When Shen Danping and her husband Uwe Crowett fell in love, There were no laws related to foreign-related marriages in China, but this could not stand her determination to go to love.
In 1960, Shen Danping was born in Nanjing to an ordinary citizen family, and grew up pure and beautiful. It is really outstanding, and the neighbors can't help but look at it a few times and praise a few words.
Shen Danping has loved dancing since she was a child, and after graduating from high school, she applied for the Yangzhou Song and Dance Troupe not far from home. At that time, the exam did not go well, but later he became a famous dance student as he wished, and he performed well in all aspects during the school.
When the state resumed the college entrance examination in 1978, Shen Danping heard that the Beijing Film Academy and the Central Academy of Drama were enrolling students, and she was a little eager to try. With her previous training and accumulation in the song and dance troupe, she was admitted to both art schools. After much deliberation, Shen Danping chose the Beijing Film Academy.
There were many big stars in that class, including Zhou Lijing, Zhang Fengyi, Zhang Tielin, Fang Shu, Liu Jia and so on. Shen Danping's acting career was very smooth, and in her sophomore year, she took over the film "Lily Flower" and came to prominence in the film industry; then, she starred in the film "Night Shanghai", which was called "Xiao Zhou Xuan" because of her superb acting skills.
This film made Shen Danping famous and became a celebrity at the school. But at the same time, it was not only her who caught fire, Shen Danping's classmates who were flourishing, such as Fang Shu and Zhang Tielin, had also taken over the film and broke out of popularity.
Although Shen Danping's career is proud, the road to love is not smooth. During her studies at the Beijing Film Academy, Shen Danping and her classmate Zhang Tielin fell in love. Although Zhang Tielin's face is now greasy, he was a tall, fashionable young man with curly hair.
And Zhang Tielin is particularly able to speak the Tao, understand the psychology of girls, after he promised to chase Shen Danping within a month, Shen Danping indeed became his girlfriend.
Shen Danping invested a lot in this relationship, but Zhang Tielin was not a man who was "weak water three thousand, only take a scoop to drink", and when filming "Under the Bridge", he and Gong Xue had a scandal.
Once Zhang Tielin had a birthday, Shen Danping carefully prepared meals and cakes for him, but Zhang Tielin told Shen Danping on the phone that he was not coming back.
After graduation, Shen Danping and Zhang Tielin were assigned to different cities, and this unequal relationship also ended with Shen Danping's breakup.
The acquaintance of Shen Danping and Wu Wei is quite a bit of love at first sight. At that time, Wuwei opened a café in Beijing, Shen Danping and his friends went there to play, and Wuwei found Shen Danping sitting quietly in the corner in the noisy crowd, with a particularly different temperament.
At first glance, Uwe had a crush on this beautiful girl. Later, Uwe talked about seeing a photo of Shen Danping in "Popular Movie" and was fascinated by her beautiful eyes.
The two soon met again at a gathering of friends, when Wu Wei had been living in China for more than nine years and could speak some Chinese, and he and Shen Danping chatted warmly. Later, there were more exchanges, and the verbal communication was not smooth, so the two drew pictures and conveyed their intentions.
The real leap in the relationship between the two is thanks to Beijing's power supply system. Once Shen Danping and Wu Wei were together, the power suddenly went out, and in the darkness Shen Danping felt that her face was kissed.
Shen Danping felt that Wu Wei was also too casual, so she kissed me like this. But she had already felt Uwe's heart at that time, so she asked him bluntly: Do you like me?
The two began a formal relationship, Uwe romantic, "I love you" often hang on the lips, at every turn to send perfume, lipstick and other small gifts. And Shen Danping also because Uwei loves to eat Chinese food, he learned to make food in his dormitory, and so far Uwei still praises Shen Danping's beef pot stickers.
Shen Danping once returned to her hometown of Nanjing, missing her lover Wu Wei called her every day, the phone at that time was to be transferred, three to two, Shen Danping's mother, who was the director of the neighborhood committee, knew about her daughter.
