Children tend to go through various stages in the process of growing up, and when the little one reaches a certain age, parents will be surprised to find that the child will especially like to bite things, whether it is toys or socks, the baby is not rejected.
However, in this case, parents do not need to worry, this is just the child wants to bite this form, to feel the external world, parents with a normal heart to treat it.
01 Hosted Heata Bening to talk about parenting fun, teasing his wife Li Bai as a "free-range baby"
Speaking of Sabine, the host, I believe everyone is very familiar with it, his program style is always serious and slightly funny, so it is deeply liked by the audience, and such an excellent host is also a crying and laughing look when talking about parenting fun.
After marrying a foreign friend Li Bai, Sabine has been living a very happy life, and now he is also the father of two children, and when it comes to this, everyone will be very curious, is the difference between Chinese and foreign parenting big?
In a variety show, Sabine ridiculed his wife as a completely free-range baby, he said that he was at home, saw the child lying on the ground and chewing slippers but his wife did not have a management, and when he mentioned this matter, his wife Li Bai said: The shoes at home are fine!
The implication is that the shoes at home are not worn out, they are very clean, and the children have nothing to chew on. However, in the eyes of Bao Pa Sabine, even if the slippers are worn at home, they are still very dirty in nature, how can they be left alone? This has led to some parenting contradictions.
02 In fact, the matter of parenting can be described as a public saying that the wife is reasonable
In fact, there is no absolute right or wrong in the matter of parenting, and the difference is only the difference in the way everyone brings a baby.
In general, between young and old people, or between couples with relatively different growth environments, there may be differences of opinion due to some parenting issues.
The elderly may feel that they have the experience of carrying a baby, and the young people will feel that their way is the most suitable for the baby, and the husband and wife will also have different ideas for the baby, such as like Sabine and his wife, there will be great differences in parenting between China and foreign countries, etc. In fact, these are not right or wrong, essentially for the good of the child.
03How are parents' different parenting concepts formed?
1) Influenced by the family of origin
The original family will affect a person's behavior in the world, as well as the cognition and practice of some things, and parenting is the same, each person's birth of the original family is different, and the way of parenting that evolved into the present will be different.
2) Influenced by the cultures you are exposed to
Parents' cultures are different, and their concepts for parenting are also different, so it is inevitable that there will be disunity, or small disputes, and so on.
3) Influenced by their own growth experiences
Everyone's growth experience is different, such as the father from the snack bitter, then with children may also give children a better life, of course, some mothers when they were young life is not valued by the family, with their own children, will be particularly well-taken care of, which has led to different parenting concepts.
In fact, no matter what parents' parenting concepts are, but in essence, they still hope that their children can become an excellent person, so when parents' parenting concepts divergent, what should parents do?
04 When parenting concepts divergent parents can try these three tricks
First of all, have good communication and analyze the pros and cons
In the face of different opinions with children, parents should not rush to strive for their own ideas, but can calm down, find the disadvantages and advantages of their own ideas, and then communicate well.
Second, it is necessary to combine the actual situation of the child
Each child's situation is different, so for the child's parenting style, it is also necessary to analyze it according to the specific situation, combine the characteristics of the child, and find the most suitable way.
Finally, if the child already has their own ideas, then they can be asked for their opinions
When the child is a little older, in fact, he already has his own thinking, so when faced with some parenting differences, parents can also ask more about their children's ideas.
Question of the Day: What differences have your family had over parenting?