The parenting cheats learned in Yi Qianxi, Qianxi's family is also an ordinary living class, but Qianxi's mother is a woman with courage.
Quitting his job to stay at home full-time with his children, in order to get his children a better education, he moved from Hunan to Beijing and lived in Changping in order to save money.
Since Qianxi was two years old, Qianxi has tried face changing, magic, gourd silk, Chinese dance, ethnic dance, Latin dance, choreography. After trying it, I found that he had a great talent in dance. Start studying hard.
Living in Changping, spending more than two hours on the road every day, Qianxi's mother often brought a cutting board, wrote homework on the car, changed clothes, and ate. This saves time.
And Qianxi's mother is also a cruel person, only when she has time, she will go to the scene to accompany her children to learn, if conditions permit, she will also pay her own money and follow a piece of learning.
How many mothers can do this and spend a lot of time and money with their children. This means almost sacrificing your own life entertainment, all the time around the child, anyway, I did not do it, should be like Qianxi's mother to learn too many places. It feels like the gap is too big.
Qianxi's mother left the daily expenses of the family behind, and all the remaining money was smashed on the child. One of her most reasonable sayings is that only after trying, you know what you are good at.
In fact, I have tried this road, my daughter is in the second year of junior high school this year, and she learned to dance at the age of five when she was a child. After half a year of study, one day the husband went to pick up the child, the dance teacher was pressing the child to tear his legs, the daughter was crying, the husband blew up on the spot, and the dance teacher had a big fight. Go home and check on the Internet, some children because of the practice of dance caused by the paralysis of the lower limbs, dead or alive do not agree to learn again, had to give up.
Then at the age of six, I went to learn to sing, and at first I was a handsome little brother to teach, and my daughter was enthusiastic about learning, as for the level? I don't have all five tones, so I can't understand them. After practicing for four months, the little brother resigned, changed a middle-aged uncle to teach, the daughter went for a week, and she did not learn, because this uncle was not as good looking as the brother, and he did not like to sing. The biggest gain in these four months is that I found that my daughter is a yan control.
Later, I tried drum kits, ukulele, gourd silk, abacus, taekwondo and so on. The short study days, the long study months, did not stick to it. The summary found that the reason for the failure, one is that the child really has no talent, the other is that we dot on the child, eat some pain, the child cries, and gives up halfway, hoping that parents will learn from it.
In the end, I only learned eloquence and electronic keyboard, and I stopped practicing until I graduated from elementary school, because junior high school was busy and I had no time to learn. Eloquence benefits the most. In elementary school classes, you can participate in lectures and moderate. Reading the text is even more important. Came in junior high school, some activities of the school, the daughter is the host.
But compared with Qianxi, a heaven, an underground, although there was some fame and fortune in those days, now I want to open, and the child is safe and happy.
After all, Qianxi's success, in addition to his own efforts, that talent, that appearance, are all god's appreciation of food, which is beyond the reach of ordinary people.