When Shen Danping's parents learned that their daughter, who was like a jade flower and a bright future, planned to marry a German man who was 15 years older than her, it was a hundred objections, even to the point of "having him without us".
Don't look at Shen Danping's gentle appearance and very persistent in her treatment of love. This time, she believed she had found the right person. She insisted on marrying Uwe, and wrote a long letter to her parents of more than a dozen pages.
It just so happened that the state later promulgated the institutional law on foreign-related marriages, and Shen Danping was able to marry Wu Wei in name only. However, the combination of Shen Danping and Wu Wei took some twists and turns. At that time, the approval of foreign-related marriages was very strict, in order to marry a foreigner, Shen Danping stamped more than twenty stamps before and after, and finally had to beg her parents to press their fingerprints on the documents.
Because the visa was about to expire, Wu Wei faced the problem of returning to China, and Shen Danping followed her husband to a foreign country. In the third year of marriage, their love crystal Dan Dan was born, bringing a lot of joy to the couple.
However, life in a foreign country is not what Shen Danping yearns for, where the language is not common and the diet is not used to it. Shen Danping proposed to Wu Wei the idea of returning to China. Wu Wei did not want to leave, Shen Danping threatened to divorce, and Wu Wei, who had always loved his wife as his life, agreed.
Later, they welcomed their second daughter, Anna, and the family of four lived a quiet and stable life in China. After all, it is a transnational marriage, although the two come together because of love, there is inevitably friction in the days of getting along day and night.
Shen Danping loves to be clean and washes and teases at home every day, while Uwei is a well-known "slacker". The youngest daughter Anna broke the news in the show, and when her father finished eating, he pushed the plate and never cleaned it up. If Shen Danping goes out to shoot a scene, when she goes home, the plates and bowls can be stacked high in the pool, and there is still a lot of garbage mixed in.
In terms of housework, Wu Wei never shared it with Shen Danping. Not only does not share, Shen Danping works, he also "adds chaos" on the side. Once Shen Danping was mopping the floor at home, and Wu Wei hugged her from behind and said sweet love words to her. Shen Danping didn't bat an eyelid and scolded angrily, "Roll."
"Hey, Shen Danping, what about your love?" Uwe especially did not understand why his home needed to be so clean.
Doing housework is hard, Shen Danping and Wuwei choose to hire a nanny, but Uwei's standard is comparable to Jacky Cheung's wife, and he wants people to be able to do it, but also to dress up and have eyes. Due to Wuwei's high requirements, Shen Danping's family changed nearly 50 nannies before and after.
Wuwei's economic conditions in Germany are good, and when traveling, you always have to live in a high-quality five-star hotel, but Shen Danping feels that it is almost ok, and it is best not to waste. But there is no way, two people together always have to accommodate one party to the other.
When Shen Danping was busy, she didn't like WuWei to be tired of her, but Wuwei liked to pestering her and flirting with her. After living in China for decades, Wu Wei did not know what Dunbu was, and Shen Danping was so angry.
Once, Shen Danping kicked Wu Wei from the bed to the ground because of her husband's inadvertent behavior. Uwe smiled and climbed up, not angry.
Shen Danping's daughter said that my mother can talk about divorce 100 times a day. Although the quarrel is noisy, the couple's feelings have not been damaged by the quarrel, their respective personalities and habits can not be changed, the couple each gives a step, the life is still quite beautiful.
After thirty years of grace and love, Shen Danping still couldn't stand WuWei's sloppiness and laziness, and Wuwei didn't understand why the quiet and gentle girl of that year had become the nagging look she is now.
But they still loved each other, and they loved each other deeply. In the words of Shen Danping's daughter, my mother is the queen at home.
A romantic passion, who wants to express love anytime, anywhere; a virtuous tradition, full of saving money and taking care of the home. In the noisy days, Wu Wei and Shen Danping explored a set of suitable ways of getting along with themselves, and lived the ordinary days out of fireworks and the taste of thin water flowing.