to Zhou Xun.

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

Generally speaking, such reports will instantly make a woman jealous and even fall out with her husband, but Wu Minfei did not do this.

She is as Pu Shu said: "If she were that kind of woman, she wouldn't be able to live with me." ”

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

But it was such a life, but soon after marriage, Pu Shu's mental state became worse and worse, he was not interested in anything, and then fell into severe depression.

As a wife, Wu Minfei, seeing such a situation, did not use divorce to escape like some actresses in the circle.

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

Instead, she began to give up her job and spend more time on Pu Shu, and in order to get him out of his illness, she accompanied him to move to the suburbs.

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

In order to get better as soon as possible, Wu Minfei bought him a pet dog and named it Xiaoxiang, and the dog also became Pu Shu's spiritual companion.

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

It is with the company of his wife that Pu Shu slowly became better and better, and in 2014, Pu Shu, who had been absent from the music scene for 10 years, once again shocked the entire music scene with a song "Ordinary Road".

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

However, it was also this year that his Zhou gongzi held a grand wedding in a high-profile manner, so far, the former prince and princess have a mutual destination.

04

In 2015, Wu Minfei wanted to have a child of her own, so she was always preparing and said many times that children are a must.

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

But having a child is not a one-person matter, it must be approved by Pu Shu, but Pu Shu said: "I am not sure that this child will be educated into a good person." ”

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

At this point, Wu Minfei missed the best period to have a child, and when she especially wanted a child, the child still did not come.

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

From her expression, it can be seen how disappointed and helpless she is in her heart, so that she is eager to ask for a son, and said to her good friend Zhang Xinyi in a commanding tone: "Xinyi, you give birth to two, give me one, and I will help you take care of it." ”

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

But even if she feels uncomfortable in her heart, no matter how bad she wishes, what is the use, after all, this is the man she personally chose back then, even if she regrets it, it is too late.

However, with the passage of time and personal maturity, Wu Minfei's patience with Pu Shu also reached the limit, and finally she took the initiative to file for divorce.

She said to Pu Shu: "You put all your best energy in the record, but you left the worst side to me, let's break up, don't consume it so much." ”

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

After Pu Shu listened, at that moment, he suddenly cried, and tried his best to keep his wife and try his best to save his marriage, while Wu Minfei also tried to stay by his side.

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

Since then, Pu Shu has gradually put down music and tried to treat it as a job, and outside of work, he spends more time with his wife.

When it comes to emotional affairs, he is even ashamed of himself that he can't give his wife the best things, and he can't give her a complete life.

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

However, Pu Shu still tried his best to make up for it, and at this year's concert tour, halfway through the singing, his wife Wu Minfei suddenly appeared in the center of the stage.

Pu Shu smiled and took her into his arms, no longer had the disgusted expression he used to have, and declared to everyone: "This is my official wife." ”

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

Not only that, Pu Shu also wrote his wife into his own songs, specially composed a song called "She is in Sleep" for her, and used this song to express his love to his wife many times.

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

Of course, the two of them also had conflicts, and once after the conflict, Pu Shu wanted to find a topic to try to reconcile, and asked Wu Minfei to buy him a pack of cigarettes.

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

Wu Minfei went to buy it, but it was three days after leaving, and he didn't return home until three days later, and many people may be unbelievable in such a way of getting along, but they are like this.

Now the two have gone through ups and downs for 17 years, and Pu Shu is in better and better condition in the company of his wife, and at the "Summer Song Meeting" some time ago, Old Pu seems to have become fat and loves to laugh.

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

And all this is the credit of her wife Wu Minfei, it is her sacrifice that has achieved Lao Pu's happiness, it cannot be said that her marriage is perfect, but her efforts must be worth it.

Because, to love someone is to give willingly, and you don't need much reason.

Married for 17 years, Pu Shu Wu Minfei has repeatedly divorced: why is their marriage not optimistic?

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