The season of encounter: Chen Xin'er's neuroticism, the small sweet potato is pitiful, making the love between Jian Hongcheng and Ning You taste bad
When I first started watching the TV series "Meet the Season", I was once very disgusted with Chen Xin'er (played by Lian Lian), as the best student bully in the "Four Masters of Linshui", after divorcing Jian Hongcheng (played by Lei Jiayin), she became a neurotic single mother.
Suspicious of ghosts all day long, as soon as there is a disturbance, he immediately abandons his son "Little Sweet Potato" and flies to Shanghai to question Jian Hongcheng, or finds trouble for Ning Yu (played by Yuan Quan).
Although she was divorced, after watching her paranoid and neurotic actions again and again, she felt that Jian Hongcheng was right to choose divorce in the first place! And it is also very poor little sweet potato, for him who does not see his father several times a year, his mother's crazy personality is really a double injury.
Single mothers are not easy
At the beginning, Chen Xin'er was really wrong in many of the ways of education for her son, and she threw her young son to her neighbors at every turn and went to find her ex-husband theory. Moreover, in the details of life such as disciplining small sweet potatoes to eat, Chen Xin'er was too strict and tough.
But as everyone knows, Chen Xin'er actually loves small sweet potatoes, since being enlightened by Ning Yu, Chen Xin'er is ready to change her mind, find a job again and step into society, want to realize self-worth, and want to set an example for her son.
She did exactly what she said, taking care of her son while trying to find a job. Small sweet potatoes because of eating unclean takeaway caused food poisoning, Chen Xin'er alone with her son drip, all night without sleep.
It was not easy for her son to recover, and she interviewed non-stop, and a sincere language impressed the middle level of the company's personnel department. Chen Xin'er is really actively changing, as if she was reborn.
Single mothers are not easy, and single mothers in the workplace are even more difficult. Chen Xin'er is not unaware that the road ahead is very hard, but when the flame in her heart is ignited, she has the momentum to live.
Of course, a large part of her change is because of her son. Whether it is work or future life, small sweet potato is Chen Xin'er's most important sustenance, and she is really trying to become a better mother.
Jian Hongcheng was an incompetent father
When his son had food poisoning in his little sweet potato, what was Jian Hongcheng doing? After accompanying Tian Jingye (played by Jia Nailiang) to deal with the trivialities after the divorce, he still can't let go of the past around Ning Yu!
I admit that when Ning Yu said that when Jian Hongcheng dropped out of school, she really cared about these words, I was very touched by the misses and regrets of the two young people.
Not only me, the audience, but also the person in the play, Jian Hongcheng, was shocked when he heard Ning Yu say that he cared about himself. Then he burst into tears, and breaking up with Ning You was the biggest pain point in Jian Hongcheng's life!
Even if he later started a family, he actually never let go of the love of his youth in his heart. And as Ning Yu's memory flashed back, I once again lamented the hatred of the two families, and really broke up the two of them.
Looking at the young girl Ning You, who was hiding on the platform and crying with tears in her heart, she couldn't help but feel sorry for all the love and hate of her youth, and at that moment, she drilled her heart into her bones!
However, even if Ning You and Jian Hongcheng's love affair is pitiful, this does not affect my dissatisfaction with Jian Hongcheng's care and concern for the little sweet potato!
Jian Hongcheng is indeed very busy, busy with the company's listing, but I really don't see how busy he is, but instead runs back and forth to Linshui all day long, either to deal with Ning Shu 's (played by Zhang Yixing)'s revenge trouble, or to pay attention to Ning You's divorce from Hao Qinglin, and then to solve Tian Jingye's various bad things.
Jian Hongcheng put more energy into the old lover and friend, and the life of his ex-wife Chen Xin'er, it can be said that he did not care! Since the last time Chen Xin'er calmly left, Jian Hongcheng felt that this big trouble had finally subsided, and he had never asked about his ex-wife's life since then, including his ex-wife looking for a job, and he didn't know it.
