Some children, very lively at home, but as soon as they go out, they pull the clothes of adults tightly, and they do not play with other children, and there are guests at home, always hiding behind their parents, and even crying.
In layman's terms, the child is recognized, from a professional point of view, the child is called "strange anxiety", refers to the baby to the contact with strangers to produce a phenomenon of fear, generally 6 months to 2 years old baby is more likely to appear, of course, there are earlier, there are later, vary from person to person.
If the baby appears to recognize the situation, parents do not have to worry, and do not define the baby, saying that the baby is timid, introverted or something, this is actually a socialized performance in the baby's development process, is a stage to be experienced when the baby grows and develops, and is also a manifestation of the baby's cognitive ability, perception ability, discrimination ability, memory ability and emotional and interpersonal relationship development, that is, in fact, this is a manifestation of the baby's growth and becoming smarter.
From the moment the baby fell to the ground, everything around them was strange to them, and it was a kind of learning and challenge. As babies grow older, they respond to everything they can perceive through emotions and behaviors before they learn to speak.
So, is the baby born well or badly?
Some people think that the baby recognizes the birth, indicating that the baby is smarter, so small there is a distinction between relatives and estranged, not afraid of being deceived. Of course, there are also people who hold the opposite opinion, believing that babies who do not recognize birth are smarter, born with social skills, and can become people who control the right to speak in the future.
In fact, this cannot be evaluated with good or bad. Baby recognition is related to the improvement of the baby's cognitive level and the establishment of attachment feelings.
As the baby's cognitive ability increases, they begin to have imagination and have a certain memory ability, and as time goes on, they can remember more and more things, become more and more familiar with people close to them, and begin to have separation anxiety.
Therefore, when you go to an unfamiliar environment, or when you meet a strange person, you will strongly seek the protection of your mother or father, and therefore there will be a situation of resisting the contact of strangers, which is to recognize life.
Therefore, when the baby appears to recognize the birth, parents should not be anxious, they can do this:
Adapt to your baby's sense of security
Don't feel embarrassed that your baby refuses to be approached by others, or reluctantly holding your child to cater to a friend or acquaintance. The baby's sense of security is innate.
We know that after the baby is born, when the baby and the mother are still observing in the delivery room, the midwife will hold the baby by the mother's side, and the baby will behave quietly.
0-3 years old is the most critical period for babies to establish a sense of security, and parents must meet the baby's sense of security needs.
Soothe your baby at the right time
When the baby sees a stranger feeling scared or crying, the mother should comfort the baby in a timely manner, can hold the baby in her arms, stroke the baby or gently soothe the baby.
Through physical contact, or the comfort of the mother's language, let the baby feel loved and protected. Although a baby of a few months can't understand what you're saying, the best sound in the world for your baby is your mother's voice.
More interaction, more contact, exercise your baby's ability to adapt
We found that babies who were often taken out in contact with the outside world were more courageous and adaptable. At this time, you can't lock up your baby at home because you recognize birth, and block your baby's contact with strangers or unfamiliar environments.
When the baby is about 3 months old, he will have a certain reaction to the outside world. After 6 months, I became more and more interested in things outside. Therefore, usually take the baby to contact some new environments, interact with other people more, and slowly the baby's adaptability will become stronger and stronger.
It is easy to give birth to children and it is difficult to raise children, and every stage of the baby's growth and development makes parents worry a lot.
For a young life, parents are their patron saints; for parents, cute babies are their little angels. I wish every parent a loving heart; I wish every baby a healthy growth.