Yes, Jian Hongcheng did give Chen Xin'er a high amount of child support, but after all, Chen Xin'er did not remarry, and Jian Hongcheng should not only give money and ask nothing else, right?
The point is that Jian Hongcheng's concern for small sweet potatoes is not enough! In the play, every time he videoed with his son, it was basically because Chen Xin'er made trouble, and he arranged for his own people to watch the little sweet potato. Jian Hongcheng's feelings for the small sweet potato are not deep, thinking that he only needs to pay for it, and other things do not need to be concerned.
Even if the small sweet potato is food poisoning because of eating takeaway, Chen Xin'er does not dare to say that she is afraid of being scolded. But Jian Hongcheng did not know, and the fundamental reason was not that he paid little attention to the details of his son's daily life?
The children of their own hands do not treat them with much care, but they are more and more enthusiastic with Ash! Jian Hongcheng also helped Ash solve the bullying incident of his classmates, and also accompanied Ash ash to practice boxing to vent his emotions, and even ate with Ash to teach him social skills, and also gave Ash advice.
Jian Hongcheng and Ash are getting closer and closer, in the happy time with Ash Ash, has he ever thought of a young sweet potato in Shenzhen, and he also needs such a good temptation? Do you also need his delicate care and companionship?
Jian Hongcheng is not only an incompetent father, but also a very irresponsible father, who has the patience to be friends with Gray Ash to improve his image in each other's minds, but he is not delicate enough to treat his own son.
Chen Xin'er is just a "tool man"
Chen Xin'er finally found out that Jian Hongcheng and Ning You had contacts, and it was indeed wrong for her to secretly follow Jian Hongcheng, and she should not pull the teacher to evaluate herself.
But did Jianhong achieve the right thing? Chen Xin'er paid too much for her, in order to help Jian Hongcheng start a business, she went to steal the company's planning book, and as a result, she lost the job of a first-class large company and gradually became out of touch with society.
After giving birth to a son to Jian Hongcheng, the child was divorced only a few years old, Chen Xin'er's inner grievances and unwillingness, Jian Hongcheng did not understand at all, and did not want to think in a different position, he would only feel that Chen Xin'er was unreasonable.
From Chen Xin'er's crazy questioning, it can be seen that she finally understands the fact that Jian Hongcheng has never loved herself, so she will ask Jian Hongcheng with pain: You have no feelings for me, why did you marry me?
The tragedy of Chen Xin'er's marriage could not be more obvious!
She is a "substitute", although not Ning You's "substitute", but after Jian Hongcheng learned that Ning You married Hao Qinglin, her inner pain could not be vented, and she could only use marriage to cut off the "tool person" of the love thread.
Don't blame Chen Xin'er's hysteria after waking up from a big dream, her experience really made me very sympathetic.
Jian Hongcheng never really loved her, and the love was always Ning You! In front of Ning You, even Chen Xin'er, who bore a son to the Jian family, was like a poor "joke"!
The tragedy of Chen Xin'er's marriage is actually paying for the love affair between Ning You and Jian Hongcheng!
It can only be said that the single Jian Hongcheng and Ning You after the divorce are getting closer and closer, constantly sprinkling salt on Chen Xin'er's wounds.
Every time Jian Hongcheng met and chatted with Ning You, for Chen Xin'er, it meant "punching her face" fiercely again and again, reminding her how miserable and sad she was.
In the face of Chen Xin'er's trouble, this time Ning Yu was not weak, but in front of the teacher and Tian Jingye, he said harsh words: Even if I am with Jian Hongcheng, he is unmarried and I am not married, why do you talk about it!
But from Chen Xin'er's point of view, why didn't she accuse?
Should she just put up with it?
The more I looked at it, the more I felt that Jian Hongcheng and Ning Yu were good at selfishness, for the love of the two, one let the mother and brother move to Hainan, and also hid from the son, and the other lost Chen Xin'er.
Especially Jian Hongcheng, there are too many hearts! His various behaviors finally made me understand why Chen Xin'er was so neurotic in the first place.
In fact, behind Chen Xin'er's madness at every turn, there is a big change in the love between Jian Hongcheng and Ning You!